The odds of sexual success on aff.  

witty1960 56F
373 posts
6/27/2006 3:48 pm

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7/11/2006 5:58 am

The odds of sexual success on aff.


Just surfing the site today, bored out of my mind (I'm suprised I have one left at this point), when I came upon some numbers.

In Northern Idaho there are 6,183 male members looking for women and only 589 women looking for men.

In Spokane/Eastern WA there are 13,299 men looking for women and only 1,229 women looking for men.

In Pullman/SE WA there are 3,067 men looking for women and only 253 women looking for men.

So why is it that with so many people looking for something there is so little action here? Why, if there are over 20,000 men within a 100 mile radius of me who are looking for a woman to spend time with, and that's an average of 10 men to every one woman, can I not find a regular piece of ass??? Not a boyfriend or husband, but just some lovers to keep me busy, to keep me occupied??? Surely in that group there must be 3 or 4 men to fit my requirements.

Is it as hard for everyone else here? There always seems to be some drawback to meeting someone, or if you do meet someone you like, they either don't live near enough or are looking for more or less than you are. Maybe AdultFriendFinder needs some different categories than just gender specifications. With the odds at 10 to one, I should be getting it more often than I am lol.

Slowred 57M

6/27/2006 5:12 pm

I don't see why you are having trouble. If only I lived closer, you would always have someone to keep you busy.
Think of how it is from the man's point of view. there is a lot of competition out there for the few females available.


witty1960 56F

6/27/2006 5:24 pm

Well I guess I should thank you for the compliment. I don't know if you're trying to make me feel better, but at least you guys have the comfort of knowing there's so much competition out there, apparently there's none on my end lol.


SidSpanky 47M

6/27/2006 5:48 pm

I would also add to this that a lot of the guys on here are on here just for kicks and really have no intention of actually meeting. And with that in mind, when many of them aren't just perving and looking at the little pictures they feel the overwhelming need to be royal ass clowns to the few women that would have been interested in meeting someone. I believe this probably turns a lot of women off to the whole online thing. I know, as a sincere person who doesn't stand people up or advertise more than I am, women look at my profile and think "yeah! just an other pushy ass bag who'll probably send me lewd, unwanted crap!" I think that if AdultFriendFinder monitored usage a little more and weeded out the butt monkeys ( sorry just seem to be on this ass kick lately)they would see a lot more people paying for a membership, as it stands now I think why pay for a gold membership when I can be ignored just as much for free! lol I dunno, just my thoughts.


sagle838 55M  
2 posts
7/9/2006 11:08 am

Hi I'm a 44yr old married man looking for no strings sex I have met with one women for mutual masterbation. I enjoyed this but would love to find a women who loves sex and could meet weekdays for no strings sex. I love to give oral. Bi the way I know 2 other men who would like to do a group thing. Hope we can get this going. Sagle838


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