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2BenticedBiU
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ADULT BOOKSTORES AND THEATERS. The NEWEST FAD in SWINGING

WHERE TO FIND ADULT THEATERS AND GLORYHOLES BOOTHS?
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Check the website listing by typing in "Gloryholes" and/or adult theaters in the search
There's a number of website listings, both for Adult bookstores and Theaters
The webs has a huge resource of site with detailed lists of gloryholes and theater ratings.
Look in the largest nearby city for places that exclusively rent X-rated videos.
Look for places offering video booths, couples booths or "buddy" booths.
(these are much larger video booths to accommodate more people)
Some large city newspapers offer Adult bookstore and Theater listing, as well.

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COST FOR BEING THERE!
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We don't know of any Adult bookstore that charges a cover for being there.
Adult Theaters usually charge $10.00 and up
(Most theaters are FREE to couples (M&F) and females)
Most Bookstore video machines charge a small amount ($1-$5).
(viewing minutes vary)
Some bookstores insist that you buy a minimum of non-refundable tokens. (Amounts vary)
Generally, as long as you are spending cash in there establishment, you can expect to be left alone.
**Not putting money or tokens in the video machine
while occupying a video booth, can get you booted out.
(it's a business, their trying to pay their bills too)

Also, if you are sharing a booth with someone,
it is generally accepted that everyone put money into the video slots.

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CLIENTELE? (who to expect to see)
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All types - good-looking, ugly, fat, thin, clean, smelly, young, old, bald, hairy, effeminate, muscular, leather, jocks, etc., etc.
(basic normal people like yourselves)
*Just like these SWINGER SITES*
Major majority are single and married guys
(married guys are usually better about using a condom than the single guys)
(BUT, INSIST ON USING CONDOMS)
Minor majority are couples
Very minim if at all,,lone females
(most females will be escorted by a male friend or another female)
The majority of males are respectful gentlemen.
(creating a scene will only get them evicted or worst,,arrested)

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Items you may want to have on hand?
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One thing to keep in mind,
is that you are in a Adult Bookstore.
Most items you need are available at the store.
What better way to test or try a new toy then in the video booth.

CONDOMS! (Guys and Girls,,USE CONDOMS)
You need money for the video machines.
*(called, "paying the rent!)*
(some bookstore sell tokens)
Lubrication if you need it.
You'll need tissues to tidy up,,
towel, handy wipes ,,etc....
"Put used condoms in the waste basket."
If you discharge cum, aim for the waste basket.
Never leave a mess on the floor, walls, or chair!
CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS BEFORE YOU LEAVE!
Its not very courteous to leave a mess for someone else to clean up!

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COMMUNICATION:
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Talking seems to be very limited...
"Do you wanna get a room?"
"Do you wanna go to my place?"
"Do you wanna get out of here?"
"Show me your ass, tits, cock.
"Do you want to suck and/or fuck?"
"Don't cum in my mouth."
(or 'go ahead,finish'
And so on.
Sometimes, a guy will ask if he can join you in your booth
Most communication is
eye contact,
sign language,
rubbing of the crotch.
BUT,,Don't be afraid or shy about what your interested
or whether your NOT interested in.
(Be polite)
Communication can be accomplished through the gloryhole.
Theater communication is generally eye contact.
The rubbing your hand on the seat next to you.
Talking,,whether in a dirty context or not,,helps.

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ADULT THEATERS

Theater seating does offers a better variety of clientele visual (You can better pick on chose)
Keep in mind, most theaters are dark to begin with. They do ofter a little privacy, but in most cases, once everyone's eyes adjust to the darkness, you may find yourself putting on a show. (seems to be the general idea with couples)
The furthest away from the screen you are, the more darkness (privacy) you will have.
BUT, keep in mind also,,most people sit in the back as well.
If you the female,,you will draw a crowd, but being polite and gesturing (vocal or otherwise) your need for room and privacy will help. DON'T BE SHY!
Most people will honor your privacy.
Or it maybe more to your interest to have the availability around you from the offset.
If and when you see someone your interested in,
Make eye contact and gesture an invite to the seat next to you. (rub the seat with your hand works)
Remember where your at. Keeping a limited body covered.
Once your invite has sat next to you,,you may want to ask if their associated with law enforcement.
Outside clothing contact works as a second suggestive move.
As a legal advise,,let the guy unzip and/or pull his our dick out.
Once everyone is comfortable and interested, hands inside or under the clothing works as well.
Dresses made this easier with females.

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If you want to contact the person in the booth next to you:
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Go into a booth; close and lock the door, if possible.
Drop some money in the video machine.
Sit down if the establishment provides a place to sit.
Expose yourselves, but not fully naked at this point yet.
Husbands, by pulling out their cock and making it hard
Wife or females, by exposing their tits and/or pussy and rubbing on it.
As a safety precaution,,DO NOT get fully undress till you know it's safe and there's going to be some sexual inter-action.
Pants just below your mid-section and/or (females) dress up above your mid-section.
Wait for someone to come into the booth next to you or check the person out in the next booth by looking through the glory hole.
Don't worry or be too shy about this part...
Remember,,mostly people are there to engage in activity of some sort with someone else.
If you're interested, stick your finger through the gloryhole far enough so that the other person sees it.
Withdraw it from the hole to show him or her you are ready and interested.
If you want "him" to use a condom, place it in the hole between you now.
If the other person wants to play, he'll stand up and place his dick through the hole
or she will kneel facing the gloryhole or press her ass up to the hole.
If on one is interested in playing,
they'll most likely ignore your request for a little fun.
If "he" wants to use the condom you volunteered, he will take it now.
Sometimes the guy and/or girl will just want you to watch them play with themselves.
A few of people in the video booths have 'voyeur' tendencies, just being watched is a huge turn-on.

Never have sexual intercourse without a condom.
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**If the person(s) contact you first:
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Wait for someone to stick their finger through the glory hole.
This is the standard sign that they are interested in you.
If you BOTH are NOT interested,,ignore the gesture.
If you BOTH ARE interested
**As a legal safety point,
**Always make sure that the other person(s) is exposed
(you "SEE" his cock or Her tits and/or pussy) before:
you make contact through the glory hole.
Not just sitting or standing in a booth rubbing his or her "covered" crotch.

(Males)Standing up, facing the gloryhole,
(Wife or female) Standing or kneeling, facing the gloryhole
is the general indicator that you are ready to be on the giving receiving end
either to suck cock, giving a hand-job, or whatever your plans are.

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**AGAIN,,As a legal safety point,
**Always make sure that the other person(s) is fully exposed before
(You "SEE" his cock and/or Her tits and/or pussy)
**you make contact through the glory hole.
**Not just sitting or standing in a booth rubbing his or her "covered"crotch.

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MEN,,Now is the time to put a condom on.
LADIES,,Make sure he is wearing a condom.

It doesn't hurt to offer to put one on the male.
Guys will normally place their cock through the hole.
Some guys may want to play with the females body through the hole
"IF" hole space is large enough.
Others will let the female suck their dick
and/or want to actually fuck you through the hole.
**LADIES,,If you decide you want to be fucked,
The general signal that you want to fuck, is to stand up,
press your ass up to the gloryhole and show yourself exposed by reach back and spreading your vagina.
Soon you'll feel his finger or cock pressing against you.
Because he can't see very well,
help him by guiding his penis or finger to where you want it to be.
If the guy isn't fairly well hung and hard,
getting some cock in you can be tricky.
Sometimes the person on the receiving end will want to help you get off.
He will show this by taking his cock out of the hole and putting his finger through the hole, asking, or signaling for you to turn around.
Some difficulties can't be over come at this point by inviting the person(s) into your booth, (space allowing) or moving over to his or her booth,
or(in the case of another couple) exchanging spouses.
If either of you are voyeurs,,watching your spouse through the other side of a gloryhole will be exciting.

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Never have sexual intercourse without a condom.
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(overly aggressive BUTTHEADS in bookstores)
WHAT TO DO IF,,

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A guy/couple/female that you are not interested in has started pursuing you.
Stalking you from booth to booth, or theater seat, and being a problem ,
making lewd suggestions your not interested in,,etc.,,etc.

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How do you discourage him?
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If ignoring them (no eye contact at all) doesn't work,
my advice is either)
1. Be polite and let them know your not interested
2. Leave and come back at a later time
3. Find a video booth with no holes and just spend a few dollars in there
hoping they'll will take the hint and find a new love
interest.
If there is a gloryhole, or in the theater area, just try to ignore him.
4. Notify the management if they process.
There's always going to be an asshole in everyone s windshield and rear view mirror!
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WHAT TO DO IF YOU SEE SOMEONE YOU KNOW?
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It can happen. In short, it's happen to us at swinger clubs.
Remember, anyone you see in an adult theater or bookstore near the video booth area
has as much "explaining" to do as you do.
Start by saying, "HI"
Don't try to ignore each-other, the damage (if any) has been done.
Walk up to them, (jokingly) call them a pervert and see how they respond.
If they are ignoring you, ignore them. They want to make believe they don't know you.
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If you're going to go out for a night of 'play'
it's highly advisable idea to go somewhere out of your immediate area
(if this is possible) to lessen the chance of a run in with someone you know.

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Sex through glory holes or in a theater can be very erotic
Enjoy! And be safe and careful.

NEVER have sexual intercourse without a condom.


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The only way members keep this group alive, is by helping with up-dated information. If you want more females and couples involved, we/they require information about adult theaters and gloryhole booths.

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Two places we've looked into are Annibells and a place called CVE. Anyone been there or know anything about them?

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HOW TO MAKE THESE GROUPS WORK FOR YOU!
Especially for standard members, it's important to use every free tool that A F F gives you to connect with others. That's why we're here, right? We want to MEET someone.
For the guys, it's even more important to be active, because we outnumber the women seeking men by about 16 to 1. We have to do something to make ourselves stand out from the crowd, because the women can literally pick and choose. And before you say what a great profile you have, remember this: many women are also standard members, and they aren't allowed to look at that many profiles trying to find a great guy like you. Besides, THEY DON'T HAVE TO--they are literally flooded with emails from the men!
First, here are three ways that groups WON'T work for you:
1. Lurking--Just joining a group and not being active in it is a sure-fire way to stay invisible. That's like buying a hammer, and expecting it to drive the nails for you.
2. Posting Only "Pick-Up Ads"--You know, those little posts where someone says how big his cock is, or how eager he is, and "where are all the younger women for older men?", etc., etc. This is slightly better than just lurking, because at least you've started driving the nail. The only problem is, you still expect it to finish driving itself, and it's a safe bet that pretty soon you'll be yet another one of those whiners complaining about how "this site doesn't work".
3. Being Impatient, Shallow or Rude--Everything worth having takes patience and work to acquire. If you're going to throw a little temper tantrum because you haven't found what you're looking for--even though you haven't invested any REAL effort--you don't belong on A F F, let alone in a group! This may be a sex site, but people still want to know that you're honest, non-violent and in possession of a mind bigger than your genitals.

PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE!
This is how you get the most out of any group. Did you know that many standard members actually hook up with each other simply because of getting INVOLVED in groups? It's true: I've even seen long-term relationships develop that way!
Here's the thing: when people post questions, thoughts, feelings, fantasies and jokes in groups, they do it because they are looking to interact with you. It's a way for them to get to know something about the personality behind the keyboard, and that often leads to great friendships or more. It also lets them know that you're interested in them as people, not just sex objects.
It's the same reason why I, as the Moderator, post discussion threads. I'm not doing it because I just like to hear myself talk; I'm doing it to try to provide more ways for members to interact with each other, and also to encourage them to start discussion threads of their own.
Get involved in the discussions. Post some threads of your own. Show people there's a mind, a heart and a sense of humor behind that picture. Gradually, people will get to know you and like you--and THAT, my friend, is how you will end up meeting someone.
OH--and, fellas? The next time a young lady posts a thread about how she's looking to meet someone, don't just join the stampede of men rushing to say nothing more than "Hi, I'm here, please hit me up". First of all, she probably doesn't even know where you are, let alone what kind of person you are mentally and physically. Secondly, she's already got tons of one-liners coming at her from all directions.
You'll stand head and shoulders above the rest, if you find an interesting way to respond to her. Tell her you looked at her profile and what you liked about it; ask her an interesting question, or show a gentle sense of humor. Give her a reason to want to know more about you than just a picture of your cock. If you're consistent about it, someday you'll be telling the group about this wonderful person you met here.
And we'll all be glad with you!

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Hope to hear from and "SEE" a few members from this group in the 2014 year!

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We can't keep this group alive all by ourselves. Reply to a post. Keeping your profile on here for others to read, helps bring about interest in YOU!

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