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tat2dinvegas talks about some of the ultimate Dos and Don'ts for couples on Adult FriendFinder (and a lot of it applies to single members, too!)
What are the keys to success for a couple on Adult FriendFinder?
First and foremost, both parties in the couple have to be honest and willing participants in the lifestyle. I can't tell you how many times we have met couples at parties where the female half isn't as into the lifestyle as the male half. It makes for awkward moments at swing events and its ALWAYS obvious to all the other couples in attendance. It also comes through across people's profiles. Be honest with what you are looking for, the type of people you are attracted to, and be honest with each other before setting up any profile and entering the lifestyle.
What should you be sure to include in your profile and pics? And what should you not include?
FACE PICS! Always lead with a face pic of both members of the couple. We understand that not everybody wants their lifestyle advertised for the world to see, but most people want to see who they are emailing before they type a single word. If you are concerned about discretion, don't include face pics in the nudes shots, you can include both PG and R rated. If a coworker comes across your profile, remember, they are on the website too!
In addition to face pics, recent full body and R rated pics are also good. If you don't have the luxury of being a professional model and photographer, here are some photography tips: Digital cameras need LOTS OF LIGHT to look good. Early sunlight light in the morning and and late afternoon work best for out doors. Indoors, make sure to get the most light you possibly can. Also, dress right for your body type, if you aren't totally secure with your midsection for example, you can always have fun nude pics with sheets across your stomach (for example). Look online at professional shots and get an idea how to compose your images. The crop of an image is HUGE for the overall appeal. Mess with the settings in your digital camera to get the best results. The auto setting doesn't always produce the best images.
In addition to your pics, make sure you fill out the entire profile. A one line intro makes us believe the profile isn't real or you are too lazy to fill it out, so you are probably lazy in bed too! BE HONEST with what you are looking for. If you are looking for straight swap, say it, if you guys are looking for some bisexual action, state it! Whatever you are looking for make sure you write it in your profile, other people looking for the same thing will email you! Make sure to fill out your profile together, you both have desires so it should come across your profile that way.
Make your headline stand out! Being funny is also a plus!
What you should avoid doing is having 50 close up pics of your cock or vagina, a few pics to get the idea of what you are working with is fine. You should also avoid using a close up cock/vag shot as your main pic.
What are some of the biggest mistakes a couple can make on Adult FriendFinder in terms of approaching others?
The biggest mistakes a couple can make when writing others is sending a one sentence email saying you want to fuck. Obviously, we all want to get laid, that's why we are on Adult FriendFinder. The other big mistake is writing a couple saying you only want to play with one half of the couple. You always end up being insulting to the couple and it will get your email ignored.
How do you recommend approaching other couples or single females on Adult FriendFinder?
The best way to approach a couple or female is to be complimentary (but always be sincere), we all like to complimented don't we? Talk about who you are, what turns you on, why you are writing the couple/female and ALWAYS include face/nude pics if they aren't on your profile. Again, honesty is the best policy when contacting members...remember, this is supposed to be fun for all, so keep your emails fun and lighthearted! Good luck to you all and happy fucking!
