so there I was....minding my own business......  

xtremebuilder 57M
19 posts
7/14/2006 10:12 pm

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so there I was....minding my own business......

The middle of the week, had to take a day off for the,,,,gggggggrrrrr.....dayumm cable guy!!!....Yeah, he'll be there after 12 to hook up your digital phone........he left at about burning up an afternoon!

So anyway, while I'm waiting, I start goofing around on AdultFriendFinder. This profile turns up, hadn't even been approved yet. It's a gal, 100% match, shows some of her preferences, but of course doesn't show what she has to say or any pics. So Dr. Intelligent here, sends her an e-mail, "going to the local tavern after the cable guy, wanna join me?" She, very politely say no, she's at work and no fun for her today. Shoot I can understand that, I was supposed to be at work, bur wasted a day for the, ggggrrrrrrr, cable guy!

So I check my e-mail, and lo and behold my hotmail shows that I have a response from AdultFriendFinder mail from this gal, and it shows her pic! Absolutely gorgeous, phenomenal smile and a face I have seen before! Now, here is where I begin to screw things up I guess. I e-mailed her back that I understood that she had to work and I also, being the typical male idiot that I am, said she looked familiar. Of course at that point, I never heard back from her.

I also made the huge mistake of sending a network invite, which she refused. So I have made blunders I reckon, I should have never told her she looked familiar and I should have never invited her to my network, i GUESS?

Here's the rub, the next day I went to see her profile, once it was approved, and she has like 16 people in her network!! Some of those with more graphic pics than I have in my profile! Then again, some with no pics at all. How do I take that? Was she threatened that I might know who she is, or are my profile and pics that disgusting?

Now for the capper. I saw her picture about 5 years ago on another site (I'm thinking an MSN Group, but don't clearly remember). I have never forgotten that face! Fabulous smile, beautiful eyes, within 2 years of my age!

Now for the big capper! Without getting in to details, I do know who she is, have admired her from afar for a year (remembering her pic from 5 years ago). and assumed she was attached after all theses years.

Now she has shown up on AdultFriendFinder, what do I do with this. I would really like to make contact, but feel like I've blown it already because of no response on the net, and the embarrassment of trying to face to face with her after she has already cut off e-mail and refused my network invite.

How pathetic am I??


keystonenc 43M
144 posts
7/15/2006 12:59 pm

Wow, so the cable company won't give you a courtesy call before showing up? The last time I had an issue with my cable I gave Time Warner my cell number and the tech called me when he was getting ready to make the trip over and I told him it take about 20 mins and he was there waiting when I got there. So, I was able to duck out from work and get back in about an hour.

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