4herpleasurehere 41 / M
"Looking for a woman's sexual essence"
Wheeling, Illinois, United States
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Member Since: July 18, 2005

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4herpleasurehere 41/M
Wheeling, Illinois
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I work by myself running my own business. I have little access to people so you now understand why I am on this site. I am intellectual who loves mentally stimulating conversation having triple majored in college. I am self employed, looking to grad school, and am looking to teach college in the future. I have been told I am intelligent, intense, electric, introspective, and a good listener. I am also a musician who writes his own music and am currently putting a band back together. I can do almost any social scene but just don't drag me to the club every night. I have a few mottos that I live by: "Life is too short for bad food, bad coffee, bad beer, bad music, bad love, bad sexual intercourse, and bad intellectual discourse","You never lose if you always learn from why you lost", and "To think outside the box, you have to live outside it",

My Ideal Person I am open to fun, FWB, or dating any one who sparks my interest and getting into LTR if it develops.....The most important character trait a woman should have in any sexual setting is sincerity of sexual stimuli, if you are doing for anything less that isn't arousing which is boring.

In a LTR, I am looking for my mental, emotional, sexual, intellectual equal. A woman who can be herself and isn't afraid of that. An outgoing conversationalist is a must. I would prefer an intellectually minded girl, but can survive without one. A self-secure, confident, woman would be a bonus. Please leave your issues at the door as my rate for counseling is extravagant. Also, a woman who doesn't hide behind best behavior or keeps to herself. An open minded, expressive, self revealing, self actualized (meaning you can think above culture, belief, opinion) woman is a must. I like being romantic for a woman who can bring it out in me. Sex isn't all of a relationship, but it is a part, and it is a priority like all other elements that maintain intimacy. I don't judge women on their open sexuality since it's a double standard to do so and this cultural manifestation will not change unless it starts somewhere. A solid relationship should take care of all needs of the people involved as that is what makes you compatible. Last but least, anything you say to any family member, any friend, any acquaintance, any doctor, any lawyer, any counselor or shrink, any sex therapist, anything you say to yourself in your own head or anything you write in a diary/journal, you should be able to say to your partner in a relationship-if you don't get this then you have no idea what intimacy is.

  • 41 / male
  • Wheeling, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: June 15, 1975
Travels to: Eau Claire, Wisconsin, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some grad school
Occupation: Finance
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
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