How Important appearance for your sex partner?  

yumiconnor 40F
122 posts
6/20/2006 9:32 pm

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How Important appearance for your sex partner?

I have sad experience a few times. When I start chat and exchange emails with guys, I sent some pics of my face. Some guys stopped send mail to me after that. I guess they don't like my face. Before it, all man always say "you're beautiful", "I like your ass."...

This is rude, isn't it?

Do they look for sex partner? or beautiful girlfriend? or beautiful casual sex partner????

I wanna know why they only wanna sex partner, but they care appearance as well? If he/she wasn't your ideal man/woman, you should tell "I'm sorry I don't think it works in the future." like this.

Is it stupid opinion??



6pkgmn9 66M  
238 posts
6/23/2006 10:37 am

You're here you're gone you're here ..glad you are back
Love the picture woukd love to just open those pants and let my tongue go sliding down...But back to your question..went to bed with lots of tens..but woke up with couple of twos..thats what happens when you go out drinking...Would I have taken them home otherwise, probably not. Are looks here important You say that you are looking for "sex friend"..so are they to you? Looks can be a very arbitrary thing..each person has their own beauty..if you find it acceptable to you in general way or more then things will go along. You have stated your opinion and what you are looking for..and if people can't take that..well..thats their problem. If I am e-mailing/chating with someone and they turn out to have mis-represented themselves then it is good-bye. Have told them this and whether it hurts or not only fair. Have seen glimpse of your face and I think that you are a very attractive lady With a very sweet body Be honest and let the chips fall where they may.....


Steely_xxx 44M

6/23/2006 10:42 am

Dear Yumi,

I think that a lot of men don't have a clue what it is that they want, and lack the self confidence or the balls to tell someone what it is they are looking for. I know what you are talking about, because I have had many similar experiences. But one thing that I have learned is that just because one woman (or 50)is not attracted to me, doesn't mean all women feel the same. "The eye is in the beholder." Don't be too hard on yourself, after all you have one of the coolest minds on this site! And to me that make you extremely hot and sexy!

Have a good weekend
Steel


JapanHello 39M

6/24/2006 12:11 am

Dear Sexy

I really don't understand some people. They want their cake and eat it too. I bet you are a very beautiful woman. Not just your body, or your face but you have a very amazing personality. That is what has to match actually if you want good sex. To many people just want a sexy person. But its personality. The best sex comes from people who you think have a cool personality. Sex is sex. If that is what you want you fuck. I am truely sorry someone stopped chatting with you after that, they are a rude person and even if you had just a fuck friend it would of been a waste for you because they would not of been a considerate lover. Trust me its his loss and the next guys gain. Dont take anything to heart what people say on here. People who are cruel people on AdultFriendFinder are not worth you time or engery worrying about them. Hey you know i live in torideshi right lol

Dam you have a cool blog


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
6/24/2006 8:32 am

Dear YumiConnor

looks are important - at least for me, how I present myself to the others, the first impression, choosing clothing, picking up a perfume, all those, I am trying very hard to make myself presentable to my image reviewers(whom ever they are)

I am sure you are as well as, the pictures you have selected to post on this blog, are the ones that you think you could present yourself well. - and I might add they are doing excellent job ^^.

To my point, I do choose a girl friend(I am not talking about casual friend and/or sex friend) someone who fits my image. I mean I don't look stunning^^;, I am not that good looking(well, I think I am good looking, but others say otherwise, hehehe), but I rather go for someone I can present as my girl friend to the others.

And for your orginal question, regarding sex partner, - just for two of them enjoying themselves, as long as the both parties are satisfied with the sex, the looks does not really matter is what I think. In fact some hot looking girls I had, they were somewhat disapointing in bed,,,

But, preceptions, preferences are personal opinions (at least that is what I think, even thou there are certain social sterotypes exist). and the good thing about this oponion thing is ^^ everyone has their own ideas! and it is quite difer from one to the other. --- that is perhaps what I like about the animal called "human" ^^.

And for you, YumiConnor, where do you stand with your opinions, thoughts and personal preferences? ^^ as long as you get what you want at the end, who cares what the others think. Fact is, it is just a conflict on opinions. again, everyone has differnt opinions ^^.


rm_mike76488 50M
13 posts
6/25/2006 7:43 pm

Beauty Yumi !
i don't know if ur face is so cute than ur body...But, i would enjoy if u send me pics to be able to give u my really frankly meaning...
Anyway, u may be think too much negativ... guys may be only stop contact with u cos for many other reasons than ur face...Don't worry and take it easy..be happy ... for sure a nice open-minded personality is absolutely more important than a face...Wishing u all the best for the future inside and outside AdultFriendFinder ! Kisses from Mike of France !


yumiconnor 40F
34 posts
6/26/2006 7:34 am

>6pkgmn9
hi long time no see
your comment made my feeling better. i will say good bye when someone stop mail me. i am being honest always.

>Steely_xxx
glad to hear you think i am coolest thanks!
sometimes some men make me mad, anyways i will ignore them from now

>JapanHello
do u think u r the man for me
usually young men are cruel or Frivolity, aren't they? no, i don't trust everything, but i should have place for acceptance. this is most difficult....

>go4itmate
>>everyone has differnt opinions ^^.
yes, u are right. no one correct, no one wrong.
i stop thinking too much

>mike76488
Hi mike, nice to mee u.
thank u for the positive comment yeah, i thought too much negative thing these days, it's time to stop it

Hi guys, thank u very very very much for ur comments. i think too much sometimes. this is my mental problem, but all u make me happier than before. i'm glad to talk to u


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