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Why is it 2003-12-11
Why is it that some people can not take no for an answer. After
all aren't we all adults here? I come across this all
the time. Call me picky if you want to but, this is a free country
and we all have the choice of who we want to be with. It just
irks me when someone writes to me and I very nicely tell them
I don't feel there is any spark or chemistry and many
times I have gotten very nasty ...
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Try to be considerate 2003-12-09
I have attempted some contacts on AdultFriendFinder but only a couple have
replied. I realize that the ladies here probably get more
email than most of the guys and it is hard to answer all of
them but would it hurt you ladies to try to at least send a
real message (not auto-reply) response even if you aren't
interested? I'ld like to think I'm considerate
and not crude in my contacts, it would be nice to ...
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how to tell a woman no thanks 2003-11-28
If you meet a woman and find out it is'ent there.
Just be a gentalman and finish the date and take her back
to her car or home, and tell her thank you for the date but
I just don't think it was there what we are both looking
for but i did have a good time and hope we still can chat and
be friends, i don't want you to think it's you it's
just i don't feel that spark. do you know what i'm ...
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Anyone else have problems saying "No" when presented w/fine opportunities? 2003-11-23
I mean, when a woman you KNOW is bad for you wants you and she
is really fine....does anyone else have a problem saying
"no" when you know you should?
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Just another one liner???? 2003-11-19
When you men send a response to a female and all it says is
Great tits! lets fuck! With no pic and then on YOUR profile
nothing filled out! Well I guess we should just allll jump
on that one right girls! We women at AdultFriendFinder DO get to pick and
choose who we consider to be OUR hottest choices! I admit
it I sure do! MY fuck friends are in my book of HOTTIES! Sooooooo
maybe when you ...
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how do you say no and be nice 2003-11-13
sometime i am looking to hook up w/ someone over the internet,
and then they send me their picture and it makes me want to
hurl! i'm not trying to be mean but that's the truth.
in any case, how do you say "no thanks" without
being a complete jerk?
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Just say no 2003-11-11
When someone say's No, they must, and do mean it.
If it's you out there, wanting to say no, and you can't
because you are scared to hurt there feelings, just say
no.
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How to react when a lady say "no thanks"? 2003-11-09
I meet a lady friday. During weeks she send me e-mails saying
she was very intersted to meet me. A lot of teezing, you know.
We could pass the night together, make love all night, ...
I meet her at the restaurant, I pay everything. And then
she says "no thanks". It is really an abuse.
A lot of manipulation. And then she goes at an other get together
and she tell me! I mean... ...
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How to say no thanks online 2003-11-09
Let's say that you've been talking to someone
online for a few weeks. You are really getting to know each
other and the way she described herself really makes you
think that she is attractive. Then when she finally sends
you a picture you find that she is extremely unattractive.
How do you let her down. Do you just stop talking to her, do
you tell her that she is ugly. What do you do?
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Why would you ignore an Auto-Reply? 2003-10-30
I have auto reply set up and it clearly states that if you
don't get a reply... then you probably won't get
one, so thanx, but no thanx.
<br>
Being a (really hot) single woman on this site means that
I get lots of emails every day. I don't spend all my free
time on the internet and I'm here because I don't
really have the time nor inclination to go out and meet people
and ...
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Sex site 2003-10-30
this is the AdultFriendFinder site. If all you are looking
for is friends and NOT sex...then try the regular friendfinder.com
site
I really hate getting responses saying..."lets
be friends"...I want to fuck!
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Single Girl meeting Couples 2003-10-26
I am a single hot girl with a passion for men and women. I have
met with several couples on AdultFriendFinder. Some experiences were
great, some left a bad taste in my mouth. I've finally
learned how to leave feeling great.
<br>
Here's the dilemma: once all three of you have ackgnowledged
you find each other attractive and you are all horny, how
do you say no after meeting on a sex website?
...
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Reality check for guys from a guy......... 2003-10-23
To all the guys who are complaining about the lack of responces
from women I have one suggestion for you....
Go to the browse page and checkout the numbers of women vs
men in your state....
I'm thinkin you're gonna find that men out number
the women by a large margin... As much as 10 to 1 in some cases....
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out....
They get more responces ...
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Why does it have to be so difficult? 2003-10-13
In everyday life, it's easy for someone to say "No",
or "No Thank You" in just about any given situation.
Why, then, is it so difficult for someone to respect those
words when you're behind closed doors. In personal
experience(s), we've run into a few pushy people.
I think it's a common thing really. However, those
people have completely respected our wishes. Out at a club,
it takes a ...
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Response to Be Nice Take The Time......... 2003-10-13
Are you kidding me?!?!?!?!?! Saying that anyone on this
site must be responsible and to respond to someone is absolutely
ridiculous!!!!! We respond to everyone that takes the
time to send us something, it's called courtesy, but
we're not obligated or responsible for making sure
someone doesn't get their feelings or pride hurt on
a swinger's site. While your article may not pertain
directly ...
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Polite in the reply 2003-10-12
Some ladies do have the curtesy to reply even with a "not
interested" note. Thank you; I do appreciate it.
I reply to everyone who writes to me, eventually.
<br>
Now and then, the reply is... rude. Such as "F*** off!!!"
or "You are swinging without your wife? That's
how people die!" One lady berated me for sending a
fantasy based on the interests she listed combined with
my own ...
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My Boss' Sex Deflowered 2003-10-12
I was deflowered by my boss the third month I joined this
company. I was 20 then, with no sex experience at all because
my family was very strict with me. I remembered working
very late that night, when my boss called me into the conference
room. He locked the door behind my back and I was surprised.
Then he come up to me, and hold me around my waist. He whispered
in my ears that my ...
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Re: I wish I could say "no thanks"without losing him!!... 2003-10-10
If your partner can’t see what swinging is doing to you,
he must be either remarkably unperceptive or just pretending
he hasn’t noticed. He sounds very insensitive to me. I appreciate
that you just don’t want to lose him. However the hard truth
is that you must let him know how you feel. If he fails to respond
in a suitably sensitive manner, then I’m afraid you should
dump him. ...
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If two is company.....Is three a crowd? 2003-09-26
I am writing this in response to some articles regarding
whether or not to allow a third person into the relationship,
whether it be for a one time thing or an occassional repeat
and how to tell your significant other no if your not interested.
<br>
First of all, I can only speak through my experience and
would like to state that it's going to be different
for everyone. With ...
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Re: Move out and draw fire 2003-09-24
I suggest meeting in person ahead of time to mutually agree
that all parties are satisfied. If not, we should be able
to enjoy a couple of drinks and politely part ways. I feel
that this is much more respectful to everyone involved
and you probably won't even have to block them out.
Perhaps you may have made a real friend that you'd like
to hear from, from time to time.
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Don't judge too fast 2003-09-20
There is this article in this category about replying.
I strongly agree on that one, only I am not so naief to think
they didn't get the message in the first place.
<br>
What is the use of putting and add here and not responding?
If you get to many, block yourself, otherwise be friendly
and reply.
<br>
Also don't forget you can't judge a book by the
cover. You never ...
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Please be honest with people... 2003-09-18
I know that there are many out there that need not read this,
but there are too many that should read it and learn something
from it. I would like to make an observation and interject
my opinion about how people respond or more so do not respond
to emails on this site and many others like it. If a person
takes time to write an email to someone is it not polite to
say no thank you if there ...
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Ladies, be assertive! 2003-09-15
... Oft times do I find myself making moves that cause discomfort
to a lady friend, but I would learn to not do such things around
her were she not afraid to tell me that is bothers her.
... I know, I heard it all before, a lady is afraid to tell
her guy friend what she doesn't like because she's
scared she'll drive him away or make him angry. But
listen up, if such minor things can send ...
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What's the big deal? 2003-06-30
Who cares if someone doesn't get back to you. In principle
it should be their loss. If you use your imagination in your
mail and try to be noticed and try to be human and speak to
them like they are a person it may warrant a response. What
woman wants to respond to a picture of a nine inch dick? Maybe
some do but I doubt it. Bear in mind most men will send something
to almost any woman ...
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RE: this is funny to me 2003-04-23
Your argument about "immorality" is total
nonsense.
<br>
Let me get this right, you meet with people after only veiwing
one pic?
<br>
We answer all mail unless it is obvious that the sender was
completely inapropriate in that they are way, way to heavy
or it is otherwise really apparent they didn't read
or profile. (Like if the wife is 200 lbs, or the mail is from
a ...
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Move out and draw fire 2003-04-17
I have on several occasions been "deceived"
by women on this site. By deception I mean that their photos
were taken in positions which made them look fairly comely.
When meeting the ploy was obvious. What to do? You take care
of business (Whatever you discussed) and then move out
and draw fire. That is to say: Don't insult her, Endure
the evening, Never contact her again, Put her on all of ...
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I ask for a reason 2003-03-31
Online etiquette is absolutely ridiculous, people are
rude and obnoxious anyway, let alone self centered, Ive
been online for a very long time, the chat rooms are "issue
rooms" people that sit in front of a machine to talk
to other people are simply ridiculous with very serious
issues about communication and life in general. I grew
tired of it years ago and found myself sucked back into it ...
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Response to 2003-02-19
It would be nice if we women could respond with a "no thanks"
and have that be it. BUT, I know in my experience, that lots
of guys don't take that as the end. They write back, saying
things like "Why don't you think we are compatible" or "Give
me another chance, you won't be sorry", etc...etc... It
is especially annoying when it is apparent the guy has not
even READ your profile first. ...
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in response to 'not only women' 2003-02-09
I believe the 'secret code' is she didn't have sex on the
first date.
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It's the old addage, slut in the bedroom; mom in the kitchen.
If you don't agree to sex on the first date you are a prude.
If you DO agree to sex on the first date you are a slut, they
think (yes, i did see wheels turning once) if she's 'putting
out to me' who else is she putting out with? and then they ...
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Women need to decline more respectfully 2003-01-15
I've just been on this site a few months and I must say
that in such a consolidated amount of time, I have learned
how to respectfully say 'thanks but no thanks'. It's great
to get so much response to my profile, but can be too
overwhelming at times. I feel it is important to check in
with my AdultFriendFinder email every day so that it doesn't pile up and
get out of control. I look at it like ...
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