nice guys  

your_gypsy 51F
128 posts
3/4/2006 11:49 pm

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3/8/2006 9:11 pm

nice guys

i used to have this girlfriend, a jewelry designer in l.a., who described herself as a "chubby chaser," meaning she liked the big boys. in that case, i am a dork chaser. i would say almost a geek chaser, but geeks have been known to forget to brush their teeth at times and to have festering pimples on their neck, and i like's the ones with a special something about them. maybe some great eyes, or a good and useful body part admittedly i would have a lot of fun being admired by such a fellow. but sooner or later he would realize how complex i am and .. well

i like the guy who is a little nervous when he is with me. shy and obviously happy to be with me. he is a perfect gentleman in the street and a stallion in bed. no kidding. these guys often hide extraordinary talent or gift in the bedroom. we ladies are often pleasantly surprised... not only a nice guy but a "truly nice guy!!!"

but... um. here comes the well part. he is usually not equipped with a ton of emotional maturity. he has been crunching numbers and listening to concertos his whole life, and got beat up in school. your average 40 y/o milf who brings her whole life with her (!?.*), has so many needs. they like each other a lot, yet it doesn't have a chance in hell of being what each need in their lives.

i have been with bad guys, too. a meathead hockey player really took me for a ride. that was my last one. then i went on to an extremely anal retentive new york jew (a nice guy!) who said he didn't like to go down on a woman because he didn't like *the wetness*... said with a screwed up, distastful look to his face. HUH? and my newest nice guy... apparently wants me to remain a virgin up until our wedding day, or is saving sex for procreation...

so i'm not saying that the nice guys are without their problems, but i guess one must weigh one against the other to be fair. at the very least, i can't end up in jail for a nice guy.

1010011011 34M
28 posts
3/5/2006 1:27 am

heh, nice post

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
3/5/2006 2:10 am

*sigh* why aren't there just some perfect guys, hey?

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rm_thomas1304 63M

3/7/2006 9:47 am

Perfect guys have to be taught lol.. or at least to be able to learn. A woman has no idea how much power she holds over a man...

respectfulyyours 63M

3/8/2006 12:02 am

    Quoting rm_thomas1304:
    Perfect guys have to be taught lol.. or at least to be able to learn. A woman has no idea how much power she holds over a man...
Ohh, I believe that most women know EXACTLY how much power they have over men. As I've said many times in the past, "The woman is always in control." A female friend of mine also said, "Women are basically evil."

rm_thomas1304 63M

3/8/2006 7:21 am

I've heard that from quite a few men as well that ' women are basically evil'. And yea, you are right about how much control they have.

rm_qwik2lik 46M

3/8/2006 4:36 pm

comunicaton is key to want this ...he wants that...if both understand no problems...if there's a problem your loins will tell you soon enough...i'm a good guy so that post could definitely be the meaning the total opposite about women...but honestly a guy that doesn't want to go down on you...there are no words available but the look he had on his face...i have the same look right now...but it's not in disgust...

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
3/8/2006 8:45 pm

So what's your take on the guy who was the cool guy in school, football team, ski team, etc., then becomes a geek/nerd in adulthood?

(BTW - it's "geek" 'round these parts; "dork" is kinda like geek, but without the brains.)

your_gypsy 51F

3/8/2006 9:11 pm

how about nerd, voodooguru? by the way, HI!!! big hugggg

qwikt2lik i am very doubtful is a nerd or geek judging from that picture, dayumm, too bad i'm "preoccupied" at the moment...

i have gotten a lot of razzing from girlfriends, like, "you like HIM?" oh and even the guys say that. she likes ME? yeah, you, dufus, so get busy and join planet earth with me!

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