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My Magazine > Editors Archive > Sexpert > April Advice
April Advice   by Savanna Samson with YOU!

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Vivid Girl and Super Star Savanna Samson is a multiple AVN Award-winning adult actress also known for her business savvy. Earlier this year she captured international media attention with the introduction of her first wine, Sogno Uno (Dream One), which was acclaimed by leading wine critic Robert M. Parker with a 91-point rating. Ms. Samson was a co-author with other Vivid Girls of the best selling How to Have a XXX Sex Life: The Ultimate Vivid Guide, (HarperCollins/ReganBooks) (see our archives for the review -- it really was a hot book). Sampson's advice pen is hot off a sex advice column for Men’s Fitness online magazine.

Two weeks ago, Ms. Samson was the first female porn star to walk away with the "Best Non-sexual Role" award at GayVN for her beautiful sequence in Michael Lucas Productions' La Dolce Vita. Savanna plays a jilted girlfriend enjoying New York by night in a scene that includes musical beauty, scenic luster, and a water fountain. We caught up with Savanna all aglow, just after she won the award, so look for her comments in our upcoming interview.
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No-hurt head

Hi Savanna,

I was just curious as to how can I give head without my mouth getting sore? It seems like I can only do it for 20 minutes before my mouth really hurts. I would just like to know how and when will sucking dick get easier?

diamondz4me2


Baby girl!

First of all, something tells me, you may be trying a bit too hard or at least a bit too long to please your man! Usually “giving head” is a prelude to the love to come; in which case, should last a maximum of 20 minutes! But I’m all for an occasional gift of a blowjob. When asked the secret of my fabulous blowjob in interviews, I always say, “If you please the little man, you please the big man.” I always felt that I was the best cocksucker in the world because I really loved what I was doing, and I loved every inch of the cock. Then, one day I was with this man during a web cast who had a beautiful cock of very large proportions. Much to my dismay, I could not make it hard! I sucked and loved it with all I had and nothing worked! As I was on my knees loving it with all my soul he looked down on me and said, “Don’t suck it like you love it, suck it like a porn star!” I wanted to die because I prided myself on being so great at it because I truly loved what I was doing. I used to say, “If you love what you’re doing, you’ll be good at it.” Now I kind of combine the two ideas. I work my tongue lovingly around the whole shaft making it all wet. I trace every crevice with the tip of my tongue. I hold the erect shaft just under the head and work my tongue down to the balls. I take them gently in and out of my mouth while pulling upward with my hand. Don’t be afraid to stay there for a little while, after all we know your man likes you to hang out a while down there. Now, after all this loving longingly with your mouth and tongue your man will be ready to have you suck like a porn star. As you go up and down on his shaft with your mouth use your hand also in a twisting motion. If you do it this way your mouth should not get tired before he explodes in it! You don’t have to suck the whole time, that would kill me after 20 minutes too! Oh, and don’t forget to swallow!







Nipple piercing??

Dear Savanna,

I'm thinking about getting my nipples pierced and wondered if anyone had any advice? Does it hurt? Do having them pierced help when playing or a pain to have? Any advice would be welcomed!!

slut4u692

Dear slut4u692

Let me start by telling you that nipple piercing was the most intense pain in the world and in my life. Slut4u692, let me ask you, is it you that wants your nipple pierced or your boyfriend who wants to feel his power over you, and wants you to get your nipple or nipples pierced? I ask that because I have all my, um, private parts pierced. The first time I got my nipple pierced the woman, Natasha, sucked! She pierced my left nipple so deep that it bled! Body piercings should never bleed but this one was so deep it bled. There was no way I could do the other. I got home and groaned in the shower and hated the way it looked on only one breast. I was still working at Scores at the time where they forbade nipple piercings and I had to put a plastic stopper through the hole while working to prevent it from closing. Nipple piercings close really quickly no matter how long they have been pierced. The hole was too deep so I let it go. Two days later I went back and had a different woman named Carmen redo it. The pain sucked but nothing like the pain Natasha, the original piercer, caused, and I ended getting them both done. The pain was so great that I refuse to let them just close. The truth is, I have never been big on the sensation in my breasts, but now I love the visual effect my nipple rings provide. I love to look down and see someone’s lips around them tugging and kissing them I love how my breasts look naked but I’m not the type to wear a bra and don’t like how my nipples look in clothes. When wearing the ring with the ball, it looks like I have two nipples on each breast! I wouldn’t do it again if I had to start all over but, as I said, I was never big on nipple sensation anyway. I think you should ask another opinion besides mine before you decide for or against it.







Swing ethics?

Hey, Savanna,

My wife and I contacted a couple for friendship and swinging fun. After a few times together, the guy would contact my wife via e-mails at work. They became close friends. Now when we go out together, they spend over 85% of the time together. I feel neglected, jealous, and stressed.

My feeling was that swingers became friends as a couple. My wife and I are not closed-door swappers; we enjoy mutual threesomes, etc. I believe that this also means that the couple (guy and girl) needs to befriend us equally. Not to pull one away from the other. Am I wrong to think this way?

together122

Dear together,

Unfortunately the truth is that swinging can be a dangerous game. You are 100% right that the couples need to befriend equally, but the reality is that we are human with feelings, and newness can sometimes bring lust and desire that continues beyond the bedroom. I hate to admit it, but I was the third person in a relationship, and the couple I was with ended up breaking up because he fell in love with me. We traveled all over the world together and spent way too much time together. I thought “they” were my soul mates at the time until she started getting jealous and wanted to end the relationship. Now when my husband and I swing, I don’t let it become a habit with the same couple. The moment is so powerful and wonderful, but I have no desire to really become close friends outside of the bedroom. You need to trust each other completely or the joy of the experience will be lost forever. I would be wary of the relationship developing between your wife and the other man. It is important to talk to them (or at very least your wife) about your feelings and concerns. Hell, you’ve been so intimate physically why stop emotionally? If he is truly a friend he will understand your feelings of jealousy. It’s normal -- I mean, my goodness it’s not easy to share your wife, and you clearly don’t want to lose her. Have the talk, they will understand!








Sex during period?

Dear Savanna,

Can you tell me how sex is during menstruation? My partner has wanted to try it, and sometimes I have thought about it. It's just the hygiene problem…I always thought it wasn't hygienic.

hot_pussy010

First of all,

ladies and gentlemen, sex during the woman’s menstrual period is amazing! In my life, men I know and like to fool around with, love when their women have their periods because it adds some extra, natural lube to accommodate their rather large cocks. Also the vaginal walls become more cushiony and are supposed to feel amazing for the man’s penis. Hygiene? Ok, so maybe it gets a little bloody and messy, but it’s so natural and not dirty at all. In fact this red mess, had the timing been right would feed a tiny being until it’s ready to face the world. Just put a dark towel under you so you don’t ruin the white sheets!

Ok, beside that, on a more personal note, when I have my period I feel like my pussy is all swollen and I have cramps that you men won't understand, but if you fuck me it’s so wet and amazing and relieves all those discomforts.

Now for the ladies, here is a little trick of the trade for when we women get our period before a scene. You take a natural sea sponge about 2 inches or so around and shove it up there. It goes in easier if you wet it first and then squeeze the water out. It usually holds the blood until the scene is over. To get it out you bear down and cram your fingers up there and pull it out. It’s not always easy to get it out, but with a little effort you’ll be able to grab it. Have fun and don’t worry!








Ladies, have shaving tips?

Hello Savanna,

How do you prevent/get rid of irritation and redness when you shave your pussy? It seems as though no matter what angle or direction I'm shaving, I always get irritation. Have any suggestions? (Please don't say waxing, ouch!!!)

SoCRaZY6969

Well, Crazy,
I definitely won’t say waxing, not only because it hurts, but mainly because it causes ingrown hairs. You should never pull the hair from the root because when it grows back the hair will take the path of least resistance and continue growing under the skin instead of fighting to poke through. There is a product I use called Follique that is a revolutionary skin therapy to clear up all those bumps and irritations. You can find it on the Internet. You put a little on a cotton ball or tissue paper and dab the part that you just shaved. You will love this product.








Large load

Dear Savanna,

My g/f likes for me to pull out and shoot on her. How do I make my loads of cum larger? Any help is appreciated.

tooshyguykc

Dear tooshy, I am on board with your girl! It so turns me on to watch all the hot cum shooting out onto my tummy and breasts. When I masturbate I always find myself thinking of that moment when I orgasm! Well, this is what the guys in the porn business do before a scene; they eat bananas! One guy in particular eats a lot, like six or something. That is a little much but that is what he does to make his load bigger. Another good little tip is to drink pineapple juice which makes the semen taste sweeter. The best way to make your load larger is to abstain from coming a few times during the day that leads to your love making session. I know it’s not easy but if you stroke your cock or have sex without coming a couple times I assure you, you will have a huge load by the time you allow yourself to come. It’s kind of like tantric sex. You should try it. You’ll be amazed!






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