Guide Us Guys To What you Want  

xxxtallorderxxx 46M
161 posts
7/19/2006 11:20 am

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7/26/2006 10:43 pm

Guide Us Guys To What you Want

Hi Bloggers, (looking towards female bloggers)

Some guys just dont get the message do they, and yet some have the warmth and understanding that just makes you want to know them more. There is more to life to sex (so i'm told), and wanted you girls to list your top 5 things you most want from a guy.

to help you all along i'm goona list my top 5 things I want from my ideal woman.

1, Affection, with kisses and hugs. I like to be loved this way, and love giving this love too.

2, Planning, Making time for each other to do things and plan things out. I dont mind of course giving the bigger share but feel it's not right for one partner to do everything in one particular area whether it involves cooking, cleaning, walking the dog, washing the car etc. Talking about the daily weekly needs together and doing things jointly is a must for me where possible.

3, Generosity, gifts and reminders of each other love, goes back to affection really and yes sex. The gifts never have to be big either just like the little reminders now and then that someone cares about me and in turn I care about them.

4, Shopping, I hate window shopping, normally i know what I want and when i want it and then leave. Would look for someone who knew what they wanted to buy and didn't spend 2 out of three hours looking at other things besides what they'd originally come out for.

5, Space, I like my space, I like to do my own thing as much as being with people. My ideal woman would have her own interests just like I have mine that we can get absorbed in and maybe at times share in. But with everything else keeping that interest going and the independance aspect is something much on my heart. I think it's a reason i've never become a father, but then i think i'd make a very good one. I have a lot of qualities that actually make me seem like a father already in terms of my patience and understanding I have especially with my brothers.

Hope that wasnt too deep for you, please feel free to respond


RubyRedPetal 44F

7/19/2006 12:27 pm

*prehensile tongue
*magic fingers
*swish car

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xxxtallorderxxx replies on 7/19/2006 12:46 pm:
drst only have 4/5 never mind eh!

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
7/19/2006 1:32 pm

Yours was a very good list. Some of yours would be on mine, especially 1,3,5

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

xxxtallorderxxx replies on 7/19/2006 10:12 pm:
it's nice to know my list made an impression, i'm obviously a deep thinker...

_Foxee_ 49F  
359 posts
7/19/2006 4:29 pm

i was looking at your blog (like i do) and i thought actually for a man you summed up the perfect relationship,but my question lies herein
do men really want that cool,chilled,sexually,romantic,relationship where they feel free to have sex and be passionate with each other ? does that ever exist? the one where they can have a giggle,take the piss,fuck,have a good laugh,and some fun along the way.that is all i ask,no strings just respect which in my book is enough,my god i think you touched the epitome of exactly what i want out of life and have been for awhile....but the question really is ???
does that perfect person exist?
they do......they just havent met yet

The Fox.

xxxtallorderxxx replies on 7/19/2006 10:00 pm:
Well people like that do exist in my definition, and the list defines me exactly. Just never found the right girl yet to share my life with like that who can be level with me in so many things. I'm not exactly looking to play the field and be a stud, just taking my time, just blowing that dandelion now and then; saying "today/tomorow/next day" etc and each time it just seems one day, and not one in particaular.

TheCliticals 34F/F

7/20/2006 12:34 am

This wont do. Not once did you mention anarchy, mayhem, and laughter


xxxtallorderxxx replies on 7/20/2006 1:13 am:
you must be thinking of my twin or alter-ego ! lol

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
7/26/2006 9:25 am

Nice post. Nice list too. I came hunting you up because ShayeDK amusingly matched us to each other in her recent you may have noticed. You read like a great guy. I think I'll watch your blog awhile. As for my answers?

A soulful, affectionate and laughter filled heart connection.

The gift of regular time, attention and good humor.

Glorious, rich sensuality and inventive frequent sex.

Time together doing the things we both love to do.

Acceptance of who I am; that I'm married, that I'm emotional/spiritual and that I'm non-monogamous...even to you.

Able to meet my intensity with your own in respectful, gentle and strong ways.

Did I remember to mention frequent glorious sex? Gotta have that one. LOL!

Nice meeting you.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


xxxtallorderxxx replies on 7/26/2006 10:43 pm:
i'm sure i mentioned something as to when u wanted to leave for the swiss break, if i remember correctly... Thanks for your list and nice comments, hugs n cuddles


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