Just Because I'm A Romantic Doesn't Mean I'm Not Sexual!  

wistfuljester 64M
1259 posts
8/30/2006 10:07 pm

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9/3/2006 2:38 am

Just Because I'm A Romantic Doesn't Mean I'm Not Sexual!

So what if I happen to enjoy the "rush" of being a man who adores his partner; who loves to give her little gifts and flowers; who loves to show her how special she is to me!

Building on that adoration, I can become a man of blinding passion, or a tender lover who wants to explore each other all night.

In what way does that disqualify me from being on AdultFriendFinder?

I know that in some ways Romance is a form of idealism, but if I KNOW that, what is the harm?

Besides, that, I'll admit it: I'm the kind of guy who likes to completely immerse himself in his partner--to become her "pussy slave", if you will.

Please don't misunderstand. She can set whatever limits she wants. All I'm saying is that when I'm with her, I want her to feel like the most beautiful and special Goddess on Earth.

And, yes, I do have a strong submissive streak, so I love a lot of kinky things that I won't even try to name here and now.

That doesn't make me a doormat; it makes me a man who adores and worships his woman; a man who needs and wants to make her his Goddess in all ways.

The key, though, is this: SHE sets the limits--ALL OF THEM. That means that SHE decides the shape of our relationship, and as long as it means that when we're together I'm allowed to make her the center of my universe, I am content.

Is that crazy? I hope not, because I need her to allow me to worship her and be her slave. Maybe later, I'll explain more about what I mean...

QueenofBitches69 46F

8/30/2006 10:53 pm

The Key Word here is Passion! I Love the Passion! Thats why I can't ever have just a Fuck Buddy. I love having a Passionate Lover!

wistfuljester replies on 8/31/2006 9:00 pm:
I hear you, Mel! (Gee--it's scary how often we agree...lol!)

SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
8/31/2006 6:07 am

Uhhhhhhh, who's complaining or criticizing you about THAT? If it's a man, he's an ass. If it's a woman, she's nuts. You seem to have an excellent handle on the cause and affect of your feelings, emotions, and sexuality, so like you said, so what?

People have this bent notion that you have to be some sort of certified tramp, rude dude, or otherwise depraved person to be on this website. They think that all interactions consist of "me man, you woman, we fuck now." That simply is not true!

wistfuljester replies on 8/31/2006 9:03 pm:
Oh, every once in a while someone says something to me about it. Supposedly, I have no right to have opinions about things, since I'm on here for the wrong reasons...

"Bent" describes those fragmented personalities the best, SW!

ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
9/2/2006 1:08 pm

Not crazy at all...It sounds wonderful..any woman that does not appreciate that kind of attention ...has something wrong with them.
I think a few men would be wise to take your approach under consideration...if not totally at least in some part

wistfuljester replies on 9/2/2006 2:05 pm:
Thanks, I really appreciate your saying so!

8321 posts
9/3/2006 12:03 am

Will wonders never cease?!?!

I never thought I'd see the day when the evil Jester admits to being a "pussy slave"!

What the fuck happened here?


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

wistfuljester replies on 9/3/2006 2:36 am:
Oh, shush. All the women who know me, know that I am...lol

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
9/3/2006 1:52 am

Your reasons for being on this site are your own. Nobody has the right to decide who is suitable and unsuitable because some people want to do more than just fuck. There is nothing wrong with being a romantic and having feelings for the person you are with. More power to you! Some of these asses can learn a lot from you.


wistfuljester replies on 9/3/2006 2:38 am:
Too bad we're not closer together geographically, Hunny, because I'd love to spend a night with you showing you what I mean in great detail...lol.

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