he didnt call today.  

woosgirl 46F
14 posts
4/14/2006 12:28 pm

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5/30/2006 1:17 pm

he didnt call today.

i bet hes somewhere with his so called wife!

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
4/14/2006 5:23 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

woosgirl 46F
4 posts
4/15/2006 10:50 am

well....theyre only married on paper.by the way,he did call.he said he didnt want me to think hes ignoring me.maybe he will come get the baby since tomorrow is easter.i have no problem with having him and his wife babysit.i know i may sound a lil bit cold,but we have been having an affair for three years.

SirMounts 102M

4/21/2006 5:16 pm

Ah, we may take so many avenues in life, in learning about others, and ourselves.
Welcome to blogland, woosgirl. *smiling*


4/21/2006 8:33 pm

You've been with him for 3 years and he hasn't left her yet? Sorry to say this but it sounds like you are getting used. I bet you get lots of offers from sexy handsome guys on this site...I recommend that you start looking for someone else. Why are you wasting your time? You and your daughter deserve to be treated better.

rm_ladyhawke121 51F

4/22/2006 9:57 pm

I agree with SMRBRZ if you are going to get over him. Get rid of him. He is using you and if that is what you want honey the ok. Who are we to tell you what to do. But I dont like being used. I am a fairly laid back woman. But if you think for one minute that you can treat me like dirt and walk all over me. Then honey DONT LET THE DOOR HIT YOU IN THE ARSE ON THE WAY OUT. There are lots of fish in the sea and if you keep looking there will be single men out there. No offence to married men who arent getting any. But if what you want is to be with a good man and a single man then why spend all your cookies on a guy after 3 years who isnt going to leave his wife for you or anyone else. He has got you exactly where he wants you. SCARED. So maybe you need to look else where while you are thinking of what you want to do. You just never know what might happen.

rm_wetfingeraz 54F
3012 posts
4/23/2006 10:48 am

Did you go into this with some expectation that he was going to leave his wife for you? And did you ever stop to think that if he did, that he'd do it to you, too? Like Dr. Phil says, if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you.

woosgirl 46F
4 posts
4/23/2006 4:44 pm

i agree that he wont leave his wife.i guess i got kinda used to that fact.hes having his cake and eating it too.what do you do when you love him so dearly.i may be be crazy i guess.i figured if i get a sinlge bf,i might get over him.he calls me constantly.we take so many chances. i dont know what i will do if we get caught again.on christmas day me and his wife had a fist fight at a bar.that still didnt stop the affair.my mother says i am a playing a very dangerous game.

FERNIE691973 44M
1 post
4/24/2006 7:10 pm



4/26/2006 10:31 am

I feel bad for your situation, from time to time we've all been in a similar sitution where we love someone more than they love us, but here's the good news...you can find someone who is single that you can love as much or more than you love this jerk AND who will also love you back! Take a chance and start looking... unless there is something deep down in you that scares you about being with a man that truly loves you and is available to be with you??? Is there a reason why you feel you don't deserve to be truly loved and happy?? If so, better find out what it is and fix it for your daughter's sake.

woosgirl 46F
4 posts
4/28/2006 7:45 am

news flash!four days ago his wife got a detailed bill that showed hundreds of calls he made to me.he called me to tell me that she may call me,but she didnt call.i havent heard from him in three days,i dont know whats going on.my mother had surgery on wednesday,and he didnt call to see how things went.i say screw him.my mother has breast cancer and thats all i need to focus on right now.i really dont ahve time for this drama.ive already wasted three years on his sorry azzzzz!


5/20/2006 5:30 pm

I would love to meet you im from thibodaux

woosgirl 46F
4 posts
5/27/2006 11:21 am

youre from thib...hmmm?tell me about yourself

rm_gitN2U2 43M
7 posts
12/4/2006 2:10 pm

woosgirl, HAS ANYTHING CHGD FOR U YET!!!!! I REMEMBER READING A WHILE BACK>>>>it sounds like u are in a very difficult spot.??
I live in the br area so I know it is a mess being in thib. so small and all.

You mention a little girl, is that his child?? Y would they couple be babysitting the child?? that throws me?? You need to be careful and go have some FUN!! send me a line...i'll have some fun w/ you..its the holidays!! take care!

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