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2/3/2006 11:02 am

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New to this.

So many dicks, so little time. I just signed up today and can't wait to see what's out there. Wanted to start a blog so people can tell me their good and bad AdultFriendFinder experiences.

elysianpleasure 47M

2/3/2006 9:30 pm

There are 10 men for every women... so the profiles and e-mails is a pretty frustrating experience for me. I think it is overwhelming at times for the women who are receiving all this attention and trying to filter through it.

What has been good is the blogs. It is slower paced and there is a community that with time has people you get to know.

Welcome and enjoy.

BendsLuciaHinds 55M
10 posts
2/6/2006 10:07 am

The odds are certainly in your favor. Unfortunately many here do not know why they are really here. Just be upfront with others. Some are here to find one-timers and others a LTR. But most want to just enjoy sex. Put the games aside and be real! Then you can have fun without the drama. By the way, being too restrictive in your search can prevent you from getting wehat you really want. Blogs are a good way to meet and get to know others. Initial emails are like pick-up lines in a bar. Blogs gives the chance to get to know more abour a person.

Good luck in your search, perhaps we will have the opportunity to meet and get to know each other.

rm_ChasD4u123 64M

2/6/2006 11:15 am

You should have no problem attracting what you are looking for. I would love to get my hands and silk rope on your and drive you wildly insane with passion as I devour every inch of your body until you start screaming "UNCLE"

rm_rayman55321 56M
1 post
2/12/2006 9:40 am

Hello Wtcnt,
Welcome and good luck. 10 to 1 is a little off, more like 100 to 1. LOL I can't seem to hook up with anyone. Looks like 80% of the ladies here are just pay site hookers. I send an email they want my outside addy, then bingo. My spam file fills up, from them, they want me to join a pay site to meet them. lol So now I pass on most of the under 30 age ladies. But when I saw your pic, those eye.... just had to check you out. I also am cautious when only the minimum profile is filled out. I don't think the women have that problem. Well good luck.

Drunkenlawyer24 37M
1 post
2/12/2006 8:51 pm

Let me know how you like it wtcnt4u, I am considering upgrading to a better membership...good to see someone from so nearby...good luck, let me know how it goes.


2/13/2006 1:50 am

so far, i've gotten a lot of responses (like over 100 emails a day the last few days) and have actually talked to some very interesting people. people who are real and have a sense of humor and substance. obviously, we are all here for certain's just nice to have conversations with interesting people that i never would have met otherwise...and that there's some chemistry there in some cases.

CinchBabesTurfs 41M

2/16/2006 4:42 pm

Rayman hits it right on the head...I am just trying to find a real woman let alone someone to chat or hook up with. I have heard a few success stories and I suppose that was enough for me. The fakes are getting easier to spot and WTCNT, clearly you are not one of them...of couse, seeing you live and in the sexy flesh would be a welcome confirmation. Good luck to you, and hopefully you find my email amongst the hundreds in your box. Stay sexy and keep smiling..

Fos24 44M  
8 posts
2/19/2006 1:12 pm

Good experiences? I have to say I've met some people here that are pretty cool. I can't say I've come across anything yet that has blown me away, but I've had some fun times and met some really genuinely good people. It's definitely tough to be a guy on here, if you expect to find an attractive AND mentally stable woman and expect her to be legitimate. The emails definitely come from the unwanteds, if you give out your address and sometimes you even get unwanted instant messages.
There are good people here though, if you take the time to get to know some of them. Some people bring their drama here too though. So that can tend to make it even more unappealing, unless you like that type of junk. Some people have horror stories about meeting people, but I think if you keep a level head and some common sense, you can usually get a feel for who's normal and who's kinda wacky.
Anyway, hopefully you have nothing but good experiences here and get to know some cool just say that, because I'm in Pittsfield Twp., off of Platt...would be cool to hear from you...same handle on aim and yahoo

TilesSarinRalph 47M
1 post
2/27/2006 6:21 am

the people i have net have been very nice, good experiences.
but it seems most do not respond to well.
it is a little dissappointing. (sp) that single males are not wanted too much.
anyways i hope you have a great experience here, and meet some very nice people.

rm_jd1975_9 41M
2 posts
3/12/2006 6:43 pm

Thanks Rayman...I was wondering why I've been getting more than the usual amount of spammy type stuff. Being the porn aficionado that I am, I can usually tell who the fake ones are, but I suppose I've been fooled by more than one ad.

By the way, good luck wtcnt4u, fellow Ann Arborite here. I sent you an email.

Crazy_Monkey_Fac 40M
23 posts
3/27/2006 2:15 pm

Many 'professional site' gals & guys get on here to fish for customers, but you have found that out with all the emails u where getting.
Do not skip eating out @ Z's Road House or Deli when someone offers!!! Just a guess, but you are another grad student ... or post doc?

againandagain66 50M
1 post
4/16/2006 9:19 pm

As others have stated, there are MANY fake ads, many that have stolen photos, and some people that are here just to fantasize. There are some very cool people here and like any place we have some real jerks too (male and female). Using a blog, visiting the chat rooms and joining a group is a good way to get to know some real ppl. Some of the groups announce meet and greets which is a good way to meet the ppl you talk with online in a no sex way which is safe and fun. I've meet a few ppl this way, but have yet to have anyone from the site. Good luck and hope to talk to you soon.

rm_jmh48706 43M

4/18/2006 6:02 am

I think that I have managed to actually communicate with 4 real people on here since I joined up. All the rest are the spammer accounts, and I tell ya, it gets really, really discouraging.

beadman40 56M

4/24/2006 4:08 pm

While there are a lot of people who aren't quite sure what they are interested in, I've found that persistence and eloquence are what really pay off. I've made contact with quite a few women, have gone further than a phone call with several, and have netted several good friends from the whole experience. Of course I'm more interested in what a woman's personality and brain are like rather than the surface attributes, so I haven't had much of a problem with the meeting shock (we've already exchanged emails at least, and since I write prolifically I usually know what I'm getting into).

My experience contacting women on this site has given me this piece of advice (generally in the form of, "Gee, you actually _wrote_ something!"): Write something. As in something besides "Loved yer pussy, let's fuck I can suck all night!!!" The three exclamation points are a dead giveaway that it's your little head that's actually striking the keyboard. The fine Art of Seduction does not involve much in the way of sexual technique discussion.

Good luck, y'all!

And siamesecat . . . not all of us are hung up on size 5 girls.

elreyrey 48M

4/26/2006 6:25 pm

I'm glad I found this blog (through wtcnt4u's pofile)! I was statrting to get, in the words of jmh40786, "it gets really, really discouraging"!! But here you are: real people! Real, horny, people, woo hoo, just like me.

I have made NO real contacts with women, and a few with men, but I'm hesitant about that, because I'm not really bi. I guess I'm curious, but shy or something.

I fantasize about wtcnt4u a lot. And this one guys cock... it's two-toned, and looks reall soft to the touch. Hmmmmm there goes my libido again. Anyhoo, glad to meet you all, and wtcnt, FUCKING WRITE BACK TO ME (hee hee)... ok?

wtcnt4u replies on 4/26/2006 11:39 pm:
Persistence will payoff elreyrey! I promise...just takes me awhile to write back. Glad you are fantasizing about to tell the fantasies I am involved in?

rm_Vitrogaul 39M

5/4/2006 4:49 pm

Well, anytime you want to talk you know where to find me...I did have LOTS fun during the time we had together

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