why a married man would look around  

wobejaz 53M
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6/21/2006 4:28 pm

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6/22/2006 2:18 pm

why a married man would look around


One reason I started this blog was to explain why a married man would look around. Everyone thinks that's obvious, right?

A woman winked at me and I responded with an email, including profile and photos, and she came back with go fuck your wife or get a divorce and definitely leave me alone. Why did she wink at me if my wife was a problem for her? She was probably excited at the time and didn't read my profile before. Sounds goofy to me.

I always read someone's profile several times before actually contacting. It's laughable but I guess there are lots of men on AdultFriendFinder that wink and then send out the same message to lots of women. I'm calling that trolling, now. Maybe it works, for some.

Why did that strange woman moralize at anyone on a sex-oriented messaging site? That's the real question. Does she get on the case of other people she finds strange? I'm not interested in the stuff she's into and didn't give her any grief.

I've read through the lines a couple of times and married men are clearly evil. It must be that we're brutes leaving our wives and hordes of kids back at the cave, while we look for fine volupta-muffins to love and leave.

The story is always more complicated than that on both sides. And there is often a reason besides cowardice, that men choose to look elsewhere. I continue to develop my marital relationship and am working on resolving the issues within. In the end, I hope to be using this site as part of my marriage rather than as a secret parallel world.

In some groups, "it's complicated," is a checkbox next to married. It's complicated applies to pretty much everyone on the AdultFriendFinder site. Why else, would they all be here? If it was easy, no one would bother to create a profile, do searches, browse or any of that crap.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
6/21/2006 6:48 pm

Don't sweat those who give you grief. I don't know why she winked then stomped on you but some are strange that way. I have a group for you if you want to join. hit me an email and I will give you the link if you are interested in joining us married folks.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


wobejaz replies on 6/22/2006 2:19 pm:
Sure, I'd love to know of more, like-minded people, the non-judgemental types. What is th name, link, or whatever it takes to get there?

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/21/2006 7:47 pm

Screw those narrow minded people. Come on over to our blog site if you are looking for non-judgmental people - you might enjoy some of the blogs too! Be sure to leave a comment so we know you were there.

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