Too Much Seriousness In Groups!  

wistfuljester 64M
1259 posts
1/28/2006 1:27 am

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3/23/2006 11:28 pm

Too Much Seriousness In Groups!

Listen; I have a couple of groups of my own, and all I care about is people having fun conversations while respecting each other.

What is up with all this "you can't post personal ads", "you can't show a sex act with your profile picture"; "don't even dare try to 'hook up' with other members"...etc.?

AM I DENSE? I thought everybody on A F F was here to "hook up"; Did I miss an orientation class somewhere...?

NOW: I'll admit that I have rules for my groups, but they are ONLY designed to make sure ALL members talk to each other--in other words, if you join but never say anything, you'll soon be gone!

Other than that, I don't have an ego to stroke, and I damn sure don't get emotionally upset if someone violates the rules of my groups. I couldn't care less if you advertise your group in mine, for example--in a week's time, if that's all you ever said in my group, I'd simply delete you and your post without comment.

Some people thrive on "drama and trauma"--and yet they claim to not want it. They are liars, who can't wait for someone to abuse and humiliate. I've been in some of those groups, and I want you to know that MY groups are not like that.

No one will ever assault you for having an opinion!

MarinadelMar 59F

1/28/2006 5:59 am

Well said, Jester!

Maybe it's a control thing for some group owners?

{blog MarinadelMar]

Shelly_Marie 44F

1/28/2006 11:20 am

i absolutely agree with you wist. this is a hook up site and i cant understand for the life of me why on earth the mods dont allow personal ads. I sometimes agree with the larger groups or whatever that they could post up a hook up thread and require you to post your ads only to that thread, but most of us here are here to at least try to find someone whether it be for sex only, or fwb, or ltr, or for their trip to bermuda next week, or whatever.

and i really definitely dont understand no dirty photo profile pics either, i mean come on..this is a sex personals site, an adult site. and it is almost like discrimination to me. ex: just because i have an action photo on my profile means that i cant be in a group? I wonder how this person even logs in without being offended...LOL. I have to agree with you on that one, and have wondered myself but didnt say anything about it.

wistfuljester 64M

1/28/2006 4:05 pm

These are also people who claim to be fair and respectful adults one moment, and in the next they are throwing unbelievable temper tantrums.

Another hilarious "rule" is no voting allowed--as if they could prevent it! Naturally, the other children can't wait to piss those children off by voting on the threads so they can witness yet another temper

Shelly_Marie 44F

1/29/2006 10:03 am

yeah, i cant understand that...i mean maybe it just ppl reading it may not be someone who is trying to piss them off...

2 posts
3/12/2006 6:55 pm

Jester, are you talking about the ultimate "Drama Queen" of all time. Since you left YWFOM the group has become just plain boring. How many of those "OMG where's little bo peep, or OMG he's a drama queen, or even OMG boo boo boo do we have to listen too?

Why on earth they allow someone such as this to become moderator I'll never understand. As you know this person accuses everyone she doesn't like of having phony profiles. But why does she flaunt the many profiles she has and gets away with it? She has two that are visible with her picture and name. After doing a handwriting analyses I've discovered three more false profiles that she uses.

The ultimate in drama sympathy came a week ago when she claimed she was going into the hospital for a serious operation. Then the next day she said it was a mistake. It turned out to be a slight pull. Such drama, this woman needs medical help and quick! This woman is constantly looking for sympathy and does not like when anyone earns more notoriety than her!

If you check my profile you will see that I'm a handwriting analyst/forensics specialist. Thank you for your time. I've just located to a new position in Stockton and will certainly join your group if you think I'm worthy.


Shelly_Marie 44F

3/23/2006 5:19 pm

well..If I am not mistaken, some of those moderators will not allow people to post a thread on what they are looking for....BUT its ok for them to post one word on each line just to get themselves to the top of the lists......

I dont know about anyone else...but I would rather read a post on what someone was looking for rather than a thread that is 50 pages long and has 51,234 replies all with one word on each line. lmao.....

wistfuljester 64M

3/23/2006 11:28 pm

I know what you mean, Shelly, but there's no accounting for the little kiddies on this site...hahaha.

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