8. Birth control  

yumiconnor 40F
122 posts
5/24/2006 8:46 am

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8. Birth control

I've met a few guys who deny using condoms. It isn't nice, is it? I'm here for fun, guys must be same.

We don't wanna baby!! We don't wanna be sick!!

Now, I wanna know why some guys refuse using condoms?

Taking pills is not enough for preventĀ@illness.

If ur sex-partner is pregnant, can u take the consequences? If u can't, USE CONDOMS!!

I know some Jp girls get pregnant, after that sex-partners escaped.
This is not rare story. What a shame!

Women must protect themselves. Men must respect women!

Am I wrong?


Steely_xxx 44M

5/25/2006 8:23 am

You are not wrong....you are 100% correct! Men need to be the one's to protect themselves and their partners. Doing otherwise is just stupid!


marcusjapan12 44M
161 posts
5/25/2006 8:39 am

correct but the natural feeling of skin on skin as the man slides in is the most passionate. you have to trust each other if not don't sleep together.


lilie1977 39F

5/25/2006 2:34 pm

you are perfectly right.
in fact, there are many people who don't know that themselves are sick. how can we believe it that he/she is not really sick?


k_takahiro 37M
755 posts
5/25/2006 3:21 pm

Too bad for the women you know got pregnant...
I know the same woman, but I don't know what to say her. She is trying to be fine. Now she raise her child by herself.


yumiconnor 40F
34 posts
5/25/2006 9:58 pm

>Steely_xxx
i wish all men think same like you..

>marcusjapan12
i can guess how great feeling men get without condoms.
it's better to do with the real lover.

>lilie1977
you're right. nobody can't say if their partner(s) is clear.
we should talke care of ourselves.

>k_takahiro
sad story, isn't it. she may be ok, but, how about her kid? this kid isn't loved by his/her father. it is the fact.


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:06 pm

hummm,,,, hard question,,, (not as defficult as the 9. Relationship thou) short answer: I always use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STD, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - please, ladies, let the guys know that you are in a potent period of your cycle. most of the guys with self respect, will not do anything stupid.

let's say, some of my nightouts ended up having safe/unsafe sex - I prefer safe, by the way - and I do worry about STDs,,, in fact, I go for a test most of the time (Blood donation is one, and the other is a selftest kits). Just in case, If I found some to be in a relationship with ( If I can that is )


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:11 pm

hummm,,,, hard question,,, (not as defficult as the 9. Relationship thou) short answer: I always try to use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STD, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - please, ladies, let the guys know that you are in a potent period of your cycle. most of the guys with self respect, will not do anything stupid.

let's say, some of my nightouts ended up having safe/unsafe sex - I prefer safe, by the way - and I do worry about STDs,,, in fact, I go for a test most of the time (Blood donation is one, and the other is a selftest kits). Just in case, If I found some to be in a relationship with ( If I can that is ).

But I wonder,,, would just a Condom be enough for STDs?


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:24 pm

hummm,,,, hard question,,, (not as defficult as the 9. Relationship thou) short answer: I always try to use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STDs, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - most of the guys with self respect, will try not do anything stupid.

let's say, most of my nightouts ended up having safe seIf I get lucky). But I still do worry about STDs,,, I wonder,,, would just a Condom be enough for STDs?
(STD:Sexually Transmitted Disease)


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:25 pm

hummm,,,, hard question,,, (not as defficult as the 9. Relationship thou) short answer: I always try to use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STDs, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - most of the guys with self respect, will try not do anything stupid.

let's say, most of my nightouts ended up having safe ses (If I get lucky). But I still do worry about STDs,,, I wonder,,, would just a Condom be enough for STDs?
(STD:Sexually Transmitted Disease)


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:25 pm

hummm,,,, hard question,,, (not as defficult as the 9. Relationship thou) short answer: I always try to use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STDs, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - most of the guys with self respect, will try not do anything stupid.

let's say, most of my nightouts ended up having safe sex (If I get lucky). But I still do worry about STDs,,, I wonder,,, would just a Condom be enough for STDs?
(STD:Sexually Transmitted Disease)


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/25/2006 11:30 pm

Short answer: I always try to use Condoms! unless I am in a relationship with the partner.

You are not wrong, but I would say it is not just respecting the ladies, I rather put it self-respect and self-care for both parties.

I do love the bare skin, love the sensation, love the feel of getting wet all over my skin, love to ejeculate inside! BUT also, I would love to stay away from STDs, and I don't want to make a lady and me suffer by the after math.

pregnant/impregnation,,, I don't want it, period. - most of the guys with self respect, will try not do anything stupid.

let's say, most of my nightouts ended up having safe sex (If I get lucky). But I still do worry about STDs,,, I wonder,,, would just a Condom be enough for STDs?
(STD:Sexually Transmitted Disease)


k_takahiro 37M
755 posts
5/26/2006 10:14 pm

Thank you for immediate answer, yumiconnor.
Some day, she will tell her child that her father desert them. I'm afraid that this truth will suffer her child till death... The truth is too cruel for the child.


yumiconnor 40F
34 posts
5/28/2006 2:54 am

>go4itmate
Everything cannot be sure, i know. but condoms are the easiest way to keep from occurring, aren't they?


rm_go4itmate 43M
67 posts
5/28/2006 7:08 am

>Yumiconnor
as far as I know, condoms are the easiest, most ecomonical way to prevent what I worry, Yes. - wouldn't that be great if I don't have to worry about those


6pkgmn9 66M  
238 posts
5/31/2006 11:26 pm

Yummy..opps Yumi..safety with BOTH partners is utmost. Condoms are rather boring ...but...can protect both from lots of other problems that you/they are not ready for nor need...it is a must until you are spending time with the same person and you know their habits. Babies..do not need to bring them into a world unless BOTH parties want to enjoy them and are ready for years of caring for them...
Been vacation and have missed your beauty and wise musings


rm_jp_foreigner 41F

6/6/2006 6:02 am

Hello Yumi!

You know what!
You are talking about using condoms when having sex, which is great against diseases and especially HIV!
But, did u all know that just by giving a blowjob without using any condom or by licking a girl pussy you can get HIV?

Many people don't think about it but you can even get infected when having foreplay!

Don't forget that!
J.


yumiconnor 40F
34 posts
6/7/2006 7:56 am

>jp_foreigner

Hi J!

Thanks for your comment.
You are right! I almost forgot about blowjob.
Now, I take care of that. again, thanks good advice!


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