Just Cuddle  

zingbeauty 59F
250 posts
6/30/2005 1:48 am
Just Cuddle

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dancerbear 64M
12 posts
12/24/2006 10:40 am

In a real relationship, cuddling is more important than sex. It is when the true bonding happens. Sex can be just about the physical, (not complaining!) but if someone won't or doesn't like to cuddle, you need to wonder. Almost all mammalian creatures use some form of cuddling or caressing. It is a basic need!

otkloverjohn 66M
3 posts
8/21/2005 3:51 pm

I equate cuddling with touching, holding, caressing and yes, caring about another. Unfortunately, I was one of those who had an ill wife (for the last 2 years until July) and cuddling, holding, snuggling was all we had, but at that time it was enough.
Now, I am once again in search of another someone to hopefully, care about and love.

rm_POPEYE1105 53M
2 posts
7/7/2005 8:55 pm

At 41 I am finding that the physical touch of another of the opposite sex is comforting and soothing. Not everybody thinks of sex 24-7. Sometimes the things that some consider corny, like holding hands, or touching each others faces, do not always lead to sex. It is a form of showing love and intimacy and is not considered foreplay. I once had a girlfriend that couldn't stand it when I just wanted to gaze into her eyes. I personally see nothing wrong with your desire to simply cuddle directly after waking up, although I need a clear path to the bathroom as soon as my eyes are open enough to see what I might trip over. LOL

GuiseWritsCadge 52M  
4 posts
7/4/2005 1:58 am

I can only speak for my own 'wiring'...I love touch and cuddling extends the opportunity for touch. I suppose what has got to be distracting is wondering if your cuddle partner is only participating while either waiting for sex or feeling obliged to, because of it. Ultimately the only way to know that is thru good communication...which leades to the best...cuddling or sex...

ruggedntender 68M
13 posts
7/2/2005 9:31 pm

Snuggling, I wonder if it is the same as cuddle? I know I had a desire to snuggle the last few days... just to snuggle and really sleep. I think that is what I miss the most about being single is the body in the bed and the peaceful sleep it helps one achieve. I stated in FF post that I wished to sleep with someone for sure to see if we are compatible in sleeping...not sex...sleeping. I figure we spend about a fourth of our time sleeping or hoping to sleep and to hold and be held then is about the most important part of the relationship. OH yea, I want sex as much as any.. well maybe not as much as some say. hehehe I want sleep more for sure for sure. hehee Best to you Pretty Lady, and thank you for the great sleep article.

rm_Crisco1965 51M

7/2/2005 6:20 pm

Cuddling is great, just holding each other with no expectations of sex. Feels good either face to face or spooning. Just laying there in the afternoon sun drifting in and out of sleep. The older I get the more I dream of cuddling.

rm_big97128dog 59M

6/30/2005 10:53 pm


I am not that far away. Cuddling would be very nice. Sex is great but I also enjoy the touch of another without the expectation of sex.

HighPocKets1938 78M

6/30/2005 10:46 pm

Dear one, cuddling is one one of my favorite pastimes both before and after or instead of making love. The feel of a woman when she just wants to be held close has an entirely different feel than that of a woman that wants to cuddle after a truly good session of love making. I use the term love making advisedly in as just having sex seems to lack some of the emotional closeness both should share.

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
6/30/2005 4:25 pm

Personally, I love to cuddle. Don't get me wrong, I love sex as well, but there is something very basic and truly wonderful about cuddling up in bed or on the sofa.

What can be better than laying in bed on a night when it is cold and the wind is howling and just snuggling up against someone.

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