Why...  

youwonnit 47M
27 posts
8/13/2006 1:35 am

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8/13/2006 1:19 pm

Why...

So more general trawlings of this filthy little cyberworld has thrown up another query.

Why are there so many married women out there looking to explore with other women? And why do we live in such a sexist world where that seems more acceptable?

If a wife brought home another woman and said to the husband we are popping upstairs love, then he would do two things... grab a beer and grab a camera (yes broad generalisations here).

If she brought home some 10" hunk of a fireman and said we are popping upstairs love, then he would also do two things... get fekkin livid, then realise the size of the fireman meant he would get a serious ass whoopin so instead go and cry, get drunk and sleep with one of the wife's friends.

(Of course if any of the above happened on AdultFriendFinder and not in the real world then the only thing that would happen is all parties concerned would have a hell of a lot of fun and write testimonials about each other on the profiles)

So what concerns me a little is...

Why women are so eager to explore with other women?
What are the husbands doing, or failing to do, that drives the wife to this?
Why is it that women exploring is some kind of female bondng that men wouldnt understand and therefore quite hamrless?
Why isnt it considered cheating?

Because i will be honest here and say i am a little orally bi-curious, as i think most men are. But speaking psychologically that would be more to do with Man's fascination with his own member.

(This is basic differences in gender again isnt it, god i hate the separation between the sexes - i mean i want to watch football occassionally, i wanna cry at the end of Titanic occasionally, i wanna walk into a room that smells of flowers and i wanna open the fridge and get a beer to sit down and watch "Horny Slappers 7: Spanking Season" - i dont like the strong divisions in society).

In a nutshell -

if two straight guys got on some serious oral together their thought would be "wish i could do this to myself"

if two straight women got on some serious oral together their thought would be "lie down honey i wanna make you happy here"

So how wrong am I?


TnWitchyWoman 56F
6852 posts
8/13/2006 2:45 am

Just my opinion but, I don't think you're far off target. I think a lot of women are lacking something from their man when they go exploring with a woman. I think it's acceptable to be with a woman instead of a man because men make it possible...even encourage it...as some fantasy of their's to see two women together and if they're lucky...to be invited along. But I've seen it take a turn for the worse twice when the women have left their husbands for the woman. Apparently that woman provided something their husband wasn't.

I tried it simply at my husband's encouraging. I wasn't looking to be with a woman but he wanted to live that fantasy and I had another man in my life and I felt like I owed it to him to explore a side HE wanted since he allowed me to have what I wanted. That was a huge mistake looking back. I'll never do something because I feel like I "owe" someone again, I'll do it because *I* want to. Anyway, that woman did end up leaving her husband for another woman but it could have easily of been for my husband because it became clear to me she wasn't "playing" to explore, she was playing to find something better than what she had whether it was male or female.

Lori


youwonnit replies on 8/13/2006 3:04 am:
Hi Lori,

Thanks for the comments. Life can get very complicated cant it?

Just read your profile and will now start looking through blogs now. Sounds like you have earnt that hair but love the full-on-ness that you tackle life with, gotta go find me some of that courage!

Have a good rest of the weekend.

Neil

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/13/2006 12:31 pm

It is just a trend!!!

Purry {=}

Purry


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