Next Verse....Same As The First  

yagottalikit 49F
824 posts
10/26/2005 6:00 pm

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Next Verse....Same As The First

Gonna try the roundabout way......

Take a look inside for yesterday's post

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

yagottalikit 49F
583 posts
10/26/2005 6:02 pm

I Love You.......AND You

~If it's just that you're weak, can we talk about it? It's gettin so damn creepy just nursin' this ghost of a chance ~ the fiction of romance and the technicolor dreams ~

-Black and White People - Rob Thomas (of course)

Can you be in love with two people at the same time? (and for all you smartasses out there: I'm talking "IN LOVE". Not family, friends, Rob Thomas', etc.)

Remember that sappy song ~ "Torn Between Two Lovers"? That sorta thing....(great, now that song will be stuck in my head for a while!)

If you answer "yes, I could be or have been "IN LOVE" with two at once", tell me, what's the end result? Obviously, something's gotta give, eventually. Right?

Just a few scenarios I envision:

You're in love with both:
1. They both feel the same about you ~ but, not each other.
2. They both love you back AND love each other.
3. They both love each other ~ but, NOT YOU.
4. One is free to love you ~ one isn't.
5. Neither are free to love you.
6. Both are free ~ but, they don't charge anyone else, either.
7. One doesn't give a shit who you love ~ one does.
8. Neither gives a shit about love.
9. Neither gives a shit about your love. (or you, for that matter)
10. One loves you more than you them.
11. You love the one that isn't free/doesn't love you ~ more than the other.
12. The other has become verrrrry loving and has begun stalking you........

These are just a few examples.

In many of these, the fact there may be a dilemna seems ridiculous ~ however, "we can't help who we fall in love with", right? BULLSHIT!
That phrase was created as an excuse for inexcusable behavior! (Sorry about stealing your husband, sis, we can't help who we fall in love with) (Oh, I understand, sis, so I guess you don't mind that I fell in love with the man who molested your children....he's being released next week. I couldn't help who I fell in love with.)
Bunch of rubbish!

So, can you love more than one person at a time? Sure. You might even love them truly, madly and deeply. But you cannot be "IN LOVE" with both of them. The one you're "IN LOVE" with is the one you cannot fathom life without...the one you would not let go of so easily. The one you'd do anything (short of criminal activity and/or (pehaps) compromising your dignity, morals, safety, etc.) to hold on to.

The one you're "IN LOVE" with leaves your heart and soul full and content, with no need for others. This love is something special ~ something rare ~ something you cherish ~ something that belongs to only one.
(Idealistic, yes. Essentially, it's truth.)

Mind you, when I say "no need for others" I am not referring to physical desires/needs or companionship.....I'm saying if you are "IN LOVE", there's no need to be "IN LOVE" with another. Tends to trivialize the concept of being "IN LOVE" ~ don't ya think?

So, love more than one all you want ~ reserve being "IN LOVE" for the ultimate.......

(gawd ~ who wrote this sappy drivel? Must've been the other twin (never evil, just different!)

That's just my idea of what love should be ~
Anything else is an excuse to have the cherry on top of the icing on the cake you wanna eat, too.

~ Anything else is weak ~

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

yagottalikit 49F
583 posts
10/27/2005 2:39 pm

Never mind....the next attempt to post will work.....I'm psychic...or is it psycho???

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

(Juan S)
2642 posts
10/28/2005 12:46 am


LOL...just kidding boo...

rm_hinkawaza 52M
371 posts
10/28/2005 7:29 am

No Siz, she is psycho, she knows when things are gonna happen!!!! lol

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