I am a retired Army Officer, stable, have my own money, house, and cars. Divorced and live on a secluded 5 acre mini-farm in the woods with a hot tub. Love laughter, touching, holding hands, movies, shopping for antique furniture, restoring antique cars and just cuddling on the sofa. I have a somewhat sarcastic and ironic sense of humor and love to converse with a sexy, intelligent woman. Love traveling, either on my bike or car, vacation at Hedonism in Jamaica and attend bike events are some of the things I enjoy and would love to share with someone. In respectable shape and expect the same. I am D/D free and tested twice yearly and expect the same from you. Looking for a fit sexy woman that loves sex and looking sexy...an exhibitionist would be perfect. Not looking to get married but you never know, just want to spend time with women looking for someone who wants to share intimate times together and have fun. Someone willing to try things outside the same old thing. I have experience in the BDSM, D/s, and the Swinging lifestyles and always concentrate on pleasing my partner. I love giving her orgasm after orgasm until she pushes me away, exhausted, then we'll rest and start again. You must like to kiss, to touch and hold hands and display your affections. If our relationship develops into something LTR that would be fine. I am NOT a hit and run guy and will not have sex with you until we get to know each other but I will give a sensual spanking....one of my favorites.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a sexual woman that likes to look for ways to keep the relationship hot, one who is not afraid to experiment or at least try new things.

She must love to touch and kiss at home and in public, holding hands and an occasional grope are forms of foreplay that can lead to fun later. A bit of exhibitionism is a big plus.

She has to have her own popcorn at the movies (some thing's I just don't share.)

Intelligence, open to exploring, curiosity and the ability to maturely consider trying new things are important.

Being submissive is a plus as is HWP and long hair. None of these are deal breakers, but a lack of a sense of humor is, if I can laugh at myself then you should be able to see the humor in your foibles.

I want a relationship with a woman who loves sex, knows the difference between loving and sex, wants an educated gentleman for a companion not a set of muscles without a brain.

My Mother taught me to be a Southern Gentleman and I wouldn't do anything to disappoint her. I'm a devoted Harley rider, I love old cars and antique furniture, play a mean game of pool and like the solitude of my mini-farm.


The willingness to try fantasies, yours or mine and able to just enjoy each other in a loving relationship is the goal whether it's short term or long term.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, exhibitionism, anal sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
none, I only like sex with real people!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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