So...What's Up With That "Older Men and Younger Women" Group?  

wistfuljester 64M
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7/22/2006 5:51 pm

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7/24/2006 8:49 pm

So...What's Up With That "Older Men and Younger Women" Group?

As some of you know, I moderate the Older And Younger For All group.

I know some people think it's just a bunch of old perverts unrealistically chasing after young girls. In fact, I saw some posts recently where some ignorant people said we are a bunch of "pedophiles"!

Well, first of all, we don't have or allow any discussions about sexual encounters with minors, either real or imagined. Even roleplay between consenting adults is only occasionally a topic in the group.

Secondly, what defines a younger/old relationship varies greatly among the group members. For example: we have a few young women in the group who are 18- to 25-years-old, and for most of them their ideal older man is anywhere from 5 to 15 years older. Some of the women who are a bit older than that might think more in terms of 10, 20 or even 30 years. There are exceptions, of course.

Similarly, most of the men have differing ideas. A lot of them will say that the younger woman needs to have a certain level of maturity, and that for the most part the very young ones just aren't there yet. Besides which, they recognize that there can be significant differences in cultural interests and activity levels. Again, exceptions do exist.

What this means on a practical level is that all of the members have differing ideas about the age range they're interested in, and their choices are completely respected. That's why the group has no age requirements for either men or women.

Of course, no group is perfect, and we do have our share of the "phucktards" joining. Most of them are rapidly weeded out by yours truly.

Another thing that the group does not allow is any sort of insulting, abusing or harassing of its members. There have only been three or four times that I've been forced to ban members for this, but it does occasionally happen. For the most part, however, the group really IS "...a group of FRIENDS that are INTELLIGENT and RESPECTFUL older men and younger women getting together.

Anyone is welcome to look over the group, and to long as you are willing to honor ALL of the group's rules.

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
7/22/2006 7:15 pm

Your group does not stand for insulting,abusing or harassing of members well good for you.

How come you dont follow these rules then.

wistfuljester replies on 7/22/2006 8:28 pm:
Clearly, you are either listening to false gossip or mis-reading events.

I have often been attacked for my opinions; in some cases, I have flat been lied about. You see, those people feel like they have to justify their dislike of me by making up things that never happened.

And yes, I will respond if someone posts lies about me.

If they want to stick to the truth about why they don't like me, I won't say a word.

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
7/23/2006 5:44 am

I guess i have been listening to gossip Jester.

I have seen you make some lenghty rants on this site and i suppose some folk that respond do have a idea what is the truth.

I read them but dont comment as i dont no whats going on.

wistfuljester replies on 7/23/2006 12:33 pm:
Yes I probably should learn how to make short rants, instead.

Thanks for stopping by.

yogagrrl 48

7/23/2006 7:07 pm

This is not a comment to your blog - I wanted to tell you that I gave you some clarification regarding DNA and polyamory in my blog.

wistfuljester replies on 7/23/2006 10:12 pm:
Yes, I did see that, and I thank you!

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
7/23/2006 7:28 pm

no way jester,i like to read the lenghty rants keep them up.

wistfuljester replies on 7/23/2006 10:12 pm:
Well then, you're probably in luck, seeing as how I don't often seem to be able to keep them short...lmao!

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
7/24/2006 12:25 pm

Bring them on Jester ,i look forward to them.

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