Reality check  

yogagrrl 48
193 posts
3/9/2006 9:20 am

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4/11/2006 8:38 pm

Reality check

How many of you are really getting the sex and attention you deserve?

On this site you need to be very creative visually to present yourself in a unique way to get any attention what so ever. Not only that, you need to build a profile and sometimes we are holding back with our words....WTF... why?

I like to think my photos are appealing and of good quality. I'm not full of ego nor do I parade around like a diva. Forget that, you only limit yourself if you behave that way. I apply my art background, and some common sense to create visually appealing images.

However, I have seen some photos that are so poor in quality it's no wonder that you're not getting any attention. I love the photos of some guys cock taken the bathroom with dirty clothes on the floor... OMG! And ladies, why the genitalia photos? I'm telling you, it's not sexy. Remember we are not porn stars with perfect little pussies... less is more in my book. Profiles with no photos are just plain... I don't want to say it but why bother being here at all if you are so afraid.

I understand that some of you live in areas that are not as progressive as NYC, London, Paris, SF. So you're careful not to parade around in a sex site afraid that your boss or golf mates may see you and that you're considering cheating on the wife. Good grief, sex is the most basic human function. If you're not getting it at home, you're gonna find it some where else, or even your wife or girlfriend will be doing the same.

I'm very fortunate on many, many levels and I count my blessings daily. I always thank the people in my world for making my life so absolutely fanstasic. I always give back and never take anything or any body for granted.

I am aware.

I live in SF and this is one far out city, it's also my home town so I guess I'm a "Super Freak". I can go to a sex club tonight and dress like a slut or a submissive kitten at a bondage club. I can go a gay club and dance until dawn, I can pick up a girl or a boy and have grand time and no one would care or even notice.

I have lived most of my fantasies. So I rarely write about them. I think most of the stuff I read here on AdultFriendFinder are purely fictional accounts that the writer picked up in a romance novel or a TV show. Now I'm sounding like a know it all, no offense friends I'm just writing. You know how the subconscience mind works, the flow of words, thoughts and how they surface.

I have added a photo of a blue lotus flower in the left hand corner of this page. The lotus flower is considerd to be the "Remover of obstacles". Meaning that, this flower can help you live a more fruitful life.

Party on friends... step out and try something different today.


caressmewell 53F

3/9/2006 10:21 am

I'm happy that you are free to express yourself.


HughJarse2000 47M

3/11/2006 5:45 am

I agree with you completely.

Well almost completely.

Hmmm , at least partly.

Um ? What were you saying ?

Maybe if I didn't live in this wierd little place called Sydney I'd have more of a clue. Bondage clubs and gay bars are just so 1980's over here.

You should visit


yogagrrl 48

3/11/2006 7:49 am

Gay clubs and bondage clubs are a great alternatives to the bar scene where everyone seems plastic and fake and who are trying too hard to fit in - fuck that. In these alternative venues you can be real and up front and no one thinks you're weird for dressing a little... different. I'm not your conventional type but I can conform just nicely and behave when I need to.


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