Real Guys  

yogagrrl 48
193 posts
12/10/2005 12:37 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Real Guys

So it's been a real eye opener signing up for AdultFriendFinder

Guys talk the talk but don't deliver. I get a lot of proposals from men. I even have had a few messages where guys have offered to travel across the country for a date... there are some sexy pilots out there. Tempting, but I am not interested in one night stands.

This is what I have encountered virtually every time from local area guys. A message is sent. There is a response. Pictures are exchanged. A little erotic talk ensues. The guy says he is interested and that he will call me. I give him my number. And that is it. The end. No call.

Am I doing something wrong? Am I threatening to men? I am actually quite submissive and looking for a guy to just be a guy and to do what should come naturally. I can understand if someone is not interested. I am not interested in many guys but I am straight up with them about it.

FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/10/2005 1:58 pm

Oh my, I can't imagine there are no men in your area that would be blissfully happy to meet you. Are you too threatening? Are you a tough chick that presents yourself as unnapproachable?

I am just guessing...I wish you well....I am no pilot, and won't even pretend I am going to relocate to San Francisco. Although, you would be a lovely reason to change the scenery of my life! Take care...

Good Luck,

Stop by and visit my blog sometime, you might find something interesting there.

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
12/10/2005 2:27 pm

Your story is an all to familiar one so I doubt it is anything to do with you but all to with the guys who are contacting you. As with all walks of life there are people here who can deliver and there are others who think they can but sadly chicken out in the end. Give it time and I'm sure you will come across someone that can not only talk the talk but walk the walk.
Have fun.

yogagrrl 48

12/10/2005 2:58 pm

I think you are right 77. When I see someone I like it seems like we get along real well and everything is going great and I get all aroused and then and then and then...... it's like a splash of cold water.

It's frustrating and a little hurtful.

I think part of it is that some guys are intimidated by independent and intelligent, free willed girls. It is a bit ridiculous though. It's not like I am a CEO of some Fortune 500 company or anything. I didn't even stick with it long enough to get my bachelors degree.

sillyperv 54M

12/11/2005 10:30 am

Insecurity runs rampant, especially on a site where women are demanding good hot, hard, no hold fucks. Sure lots like to think they can deliver, but a little doubt and not even an introvenous (I don't think that's even close to the spelling) viagra drip is going to help. Perhaps a little patience, though there is no excuse for playing games and anyone who draws you along and cuts you off - just be thankful it didn't go any further and move on.

rm_secondhanded 67M
1 post
1/2/2006 2:24 pm

Hon: You must be attractive to pilots because I am one in Iraq. Soooo I won't be coming cross country to date you but I would love to talk to you. Words cannot substitute for real time one on one or a gentle touch, but words can arouse the senses (especially mine where I have been cloisered and haven't had a mature woman for a long, long time)

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