My anal difficulties...  

witty1960 56F
373 posts
4/4/2006 11:15 pm

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5/27/2006 11:24 am

My anal difficulties...

Well once again tonight I couldn't succesfully accomplish anal sex. As much as I want to, and as easily as other women seem to participate, it just fucking hurts like hell.

I love fingers in my ass and have never had a problem with vibrators, so I can't figure out why a cock hurts so much. Of course i have a few theories but could use some advice.

One, for the size a vibrator is harder than a cock. Just like trying to cram a half hard cock in your pussy, as tight as your, or my ass is, a cock just isn't hard enough.

Two, because its not as hard a cock pulls on the skin around your ass and is yanking it inwards, like a ass lift from the outside in lol.

Three, I'm just being a pussy and need to just let a guy, as much as i hate the expression, break my ass in.

I'm going to keep trying, I'm a very persistent individual. Just a baby when it comes to anal sex lol.

rm_sdan652 32M

4/5/2006 12:29 am

hi, if you bare with it then it will get ALOT BETTER, Let him cumm up your ass, the cumm will stop it hurting so much. do it once or twice and you wont be leting him go to sleep. the best way is just use a lube then grab the pillow and just let him ram it up as once its up there you cant feel it so much. good luck and happy ass fucking!!!

spacecadet561 59M

4/5/2006 1:18 am

Are you and your partner(s) doing everything else right? Do you have enough of the right lubrication? Are you relaxing your ass enough? Is it someone you trust to not hurt you? Does your subconscious mind just think it's "too dirty" to do at all? Have you tried rubber butt plugs or dildoes for practice? Another blogger (I don't recall who) recently said it was a lot easier for her to take anal after some advice from a gay male friend (although the advice wasn't included). You should get lots of comments on this one.


suddenlynaked 60M

5/17/2006 1:29 am

an anus. This is a true story, Written by, Another anus.
The Anus's job is hold stuff in while keeping other stuff out,,,,that is all it knows, and all it will ever do.
This anus has never made friends, with anyone, tragic but true. Oh occasionally your vibrator visits, but little miss anus does not really like her much, always trying to expel the intruder, tisk.
Now the way I go about it is I get her a little tipsy, yep she loosens up with a libation of wine, first give a couple 2 or 3 ounce shots of water, yes twice, this will clear her palate,,,,,,don't let her swallow, have spit it out,,,Now the wine not alot just about 2 ounces,maybe three. Unfortunately she gives it back to you and then some,, hey, hey, that's okay just have her in the right place! And don't take it offensively... sometime a water chaser helps. Now give her another let her swallow that on, and soon she'll relax a bit. She can't hold he liquor so be ready a gain..,,, Last a quick shot of water, 6 or 8 ounces,,oh hell give her two of them,,,let he spit them out,,,Now with a syringe,no needle give he an half ounce of ky gel... She'll be pucked up a little,, cause all this stuff is like lemon juice to her. With more ky gel rub to outer part of the anus ,, slipping your finger in and out then rub it on the outside,, you may have to do every thing up to this and including this over the toilet. Remember insert slowly at first ,, rub at variable speeds,, but the slower rubbing will eventually fool her into thing she is doing her job,,, the urge to push is normal and you should do it as often as you like. The urge, to push and actually push will eventually loosen her up like a sloppy drunk... just remember to do it all slowly and gradually increase the size of the invader. there will be a little pain but at a like able level.

You should noe be ready for some cock,,Enjoy

SidSpanky 47M

5/18/2006 8:24 pm


Not to tell you what you need, but, you just need someone who is willing to take the time and go at your pace. Someone who will take the time to totaly relax you and maybe start with a vibrator and be creative with it, then when you are fully relaxed, slowly begin incerting his cock with plenty of lube and thrust very slow for a little bit while pleasuring you in other areas with his hands. I think that is the ticket. But again, just my thoughts.

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