oraljim201 65 M
5  Articles
scammers   17/2/2014

How do you tell a scam from an actual profile. Ive run across what I think was a scam. Is there and way to tell.I would appreciate some in sight.I know that the site screens scams, but I'm sure some must get through just because of the volume.

10 Comments, 100 Views, 62 Votes ,1.65 Score
annie444u 48 C
192  Articles
You Can Never Be Too Careful   23/1/2014

Recently a rather bad, bad, I mean bad guy was arrested in our town for assaulting several women.

Turns out the guy moved her from another state recently and was working a retail store.

Girls, don't go out with someone like that...someone new...unless you check him out. This guy's mug shot was on the internet all one had to do was query his name and it came up that he served x ...

9 Comments, 98 Views, 45 Votes ,3.82 Score
nsfriend65 47 M
1  Article‚ Score 2.4
Use your...   13/1/2014

Think with your brain first, then with other parts

2 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hotbloodxxx 35 M
10  Articles
meets gone bad   12/1/2014

curious to hear about the meets through this site that have gone bad. we all must think hookups are great because thats why we're on here, but what about the meets that have put you off?

6 Comments, 73 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
MissChelie 47 F
3  Articles
How do you....   17/11/2013

....Keep yourself safe when you are a woman dating couples or groups? What techniques work best to be sure you aren't getting into a bad situation?

4 Comments, 84 Views, 33 Votes ,2.05 Score
beanflicker17701 26 M
6  Articles
staying safe   7/11/2013

what is the best way to stay safe during a date if u just met the person

2 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
AthleticLatino93 20 M
10  Articles
How to be safe while being discrete.   3/11/2013

I have always wondered how someone that is trying to be discrete be able to stay safe since they can't really tell someone where they're going to be since they're trying to be discrete. Any suggestions?

6 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
AthleticLatino93 20 M
10  Articles
Should you believe them   3/11/2013

If a person tells you that they're clean, should you risk the chance and go without protection? I would love to hear your opinions.

10 Comments, 92 Views, 32 Votes ,2.86 Score
JasperRidge 33 M
1  Article
Three Tips:   28/9/2013

If you're meeting up with someone for sex online, I think the first thing you need to do is establish that the other isn't too crazy.

If they're meeting up for sex online, chances are they are going to be pretty wild, but you don't want them too wild and showing up at your place uninvited.

1) Meet up during the day. If things go well, you can take them somewhere more private. ...

1 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
TomRakewell 25 M
10  Articles
Scams   18/9/2013

What are your favorite way to vet a suspected scam profile?

1 Comments, 39 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
PeakAboo2 47 F
79  Articles
VOTE FOR ME/ Here's why:   13/9/2013

Thousands of people submitted pictures. I might be the only person that submitted a video.

I believe my video demonstrates that when I'm on; I'm really on

The other submissions could be robots/spam. I proved who I am with a video.

VOTE FOR PEAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did my video earn your vote?

3 Comments, 44 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
hotfunnow902 24 M
10  Articles
5   4/9/2013

material for adding points always something to try. got no choice

0 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes
PeakAboo2 47 F
79  Articles
STALKERS   18/8/2013

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What do you think?

Excellent Very Good Good So so Don't like

STALKERS 8/2/2013 9:44 am

Ahhh My lovely mail. My mail is a consistent odyssey into the unknown. I've posted on other occasions that I have stalkers, psychotics, teenagers, sex traffickers ...

3 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
hawg4fun13 31 M
15  Articles
Safe Sex   9/7/2013

Play Safe!!!!

3 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
vickyggn22 29 M
10  Articles
Indian girls like white guys   29/6/2013

lots of Indian girls like white guys, and a lot won't even look at another brown dude because they know they can get white guys. Just try to go out for indian girls who hang out with white girls. With good game, anyone of any race can get any girl of any race, but it's much easier for white guys to get any girl of any race they want. Step it up.

1 Comments, 70 Views, 15 Votes ,1.75 Score
hotfunnow90 26 M
10  Articles
7   9/5/2013

7to be how it should be just let it go and move on

1 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
donjuan3681 23 M
1  Article
first meeting location   12/4/2013

I for one have never felt comfortable going to somebodies house right off the bat. I feel its sometimes better to meet for lunch/dinner before actually meeting on someone else's turf. What do you think?

7 Comments, 79 Views, 24 Votes ,2.90 Score
tazmantenn 67 M
2769  Articles
Watching TV   22/3/2013

Grandma and grandpa were watching a religious healing program on TV.

The evangelist called to all who wanted to be healed, to put one hand on the TV and the other on the body part they wanted healed.

Grandpa hobbled to the TV and put one hand on the TV and the other on his crotch.

Grandma looked at him with disgust.... "You just don't understand do you, you old coot.. ...

0 Comments, 73 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
CommodoreNemo 22 M
4  Articles
Always Bring a Machete.   10/3/2013

...for if werewolves attack. Didn't you see Thriller?

1 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
annie444u 48 C
192  Articles
Always Have Your Hubby or Boyfriend Drop You Off   2/2/2013

I swing a lot and I like to swing with other women of couples. Occasionally I'll meet someone new, but I'm always careful and Danny's always nearby. We make sure we have e-mail addresses, phone numbers, a house number, apartment number or room number and that all is well before proceeding.

And Danny stays close and by the phone. I feel I don't have too much to worry about, he took care ...

2 Comments, 171 Views, 23 Votes ,3.13 Score
sexyminx1814 50 F
1  Article
Tell me your experence   28/12/2012

If you have hooked up from being on this site- what was your experence? Did you share personal information? did you date more then once? did you feel a connection enough to have sex?

13 Comments, 197 Views, 64 Votes ,2.02 Score
spankinguforfun 54 M
1  Article
You Really Need To Understand SSC   11/12/2012

In this day and age, men and women really need to understand the SSC of building a relationship.

The first S means Safe. The second S means Sane. And the C means Consensual.

Keep sex out of your first encounter. Meet with the member of the opposite sex in a public safe place...like a restaurant or a coffee house.

Talk with the person of the opposite sex and make sure ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dcrel123 32 M
10  Articles
Measures   24/11/2012

How you assure that you will be safe with ur date? do u dont care abut it or do u do some efforts to make sure it does safe...

4 Comments, 48 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
prod1013 35 M
11  Articles
first dates   22/11/2012

Don't meet someone without hearing there voice first. A good idea always is to cam before meeting. Meet somewhere that you can start a long date or end a short one . Meet in public and dont go somewhere private the first date.

1 Comments, 46 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
rajesh6134 38 M
10  Articles
want to give a date   14/11/2012

i am ready to share a date with teen aged girl.

1 Comments, 41 Views, 14 Votes ,0.74 Score
flazy_7 27 M
3  Articles
Watch it.   13/11/2012

Trust one!

2 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
bigmoney22578 20 M
11  Articles
safety   27/10/2012

You Have To Watch Who To Date Because There Are MANY People Wearing Fake disquis So Be Care Who You Dating, .

3 Comments, 31 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
tombonow 64 M
120  Articles
A Different View   7/10/2012

Rocky One The Big Heavy Weight World Champion Boxing was tonight with Apollo Greed. Rocky Bono called Andy, his telephone company boyfriend, as he drank; three raw eggs, one pint of Byers Vanilla Ice Cream, two scoops of Nature Powdered Soy Bean Protein additive, and then topped it off with Ocean Stay Cranberry Juice into his Oscar Miners Blender. Meanwhile Andy called to Famous Ed’s for some ...

1 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
PutsOutForFun 24 M
3  Articles
What should I ask for?   24/9/2012

Hey as I guy going in nearly blind how well should you know a person (if at all) before meeting up with them? What are some do's and dont's? What should I ask for, if anything?

2 Comments, 57 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
maybehottie6 24 M
10  Articles
yea yea   23/9/2012

dating safety. to always wear a fucking condom

1 Comments, 36 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
yeszen2 20 M
11  Articles
Traveling   11/9/2012

What is a good distance many of you are willing to go to see someone you've set up with?

4 Comments, 36 Views, 22 Votes ,2.05 Score
Snozog 54 C
5  Articles
Letting someone know when meeting someone   9/9/2012

We have heard some horror stories in the chat rooms about bad experiences when meeting people in person. Those stories have been in the back of my mind for a while as my wife and I meet guys for MFM 3sums.

Recently, while on a long road trip Milady and I had lots of time to discuss topics like personal safety, which morphed into designing a smartphone personal ...

2 Comments, 189 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
joshie04101991 21 M
10  Articles
asking to many questions?   23/8/2012

have you ever been on a date and your date asks you very personal questions one after another?

3 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
tjinjapan 51 M
2  Articles
Names   14/8/2012

What ever you do never give out your real name on this site. That is until you know someone well. What do you think??

1 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
tazmantenn 67 M
2769  Articles
Well...stupid comes to mind   16/7/2012

A drunk gets up from the bar and heads for the bathroom.

A few minutes later, a loud, blood curdling scream is heard coming from the bathroom.

A few minutes after that, another loud scream reverberates through the bar.

The bartender goes into the bathroom to investigate why the drunk is screaming.

"What's all the screaming about in here?" he yells. "You're ...

0 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Good places to meet when discreet?   30/5/2012

What are some good first places to meet when you are trying to be discreet in a small town. Open to all options? I think places like the mall or coffee shops are good but not always discreet.

6 Comments, 123 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
dtwts 50 T
3  Articles
A TS gurl's view on the matter...............   22/5/2012

I've read some interesting comments from men here regarding meeting a TG female with humor........sorry guys lol. For the most part, us real gurls operate in safe manner; meaning meeting for the first (and usually second and third times) in very public places. Look at it from our perspective: we don't really know who we're meeting any more than you do when talking online. In fact, we've ...

4 Comments, 160 Views, 30 Votes ,4.71 Score
Blanco4441985 26 M
10  Articles
TS girls   13/5/2012

You must check the Adams apple. Also pay attention to the square jaw broken link to.

3 Comments, 76 Views, 14 Votes ,0.74 Score
Becoming a paid member   29/4/2012

I am a standard member since I just started. I want to become paid but since I want to start off with a discreet relationship, I am a bit nervous giving my address, credit card information. I would do so immediately. What options do I have?

6 Comments, 119 Views, 30 Votes ,2.06 Score
karoonsem2 25 M
10  Articles
Safety in Dating   24/4/2012

what safety tips should be kept in mind while dating through Adult FriendFinder for the first time??

1 Comments, 49 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
6  Articles
For the ladies!   16/4/2012

dont meet up with dudes you know nothing about!

make sure your friends know where youre going!!

have a friend call or text you mid way in to the date!!

4 Comments, 67 Views, 29 Votes ,2.04 Score
just new   21/3/2012

as a beginner, i would love to know how you can filter the real from the not real people on here

6 Comments, 92 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
tazmantenn 67 M
2769  Articles
Did you ever notice?   10/3/2012

As income tax time approaches, did you ever notice:

When you put the two words 'The ' and 'IRS' together, it spells


1 Comments, 69 Views, 11 Votes ,1.30 Score

Its always important to say the right things and things that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally cannot relate to.

These are some things that youcan mention or should take note while striking aconversation.

1. Be open minded Do not show ...

1 Comments, 45 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
maybehottie4 23 M
10  Articles
as far as we know   5/3/2012

always make sure you know what you are up against .whether a imposter or a genuine person

4 Comments, 61 Views, 17 Votes ,1.43 Score
maybehottie4 23 M
10  Articles
safety   5/3/2012

always remember to wear a condom no matter what. better be safe than sorry

2 Comments, 41 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
BiGatorBait 32 C
12  Articles
Single girl to date bi couple?   29/1/2012

We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES here?

3 Comments, 103 Views, 34 Votes ,1.98 Score
First meetup?   30/12/2011

With all the stories about kidnappings, , etc, it's important to have a meetup in a public place. Where's a good public place to meet someone for this kind of thing?

3 Comments, 117 Views, 26 Votes ,2.16 Score
stan1423 21 M
12  Articles
safety   27/12/2011

dating safety

1 Comments, 32 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
ManThichSexfree 36 M
7  Articles
hen ho tren mang co thuc su an toan ko   4/11/2011

Theo ban khi hen ho tren mang co thuc su an toan cho ban ko khi ma nguoi minh hen ho la nguoi ma minh ko hieu ro ho nhu then nao o ngoai doi. Dac biet la hen ho de lam tinh. Ban co thuc su biet rang nguoi ma ban muon hen ho de lam tinh co bi benh gi hay ko, dieu nay that kho de biet duoc fai ko cac ban? hay gop y cho toi nha, thankssss

0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
knight_rider747 28 M
10  Articles
is it safe ?   1/9/2011

is it really safe to date


4 Comments, 110 Views, 30 Votes ,1.87 Score
needrelief77 35 M
5  Articles
Always carry protection!   7/7/2011

I talked to a buddy who still does not carry protection. He has had std's like 9 times adn today he has sores all over. unreal, be cautious out there! Always have protection, if your a man or a woman!!

3 Comments, 96 Views, 22 Votes ,5.89 Score
tumim9 23 M
19  Articles
Sexy Sarala, my neighbour   22/6/2011

I live with my parents in a rented house. In that compound there are two houses including mine. I am the only son to my parents. In the other house there were 3 people. Husband, wife, and boy. The husband is a thin looking man of 46. The boy was studying in 8 th standard. Now coming to the character of prime importance, the neighbour lady. She may be 38 – 40 years of age. I always have liking ...

4 Comments, 258 Views, 22 Votes ,2.29 Score
rm_rasmus263 25 M
1  Article
How to make love   8/6/2011

Baby are you down down down down down, Down, down, Even if the sky is falling down, Down, down Ooh (ohhh)

(Verse 1)

You oughta know, tonight is the night to let it go, Put on a show, i wanna see how you lose control,


So leave it behind aE?cause we, have a night to get away, So come on and fly with me, as we make our ...

0 Comments, 54 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
Remember if the photo looks old...   9/5/2011

They probably are too. Beware those faded big 80s hair photos. That person will show up to meet you plus 20 years.

2 Comments, 74 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
never,never,never   16/4/2011

when you think you click with someone on this site, NEVER give out any personal info ie;email , cell #, house phone, and esp. where you live and who your friends are, meet this person in a public place to meet them first before any date, feel them out ask lots of ?, and go with your gut feeling about them if you feel good about it, tell them you will get back to them on fbos and set up the date, ...

2 Comments, 170 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
scorpioz76 33 F
4  Articles
safe sex   19/3/2011

Do not fall for these crazy guys on this site. A friend warned me that they wat youto am with them and they record it over and over agau=in and next there is a video of you out there on the net.

4 Comments, 216 Views, 49 Votes ,2.41 Score
mrswim20 24 M
4  Articles
Be careful in vans   3/3/2011

My senior year in high school, I had a friend with benefits, and I would often go to her house. We were watching tv on day and she decided to show me how roomy her mom's van is when you take the back seat out (I'm sure you can see where this was going). She happened to be wearing a thong that day which was easily visible when she was bent over to unlatch the back seat. Once she was finished, she ...

3 Comments, 328 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
bacoj911 34 M
2  Articles
Wishing All The Valantine's Here   12/2/2011

Being on this site and seeing so many members assert their personal needs and as the day of valentines is approaching I cannot help but marvel at the change in mindset that has taken India by storm. No doubt some who hold primitive views are now a minority and thus seek to assert themselves through various forms of violence - but this is another matter altogether.


4 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
10nudp 41 M
1  Article
condom or not   20/1/2011

i like getting head with condoms. is this bad.

12 Comments, 197 Views, 85 Votes ,1.64 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
hate   8/1/2011

when i fuck a girl and i find out the next day she doesnt have birth control.

i really need to start being more careful. i guess i should always fuck with condoms after all.

im so afraid of stds as well. isnt it weird to have oral with a condom on? i think if a girl made me wear a condom before giving me head, id feel like somethings fishy

4 Comments, 124 Views, 28 Votes ,2.83 Score
7_inches_4_u916 26 M
10  Articles
Where to meet   7/1/2011

Always meet up in a public place. You dont want to be set up by a girl & a stalker or weirdo. And always never just invite them over to your home no matter how horny you are.

7 Comments, 125 Views, 41 Votes ,3.94 Score
Too Much Info????   24/12/2010

Maybe it is me, I am quite analytical, but I cringe sometimes when I read a sexy female (single female) profile. Some ladies give way too much info! Profilesshould have an air of intrigue, or mystery. Some ladies just go above and beyond. Let us think for a minute, you are a pretty blonde 44 years old Single mother of two, and you are from a small town that has a population of 85! You load a ...

4 Comments, 109 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
The glory !   18/12/2010

The glory of it is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship, it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him/her and is willing to trust him/her.


5 Comments, 54 Views, 27 Votes ,0.61 Score
singles are more egar to get in touch   5/12/2010

i find that in this site if u log in as a couple then more and more singles try to get in touch with you. Its not safer to get in touch with these singles until and unless u r sure that they are decent and good. Its better if they contact single girls rather then pursuing couples. ...

6 Comments, 71 Views, 18 Votes ,2.17 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
And remember !   30/11/2010

Be kinder than necessary. Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. ...

8 Comments, 71 Views, 29 Votes ,1.74 Score
hi friends   28/11/2010

hi there is safety concerns in dating meet at public places...

3 Comments, 40 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
Ababix3 26 M
8  Articles
Don't hop into strangers' cars   28/11/2010

I actually did that recently, lucky they were not serial killers.

0 Comments, 89 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
trcl979 21 M
11  Articles
Real or Fake   31/10/2010

Its hard to find a real person on this site half the time the people are fake and I cant deal with it.. I wish there was more of a screening process with this site

5 Comments, 72 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
fisherman197008 41 M
23  Articles
alwys meet in public places   19/10/2010

It has occoured to me that one thing most people dont think about, is the place to meet on the first date, or the meet and greet. For this, I have some advice.

1. Always meet in a safe place like a restaraunt, or a coffee shopor the like. it will add to the comfort of both.

2. Carry your cell phone, if the date, be it male or female, is a true jerk, you can always fake an ...

8 Comments, 118 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
18  Articles

Some guys are extremely paranoid when meeting from online. You have to let them know that they can relax. You would be surprised that the guy next door type is often the most cautious when meeting a fuck buddy form online.

I like to have as many lights on as possible in my place when i meet. It makes him feel more comfortable. And when he says turn some off, i do.

Soem things I ...

3 Comments, 131 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
cheamanda 38 C
7  Articles
Online Dating Safety For Men   15/10/2010

Online Dating Safety For Men

Almost everything you read about online dating safety is directed at women but men need to be concerned as well. Perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes come in both sexes, all sizes, and all ages…as do, liars and cheaters. So men need to stay on guard, too.

It is common knowledge not to readily give out personal information to ...

6 Comments, 167 Views, 33 Votes ,3.51 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
18  Articles

I have successfully met guys from online for about 5 years now. Actually, i have exclusively met guys from online, because its just so much easier. It's easier to pinpoint what I like, reject, block, flirt, wink...you name it.

Here are some ways I have safely met guys from online. Only one time did I have a scare, and that scare was actually him protecting himself until he knew ...

1 Comments, 103 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
third eye   12/9/2010

you really have to play it safe when meeting some one for the 1st time. let other know what your doing and even where u plan on meeting

don't drink much on 1st day and listen of any akward moments use common sense and remember there alot of jerk out there

so keep and extra eye open

0 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Why do Sharks swim circles around you ?   2/9/2010

Why do Sharks swim circles around you before attacking? Two great white sharks, swimming in the ocean, spied survivors of a sunken ship. "Follow me, son." the father shark said to the son shark and they swam to the mass of people.

"First we swim around them a few times with just the tip of our fins showing." And they did. "Well done, son! Now we swim around them a few more ...

2 Comments, 59 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
To err !   30/8/2010

To err in dating is human; to forgive, highly unlikely....

3 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
galleriaguy4fun 43 M
5  Articles
Sex Positions With A Twist   24/8/2010

Traditional sex positions tend to get a bad these days, and understandably so; they have a tendency to get old rather quickly. You may be surprised, however, to learn that these classic sex positions can be turned into something hot and altogether fantastic with just a few minor adjustments. Our sex positions with a twist are easy to do, and they don’t require the skill of an acrobat. And, ...

5 Comments, 185 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
lyubit 43 F
3  Articles
picture   16/8/2010

so you want to see who i am... how about we talk a little and i see just how crazy you are. is that a picture of you? it looks like a penis. was that picture taken twenty years ago? i have a small town personna thing going for me here. the chance of me bumping into you in the local popular shopping areas is almost 80% do you realise that? so a discrete relationship would be ...

6 Comments, 165 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
widegauge69 43 M
1  Article
Define Discreet   13/8/2010

A discreet relationship. What does that mean? I don't want my husband or wife to find out? I don't want my next door neighbor to see me bringing strange women home? I don't want my FWB to call me on my company cell phone? Could be any number of things. For me personally, it means I want to hide my 'after hours' life style from my friends, kids, neighbors and co-workers. (Note that I didn't ...

3 Comments, 167 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
calian2 48 M
3  Articles
Would you...   25/7/2010

...Ladies open the door to a guy who turn you on by phone or chatting online? It happened to me, that Lady accepted to open the door and it we spent some very hot and sensual moments, then and after that cause we kept in touch and have a very good relationship; i appreciated her honnesty: she liked what i said to her and didnt hesitate to get it.

3 Comments, 107 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
2of2dorks 41 M
14  Articles
precautions   22/7/2010

I have read a few interesting and some rather odd questions, but have no way of honestly being a judge good bad or otherwise. so I will pose my question as I have not seen it asked. When you meet some one from this site and are interested in taking things a step further, what precautions do you prefer? I have tried condoms and abstinance for birth control and preventing S.T.D.s in the past. ...

4 Comments, 111 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
Shysearcher68 46 M
2  Articles
The Swim Parent part 1   20/7/2010

Let me start by telling you a little about myself. I am a typical guy that likes to do what he loves and for me that is swim and coach swimming. I am 6 feet tall and weigh 190 pounds with reddish brown hair that I keep cut very short. Being a swimmer I guess you could say that I am in shape for someone my age. I have coached for almost 15 years and have never had happen what happened to me that ...

1 Comments, 135 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
safety   19/7/2010

i think the most common thing you can do in a date, & always be safe is to appreciate your partner....& by appreciation i really mean appreciation not flattery.....understood..

1 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
PMS & GPS   14/7/2010

What do you get when you mix PMS with a GPS?

Answer: A crazy bitch who WILL find you!

8 Comments, 51 Views, 25 Votes ,3.80 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Men wouldn't lie so much!   8/7/2010

Men wouldn't lie so much to the women in their life, if the women in their life didn't ask so many questions. ...

4 Comments, 40 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
winsam13 25 M
1  Article
Online Dating Safety   7/7/2010

Online dating safety tips.

If you have decided you want something of a more personal relationship with someone you've met and they give you a contact number try ringing it. If you can never get hold of them be very wary, even if they give you a seemingly reasonable excuse. If you have to page or text them so they ring you back this is a real warning sign when considering your online ...

1 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Beware of drugs   29/6/2010

hi, I'm a doctor so i found sumthing that may help few ladies here. There are few drugs known as date- drugs. These are actually sedative, someone can put it in ur drink, and u'll be unconcious and many times you wont even remember what happened. So guys see it very safe. You must be beware of having drink from any stranger.

5 Comments, 137 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
erich302 33 M
5  Articles
sex on the first date   27/6/2010

do you want to make it in the first date?

5 Comments, 101 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
nietdisc 31 M
207  Articles
g never   29/5/2010

4 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Alrighty then !   19/5/2010

Make your attacker advance through a wall of bullets. You may get killed with your own gun, but he'll have to beat you to death with it, cause it's going to be empty....

2 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
first meeting   16/5/2010

I have yet to meet anyone in person from online yet but have chatted and met many people that seem very nice online. Was thinking of having my first meeting in a public place like a casino or restaurant was wondering what others have done or how people feel about meeting people offline for the first time?

9 Comments, 102 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Don't !   12/5/2010

Don't interfere with something that ain't bothering you none. ...

2 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
25  Articles
I Do Get A Lot Of Invites For Dates   7/5/2010

So how do I know I'm safe? There is always some hesitation. I make sure we meet for the first time in a very public place. So, meeting in a public place would mean you both drive, don't ever let someone pick you up somewhere. Even if you are meeting for a one night stand, a hotel is a pretty public place. Always have your cell with you. Some people even have a friend sit at the next table with a ...

13 Comments, 242 Views, 117 Votes ,2.22 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Never Argue with a Woman!   29/4/2010

One morning, the husband returns the boat to their lakeside cottage after several hours of fishing and decides to take a nap.

Although not familiar with the lake, the wife decides to take the boat out. She motors out a short distance, anchors, puts her feet up, and begins to read her book.

The peace and solitude are magnificent. Along comes a Fish and Game Warden in his ...

4 Comments, 119 Views, 34 Votes
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Don't bet your life on it!   28/4/2010

One must wait until evening to see how splendid the day has been, but don't bet you life on it.

2 Comments, 55 Views, 42 Votes
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Two theories !   27/4/2010

There are two theories to arguing with a woman Neither one works....

2 Comments, 66 Views, 35 Votes
Stryker624 51 M
27  Articles
How to deal with those who are from Ghana or other places...   22/3/2010

For those interested, I have found a way to root out these people from Ghana or those who tell you they are in Ghana now living with their family who so an interest in you through winking or whatever means they have in getting your attention.

I’m sure most know or if you don’t know, when you send a message to them, they will replay with something like this:

thank you for ...

3 Comments, 99 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Adventurer333 46 M
20  Articles
safety for men   13/3/2010

There are several interesting and good postings about safety for women and sexual health safety. This one is perhaps less general: safety for attached men seeking discrete encounters.

I suspect this isn't a great sympathy area: someone running around on his wife. But is is simply a fact of Adult FriendFinder, though several men choose to lie about their marital status to avoid the negative feedback. ...

10 Comments, 213 Views, 38 Votes ,0.83 Score
A Valentine Day Never To Be Forgotton   11/2/2010

One of my best friends would always go on these dating sites meeting men. She had even got me started on the sites. These men would fly her here and there, do things for her and so on. I don't know all what she did for them but she would come back so happy. Besides her mother and her girlfriends telling her she need to be careful and stop...she continued. A few years ago..February 14, she invited ...

8 Comments, 228 Views, 29 Votes ,1.94 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
seexxxxxxxxxxxx and only seeexxxxxxx   7/2/2010

any ladies in delhi looking for males check this out....u won't regret

2 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
chrisomaha 34 M
10  Articles
CL and other websites where you don't really know if people are real   8/1/2010

i really enjoy belonging to Adult FriendFinder, but it doesn't seem to have the quantity of people, or the frequency of viewers that i would like. i see the CL type pages and wonder if the people are real. i know some must be fakes, but what is the percentage compared to here and other sites that you pay for to give some legitimacy? can i trust these non pay sites or is it a big waste of my time?

5 Comments, 68 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
krisshh81 31 M
19  Articles
Online Dating Safety Tips   6/1/2010

Online dating is the best possible way to meet fantastic people who share your interests and passions. Every year, tens of thousands of people get married as a result of meeting on an online dating service. Millions of people are doing it and, in general, online dating is regarded as a safe medium for meeting potential dates.

Your online dating safety begins with educating yourself on ...

5 Comments, 76 Views, 22 Votes ,2.77 Score
ivan170mm 41 M
2  Articles
Avoid being taken..[For Women]   5/1/2010

Nowadays there are some concern globally bout trafficking person. I wish to share some advice: 1. Please being aware & cautious bout whom you gonna date with. 2. Always let some one know where you gonna go 3. Never leave behind your communication device..

7 Comments, 95 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
hotron33 41 M
2  Articles
am i the only one   27/12/2009

is ass play and ass licking that offensive i love it but i feel i am a dieing breed

10 Comments, 124 Views, 21 Votes ,2.38 Score
Cyber stalkers on Adult FriendFinder   19/11/2009

We all need to be super careful out there with the people we are meeting! All the safety precautions are pretty obvious...don't put your instant msnger username on your profile...dont say where you work...don't give your phone number out unless you are sure they are legit, wear condoms...blah blah blah...all the regular stuff. Take it from me though, be careful who you talk to! I talked to this ...

17 Comments, 234 Views, 79 Votes ,2.33 Score
josmith5 51 M
1813  Articles
dont try this at home   1/11/2009

A guy walked into a bar with a pet alligator by his side. He put the alligator up on the bar and turned to the astonished patrons. "I'll make you a deal. I'll open this alligator's mouth and place my genitals inside. Then the gator will close his mouth for one minute. He'll then open his mouth and I'll remove my unit unscathed. In return for witnessing this spectacle, each of you will buy me a ...

2 Comments, 82 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Internet dating   26/10/2009

As internet allows for anonymous dating, if this gets converted in to real dating, Any safety measures to be followed before the first meeting?

How we make sure intent of other person is genuinely true?

6 Comments, 58 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
red7524 22 M
10  Articles
date safty   12/10/2009

besides condums how should i be safe?

4 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
10  Articles
why??   2/10/2009

why there r more chances that gay people take strangers to their places in the first date ?

2 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Naizouneki 32 M
2  Articles
Can Affect Anyone   29/9/2009

Thought I'd relate a recent event in Finland...

"Mr. Vic" had been chatting with a woman on the internet, and they had agreed to meet for SM sex. At the public meeting place Vic was greeted by a man who claimed that he would take Vic to the woman's apartment. At the apartment, the man had said that he'll go fetch the woman, and that Vic should prepare. Vic did, even allowing himself to ...

4 Comments, 185 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Attitude !   22/9/2009

Your attitude towards dating defines not only who you are, but the quality of the date you are after, at least for some. If not forget it. ...

3 Comments, 78 Views, 48 Votes
dombrattyboy 40 M
128  Articles
Back at the Hotel   5/9/2009

We've decided to meet at a restaurant on a hot summer day to talk for a bit and see if we can confirm the spark that's been felt between us. You've dressed casually in low pumps, a comfortably loose blue cotton skirt ending just above the knee and a lightweight white cotton blouse that subtly suggests the delicious curves of your breasts without being overtly revealing, and you've left it ...

6 Comments, 152 Views, 40 Votes ,1.48 Score
nietdisc 31 M
207  Articles
humh   14/8/2009

Waiting for something:looked like having a penthouse living

2 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
nietdisc 31 M
207  Articles
yep Thanks   10/8/2009

Yet how do you think it away when it is not so like fixing it while doing without a cry.some people when they are live with you at the door and you don't talk to them cause they smell while sudden you are sitting than they want to know why?but as a pimp they can talk sexy with you. cause they smell like crying it ow we are alone lets talk like asking you to do so you can smell what you had ...

3 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
nietdisc 31 M
207  Articles
The dogs are sick with C   9/8/2009

Don't eat dog food.

5 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
sync94 49 M
11  Articles
Safety All The Way   20/7/2009

It is important to be safe online as well as offline. We have viruses, hackers worms and all the malware to deal with online. Dating is serious business especially blind dates. It doesn't necessarily mean that one has to be scared to go on a blind date but cautious. Dating is the only avenue we have of summing up another person. What do they like or dislike? Yes see me and live with me ..Two ...

2 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
hornyMinktown 24 M
10  Articles
hooking up online   12/7/2009

For first time meeting i always like to meet my date somewhere public where there is lots of people around, also try talking on the phone a few times so that you have an idea of the personality they have.

2 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
trsbombss 30 M
11  Articles
safety first.   9/7/2009

guys and girls out there, you all have the right to say no to whatever acts or requests that you might deem appropriate to you . thanks =)

1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
The Hurricane speaks !   15/4/2009

What did the hurricane say to the coconut tree?

Hold on to your nuts, this is going to be one hell of a blowjob!"

10 Comments, 83 Views, 72 Votes
Poetbyday 23 M
10  Articles
Safety?   9/4/2009

Only thing I can say is keep a open mind to different suggestions or locations your date might recommend. And be aware of the situations your in all the time. Keep your head screwed on straight and question everything. Of course being courteous and charming is a plus or must so keep that in mind.

2 Comments, 41 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
how ?   2/4/2009

do you play it safe? tell some one what your doing?

8 Comments, 145 Views, 29 Votes ,3.24 Score
Rocket3440 35 M
1  Article
Public Places   7/2/2009

This has probably been covered before, but do you think it's best to meet in a public place first and then perhaps go to a hotel or motel the first time?

3 Comments, 128 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
usamaatiq86 25 M
1  Article
Precautions   31/1/2009

how many of u guys have condoms with them all the time?

8 Comments, 83 Views, 17 Votes ,0.30 Score
whats up   4/12/2008

Ladies on the first date you should always meet the guy in a public place for your safety.

7 Comments, 74 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
33  Articles


OOPS!!! Please take it at a pace that is comfortable for you.

PARTNER 1: Sorry you are alarmed. I'm not sure what you are looking for. I have told you about my family; my businesses; my former businesses. I only use one other e-mail addresses and my company e-mail, which I swore I would never mix with this part of my life. I live ____. And you have seen my face. ...

3 Comments, 182 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
_JKH_ 60 M
1013  Articles‚ Score 99.9
Stop dating !   25/11/2008

Stop all that god damn sucking and fucking and then you'll be safe.

You hear me!?


15 Comments, 134 Views, 130 Votes
hotbngcock 38 M
6  Articles
few tips   12/10/2008

I have few tips for dating safety: 1) Never ever give your contact number at first shot. 2) Try to use nickname while going for blind dating. 3) Dont let him/her know about ur address unless you are confident of him/her. 4) Always have condom/contraceptive with you. You never know!!

4 Comments, 69 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
roxy37sexy 51 F
26  Articles
Class 101 for the Newbies   9/10/2008

I just posted this in blog last night thought I put it in a magazon article. Lot of people sign up on this site for a immediate hook up. It does not always happen that way unless you are lucky. You actually have to put some time and effort like anything else in your life. Of course exchanging emails can be time consuming. It takes two emails before you can respond to someone and eventually ...

7 Comments, 223 Views, 49 Votes ,3.50 Score
oralfouru430 51 M
1  Article
Dr. Jeckel/Mr. Hyde How do you know?   30/7/2008

Or in my case "Mrs. Hyde". How can one be sure that they are not meeting the next Ted Bundy or the woman from "Basic Instinct". I had an incident a few months back with a woman that seemed normal...we exchanged numreous e-mails, all very plesant...we met at a public bar. Went to her place and had a great time. Exchanged cell numbers and...Opps....I had hundreds of calls in a matter of days...she ...

2 Comments, 122 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
caliseawench 44 F
2  Articles
Should Adult FriendFinder Mark profiles with warning labels   26/7/2008

I was giving a lot of thought to all the people on this site who have been harassed or abused by other members, regardless if they are men or female.

I don't suggest this turn into a bash a thon on bad dates, lil dicks, slutty woman or ex cheating boyfriends or girlfriends. However, there are many people who have done some terrible things and continue to do so. Some time I wonder why ...

14 Comments, 202 Views, 70 Votes ,2.85 Score
roxy37sexy 51 F
26  Articles
Still Having Fun   12/7/2008

I think it is important to meet safely and still have fun. I think chatting and emails are important first step so you can get a general feeling. Then once you exchange numbers and meet at a public place. So both of you can get a good look at each other. The best places are to meet & greets. If you feel comfortable enough could be in a restaurant or coffee place. Then you can ask the person if ...

5 Comments, 109 Views, 44 Votes ,2.42 Score