The single male........................ Why the problem?  

wookielover 38
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10/10/2005 4:33 pm

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The single male........................ Why the problem?

For the world of men, there are lots of stereotypes that they have to deal with on a daily basis. The way you dress, look, talk and even walk can give people a biased perception about you, that can put you in a negative spotlight before people even know you. Some of these perceptions stem from their own experiences and negative connotations applied therein.

In the adult swinger / sexual community, there is one particular stigma that strikes me as odd. That is the single male.

Single males are often looked at as being rude, selfish, conceited or many other things that I will not mention here at this time. In profiles you will often see something to the extent of "NO SINGLE MALES" in big bold type across the top. Rarely do you see "NO SINGLE FEMALES" or something of that nature. Why is that so? Why are the single males segregated out by the community with such force?

As a single male, it makes me rather annoyed that right from the get go I have an uphill battle and have to prove myself before being accepted into a group or circle of friends. Maybe I am mistaken, but I don't think that single women have to go through the same thing? Am I wrong?

from what I have seen is that there is a prejudice towards the single male in this community that obviously stems from some other types of incidents. What are your experiences with single men and why do you feel the way you do? I want to get to the bottom of this so speak your mind!


lifeisablast333 53M

10/10/2005 8:23 pm

I agree as a single male, you guys get a bum . but you seem to have the smarts to standout in the crowd. Happy hunting and good luck. The redneck


bendmeover83607 50M/49F
1 post
3/15/2009 10:18 am

Hey Ryan, well for us we kinda like the "No Single Males" profiles. Leaves more for us! On the other hand we get a little tired of the Single Males who instant message us late at night wanting to come over right now and "_uck". This goes to your "rude, selfish, conceited" comment. As my wife has said every time this has happened, she isn't a whore and this is what they are looking for so go and find one! Single Males tend to be flakes too, Single Males tend to NOT show for "meets", if they take the time to build a STR they are usually a "one shot wonder" where as a couple we are looking for a multi-encounter or even a LTR.

Hope this helped you get to the bottom of it.

J & S


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