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Would the guys please tell me what their version of an indepedent woman is? I am gainfully employed, own my car and have my own place. It doesn't take much to amuse me and I don't need to be entertained by a guy. Although if he can keep me entertained in the bedroom it's a plus.
It ocurrs to me lately, that any guy who likes my independence also wants me to take care of them. I've raised my children and other people's children too. I don't want to raise a grown man. I don't mind doing the little things that make a guy feel special, but I don't want any guy to think I'm just there to do his bidding. I can't tell you how many guys have told me that a woman should always defer to her man. Or better yet, they fuck me a couple of times then think they have the right to tell me what to do with my life. It's so hard for me to keep from laughing when they do that. Usually, after that I show them the door and delete their phone number. Why on earth would they ask for an independent woman and then want her dependent on them?