I should know better  

yogagrrl 48
193 posts
8/10/2006 5:07 pm

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8/12/2006 12:44 pm

I should know better

I don't know why I'm posting this, I should know better.

Please don't take offense guys, but the men I have met here are on AdultFriendFinder are so flaky, blind and closed in so many ways. I know what you're thinking, the women are the same, I've heard that as well but I'm not one of them.

Why are we all wasting our time here and paying for a service that does not provide? I keep thinking... addictions yeah, we all have them. AdultFriendFinder and addictions... I shake my head and laugh.

I know some of you are not looking for partners, but friends to trade and enchange emails with. That's nice... but I'm looking for real men, who know how to take a submissive female and put her in her place... can't seem to find one here.

I have given out my phone number to two men recently. Both found me, pursued me and really got my attention. Both seemed intelligent, well rounded but they never offered me their number but instead asked for mine. I have not heard from either.

Both say they are single, busy professionals that sometimes work nearly 12 hour days and travel for work. Which is plausible and I do understand.

Tell me guys, why start a dialog with a woman and then just vanish into air?

I cannot take this site, nor the people on this site too serious.

This is the reason I gave up my gold membership. I have better luck meeting men at parties, the sushi bar and the grocery store. Not to mention, I meet them driving around town when I stop at a red light, that's really happend a few times. I thought this site was for mature people who took sex to another level... all is not what is seems to be here.

Okay breathe, It's no big deal there are more things to worry about. Like the red alert at most airports in the country today which will hinder weekend travel.


CongaFelixRubes 54M  
1223 posts
8/11/2006 10:42 am

You go Yogagrrl, tell it like it is. I am fairly new to this site and there are a lot of flaks and fakes. My gold membership is about to expire and I don't think I am going to renew. You are a special woman and I know you will fined what you are looking for.


rm_VGroove415 46M
5 posts
8/11/2006 10:54 am

I hear you. AdultFriendFinder has tremendous signal-to-noise ratio problems. I can't speak to the specifics of the guys you're talking about, but there is a fly-by-night feel to most of the people here. I've also seen a lot of people here just to chat, and not chat sexy, they want to talk about their day and complain about their job. I guess that's what people do, but why come to AdultFriendFinder for it?

I only have a gold membership here because I used to work for Friendfinder. Of the Friendfinder sites, the only ones that I think have value for actually meeting people are the FastCupid personals. I had a Nerve Personals profile before FriendFinder bought them, and there are both pros and cons to the changes made when they became FriendFinder sites but for the most part they're the only ones I could ever meet anyone on.

You also might want to check out alt.com... there are a lot of guys there who actually know what a submissive is. They seem to take their sex a little more seriously. It's a smaller "pool" but a bit more tighter knit, it might be more what you're looking for. Be warned, even at alt there's a signal-to-noise problem, just not so bad as it is here.

If you change where you're blogging, please let me know. It's about the only reason I come here to AdultFriendFinder anymore--when I see one of your posts in my RSS feed.


yogagrrl 48

8/11/2006 11:32 am

    Quoting CongaFelixRubes:
    You go Yogagrrl, tell it like it is. I am fairly new to this site and there are a lot of flaks and fakes. My gold membership is about to expire and I don't think I am going to renew. You are a special woman and I know you will fined what you are looking for.
I'm not really looking all that seriouly. If something comes up then I'll go with the flow.


yogagrrl 48

8/11/2006 3:08 pm

    Quoting rm_VGroove415:
    I hear you. AdultFriendFinder has tremendous signal-to-noise ratio problems. I can't speak to the specifics of the guys you're talking about, but there is a fly-by-night feel to most of the people here. I've also seen a lot of people here just to chat, and not chat sexy, they want to talk about their day and complain about their job. I guess that's what people do, but why come to AdultFriendFinder for it?

    I only have a gold membership here because I used to work for Friendfinder. Of the Friendfinder sites, the only ones that I think have value for actually meeting people are the FastCupid personals. I had a Nerve Personals profile before FriendFinder bought them, and there are both pros and cons to the changes made when they became FriendFinder sites but for the most part they're the only ones I could ever meet anyone on.

    You also might want to check out alt.com... there are a lot of guys there who actually know what a submissive is. They seem to take their sex a little more seriously. It's a smaller "pool" but a bit more tighter knit, it might be more what you're looking for. Be warned, even at alt there's a signal-to-noise problem, just not so bad as it is here.

    If you change where you're blogging, please let me know. It's about the only reason I come here to AdultFriendFinder anymore--when I see one of your posts in my RSS feed.
It's been a long time! How are you? You always have something interesting to say, thanks for your recommissions on Alt. com. It's a bit too BDSM for me, I checked it out a while a go. Write to me again, send and email and let me know what's going on with you.


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