Why be a gold member.....  

witty1960 56F
373 posts
8/9/2006 1:09 pm

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8/13/2006 8:09 pm

Why be a gold member.....

if you're not going to use the service??? All the men here that are gold or silver members and wink and put you on their hotlists, view your profile more than once, what keeps them from emailing??? Especially if the person they're winking at is a standard member.

I don't have any trouble emailing or viewing as a standard member, unless I'm too active on one day. I guess we women need some advantages here especially if the percentage of women is so low compared to men. So why don't you use the service you're paying for??? For the same reason you don't ask women to dance, or out on dates? Fear of rejection? But at least it doesn't cost you anything but wounded pride at a turn down. Here you're shelling out bucks, but too cheap to buy a woman a drink or dinner. I just will never understand what makes people tick. I guess that's part of the fun of it all lol.

You can sure tell I'm not working or not getting laid, I have way toooo much time to spending posting stupid thoughts lol.

rm_fender831 61M
10 posts
8/9/2006 1:38 pm

Perhaps it is because many of the emails we send are ignored or blocked or otherwise rejected because we are not witty enough, good looking enough, young enough, thin enough, well-endowed enough etc.

Just speculating. I've only joined yesterday, but I've noticed a number of profiles stating that you emails will get no response if you don't meet their criteria. I guess it must be nice to be so selective.

I could be wrong of course.

Harpocrates7 42M

8/9/2006 2:12 pm

It's all in the approach, Fender. Send an e-mail with a sharp intro. Something to dazzle the ladies. If I were a paying member, I would wear the keys off my keyboard e-mailing women.

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