Create the meeting  

yessir77 56M/51F
4 posts
3/19/2005 5:01 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Create the meeting

My solution to the previous post is to set up a chance encounter with another couple or lady. I make all the arrangements and my wife believes we are simply going out for dinner and drinks. We go to a place where the lady will actually pick up my wife. I find it makes her less anxious about a first meeting as she doesn't know it's even happening.
It also helps if she has a glass of wine and spots the lady first and comments on how she wishes she could meet her.

knisher 71M

7/27/2005 6:58 pm

Another good method is to have a repairman come to the house to do some work, or someone to give you an estimate. Let the repairman come on to your wife, and then you walk in and join. I have done it, and it works.

rm_bri28ma 39M
357 posts
12/21/2005 8:54 am

Of the ladies I've known, it's harder for them to "just have sex" than guys. A little alcohol helps, but I'm not sure how I feel about that in general...why would one need something to lower your inhibitions? I'd hate for a partner to regret it afterwords. For women, it seems the besat case scenario is to have an acquaintence becoem something more...but how often does that happen? Let me know when you figure it out!

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