9. relationship  

yumiconnor 41F
122 posts
5/25/2006 4:10 pm

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9. relationship

What do u expect ur sex-partner(s)?
having an orgasm? a little stimulation? exploring sex technics?

do u say goodbye to ur partner immediately, after sex?
or do u sometime hang out with him/her?

What the difference between lovers and sex-friends?

I've checked lady's profiles. Some of them seek a life partner in this dating site. I guess they're hoping to be promoted to your real lover from a sex-friend. However, I've almost never seen man' profile which says he is looking for a serious relationship.

What actually are u looking for here?



rm_go4itmate 44M
67 posts
5/26/2006 12:00 am

me, just a fun, perhaps pysical fun as well as, if I get lucky. - I am not looking for a relationship for sure. perhaps some friends maybe.

What do u expect ur sex-partner(s)? nothing, and I expect the same.
the following is just a by product.
having an orgasm? yes! - I am sure I will!
a little stimulation? yes!
exploring sex technics? would be a plus! and I would love to!

do u say goodbye to ur partner immediately, after sex? or do u sometime hang out with him/her? depends on the partner.

let me ask you yumiconnor, what are you looking for here? reading the profiles of the male members, what do you feel? or how do you perceive the male members in here?


Steely_xxx 44M

5/26/2006 10:11 am

I am just looking for a fuck buddy(friend), nothing more nothing less! But, if the chemistry is right, there would be no way to deny it.

I don't like chit-chatting around on AdultFriendFinder, I would rather get right to it and then see if the connection is there. Imagine the hours wasted online when we could meet and see within the first five minutes if that animal magnetism is there. People online are usually not who they seem, so it is hard to believe a word anyone says. First impressions are usually wrong though, and that is why I always give them the benefit of the doubt.

Don't take shit from anyone,
Steel


lary19781 38M
70 posts
5/27/2006 11:44 am

if asking what should i expected from my sex partner, i will say all d sex things u want , u feel , and orgasm etc... is also what we need.

a lover is a person which you can share not even in sex, but also they company you walk through your whole life.
sexfrenz is just a person tha you enjoy good bed fun time with them.they can be in long term with you or shor-term.

if you got a lover , but if they can't satisfied all the excitment on bed with you; will u look for your sex frenz which can give u??


yumiconnor 41F
34 posts
5/28/2006 3:11 am

>go4itmate
i'm looking for the greatest sex "friends" here. one night stand is easy to find on normal life. (just go to nightclub & do it.) "friends" is the important word here.

I got tons of mails, and 80 % of guys write me "fuck with me", "suck my dick" something like that. nothing else. i believe this kind of person is too boring to hang out with. impossible to be a friends, i mean..

>lary19781
sex match is also important to be lovers. if I & my lover are not good match about sex, we'll break up anyway. so that when i got a real lover (great match for mental & physical), i wouldn't look for sex-friends for sure


rm_go4itmate 44M
67 posts
5/28/2006 7:20 am

>Yumiconnor
I get you.

I am still not sure what I could expect from this site, but it seems I am enjoying everyone's thoughts and opinions - of course some of thems are not quite what I would call it thoughts but at least they are straight forward, simple expression of what they want. oh, yes, I am naive .

at least, I enjoy your blog and all of your blog friends comments.


yumiconnor 41F
34 posts
5/29/2006 2:19 am

>go4itmate
glad to know u enjoy this blog. sorry for broken english.
anyways, i do have fun to listen the others opinions, too


rm_justforfunTG 38M

5/29/2006 5:35 am

I prefer someone I can hang out with and have a good time with in addition to sex, but I don't really have time for something more serious because I am focused on building my career right now.


yumiconnor 41F
34 posts
5/29/2006 9:34 pm

>justforfunTG
same here. someone who can hang out with and have a good time with..
this is exactly what i seek here


6pkgmn9 67M  
238 posts
5/31/2006 11:49 pm

Yumi What do I expect from sex partner..same as you..a very rewarding and fullfilling time Orgasm..yes but equally important..yours also! Why should I be the only one satisfied?? Lots of stimulation and lots of xxperimentation Nothing better than xxploring with someone special in one way or another..
Being with and saying something to partner when finished...Well if you are just someone that picked-up that night..then probably not long or much..and that is not fun anymore anyway. Am more into longer term satisfaction and then of course as long as both had time availible then would spend time with them...talking..or who knows what might "pop" up again
Lover/sex friend..could be one in the same..or more physical with the last..Lover having more mental match..sex friend..into pleasing/releasing each others tensions.being wild and completely unrestrained with each other.
Looking for here Good times with someone that likes enjoys same things as me..yes Long-term..a possiblity..both as lover/sex partner/and more.. that will be determined by us both..whomever that maybe. If things are right and things are really clicking and more ..then why not keep progressing But as others have said..those things are up-front and out in the open..both partners completely understanding what and where things are going or will be. Plus..here a chance to learn/teach/share with like minded people and enjoy beautiful people like you


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