wistfuljester 64M
1259 posts
5/19/2006 3:32 am

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5/20/2006 12:37 pm


Where do you get the idea that you can REALLY and COMPLETELY divorce your emotions from you sexual urges?

No matter how tightly you close your eyes, no matter how many times you click your heels together three times, IT JUST ISN'T GOING TO HAPPEN.

It may feel like you're succeeding for a little while, but that hollow, empty feeling will grow and grow, and follow you wherever you go...

iluvjbsinaz 55M

5/19/2006 6:23 pm

Hmmm, you really think that's always the case? That all people will react the same and that no one can have a fun sexual experience and completely not develop feelings?

I disagree. I've been there, done that, and never had a "hollow, empty feeling..."

Every encounter is different as is what we want out of it. What may be difficult for you and others has been easy for me.

Maybe I'm just emotionally dead? Or maybe I'm honest with myself about what I want?

wistfuljester replies on 5/20/2006 11:00 am:
Well, I notice your profile says you are OK with being friends with a partner; you also mention that she should have a "passion for life", a passion for more than just "stuff". Consequently, I would have to say that your emotions are not completely divorced from your sexuality. Granted, you are not looking for a long-term committment in the traditional sense.

The hollow empty feeling I was alluding to is not necessarily one that occurs right after sex, because there is an afterglow. Rather, I was talking about late in the night, when there's no one there but yourself...

rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
5/19/2006 11:10 pm

Some people are just destined to disappoint, and all you can do is let them live in their own misconceptions and move on. People like you, Wistful, feed the soul of the Earth. Please never lose your humanity.

wistfuljester replies on 5/20/2006 11:01 am:
Thanks, you're very kind to say so. I don't know if I truly "feed the soul of the Earth", but I do know my own soul need to be fed...

iluvjbsinaz 55M

5/20/2006 11:38 am

Nope, never had the "hollow empty feeling," not even late at night, when no one was there but me. Guess I have a full life. Lucky me.

Never understood the loneliness thing. Never felt it. Again, lucky me!

wistfuljester replies on 5/20/2006 12:38 pm:
Yes, I'd say you are indeed a lucky man.

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