Banned Members of OMAYW  

wistfuljester 64M
1259 posts
7/7/2006 2:25 am

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10/11/2006 2:22 am

Banned Members of OMAYW

If you were banned from Older And Younger For All, and would like to return to the group, please post your request here.

It is helpful if you tell me approximately when you joined the group.

My replies will be posted here, rather than in the form of an email, so please check back to find out my decision.



mrbeaverbanger 52M
8 posts
7/15/2006 6:51 pm

yes i was bannned and to be honest don't know why...i would like to be unbanned and told why? please tyia charlie

wistfuljester replies on 7/15/2006 10:26 pm:
You joined the group on June 4th and made one post at that time. You were banned as per rule 2, which states:

"2. You must BE ACTIVE by making at least 2 posts per month. These can either be replies to the posts of others, or new topics. Those who only say hello will be banned after 30 days; active members who stop posting will be banned after 60 days."

I have unbanned you, but if you do not make at least 2 posts within the next 48 hours, you will be banned permanently. The only way I have of gauging who is active in the group is by whether they post or not.

mrbeaverbanger 52M
8 posts
7/15/2006 6:53 pm

sorry it may have been a month ago again tyia charlie

rm_mudlnthru 62M
8119 posts
7/16/2006 6:33 am

Looks like I've been banned. Probably for lack of a better post, which I didn't realize. Ah, too slow. Can I get back in? It's such a pleasure to have a chance to chat a little and the other folks in the group are very pleasant.


wistfuljester replies on 7/16/2006 1:46 pm:
Michael, you are NOT banned, and there's nothing wrong with anything you've posted so far, either. Welcome to the group!

Why did you think you were banned? Please let me know if you are experiencing any problems.



rm_Bart2nGA 68M

8/7/2006 10:44 am

Hi....banned because i didn't read as close as i should and was away on business. Would appreciate another chance.

wistfuljester replies on 8/15/2006 8:58 pm:
Bart, as you know, you were unbanned from the group. Thanks.

rm_Savannah577 46F
4 posts
8/15/2006 1:30 pm

Hi! Not sure if I was banned, don't see my name anywhere.... Goodness, I feel like I'm being punished, like I've done something wrong. What does one have to do to participate in a simple conversation? Like some others here, we've been on holiday or attending other responsibilities and haven't been able to "check in" with this room within the required amount of time. That doesn't mean that we're not sincere and interested.

Am I still banned?!? : )

wistfuljester replies on 8/15/2006 9:18 pm:
Savannah, you have just joined this group today (August 15th). So far, two of your posts are showing up on the board.

Please understand that AdultFriendFinder can take anywhere from a few minutes to several hours to review group posts and to allow them to finally show up on the discussion board. I don't have any control over that.

Welcome to the group!


HugeBruce 40M
1 post
8/15/2006 7:28 pm

I have the same situation. I was a member and was banned shortly after that...I contacted you in the past about this as well as AdultFriendFinder and it has not be resolved as of yet.

Please advise. Thank you.


wistfuljester replies on 8/15/2006 9:20 pm:
Bruce, the last few times you asked about this, I went through the banned members list and you were not there. Tonight you were, so I have unbanned you.

It says you joined on June 5th; around that time, A F F was making lots of changes to the groups and screwing most of those changes up.

Welcome to the group.

wistfuljester replies on 8/25/2006 1:09 pm:
Well, 10 days after being unbanned, you have not posted a single thing to the group.

So, you've been banned again--PERMANENTLY this time. I really don't appreciate having my time wasted in this fashion!

nice_penetration 52M
1 post
9/1/2006 6:48 am

I dont know why I was banned from the group but would like to be allowed back in. I cant remember when it happened either.


wistfuljester replies on 9/1/2006 6:58 am:
If it happened, it happened because you didn't follow the very liberal postig rules.

New members are required to post hello to the group within 7 days of joining; after that they are expected to make at least 2 posts per month to be considered active.

Clearly, you did neither, or you wouldn't have been banned. The group is NOT a place to just park your profile.

I see not reason to allow you back in the group, inasmuch as you contributed NOTHING to it.

rm_BWfire 58M
7 posts
9/4/2006 9:04 am


You have untill the end of September to remove your insult from my computer, if you do not further action will be taken against you and AdultFriendFinder.

I will not accept AdultFriendFinder taking my money to subsidize your type of tyrany. I'm not asking, I'm telling you, get your garbage banishment off my screen.

wistfuljester replies on 9/4/2006 9:56 am:
HAHAHAHAHA!! Man, thanks for the laugh--I really needed it today!

You joined the group on June 1st, and never posted anything, so I banned you as per the group rules. [IT TOOK YOU 3 WHOLE MONTHS TO NOTICE?

"Insult from your computer"? "Off your screen?" What, you gonna sue me for libeling you on your own computer?

Listen, Bud, let me explain something to you: I am not an employee of AdultFriendFinder. I am a member just like you. I started that group long before you ever came along, and AdultFriendFinder allows group moderators to set the rules for their own groups.

Ya know, if you'd posted here that you had been banned for not posting and wanted back in the group, I'd have been happy to oblige you.

Thanks to your posting this nonsense, however, you will NEVER be allowed back in the group. That being the case, why wait til the end of September?

Shelly_Marie 43F

9/4/2006 8:23 pm

    Quoting rm_BWfire:

    You have untill the end of September to remove your insult from my computer, if you do not further action will be taken against you and AdultFriendFinder.

    I will not accept AdultFriendFinder taking my money to subsidize your type of tyrany. I'm not asking, I'm telling you, get your garbage banishment off my screen.
BW...he is right, you cant you anything about it, he has every right. No moderator of any group works for AdultFriendFinder. Who in the hell do you think you are anyway??

sorry, jim...I just had to say

Shelly_Marie 43F

9/4/2006 8:27 pm

BW, you can't do anything about it, there is nothing in the terms of use that say he can't and he does NOT work for AdultFriendFinder, either. Group mods have every right, whether you pay or not. Who do you think you are anyway?

sorry, jim...I just had to say that...

wistfuljester replies on 9/4/2006 9:03 pm:
That's all right, darlin', but I think he's already realized he made a major boo-boo.

rm_Life2Short12 54M

9/7/2006 7:41 pm

Hi, I'm not sure why I was banned> If you could inform me, I'd appreciate it. If I did something wrong, I'm sorry, but would just like to know why/what??? Pleae advise...thanx!


wistfuljester replies on 9/7/2006 9:26 pm:
Three questions: (1) When did you join the group? (2) Did you post anything in the group? (3) Did you read the rules?

I don't remember you, so either you didn't post at all, or not enough to satisfy the group posting requirements. If you want me to unban you, I need to know approximately when you joined the group.

wistfuljester replies on 9/9/2006 2:35 pm:
I found you. You joined the group on August 29th and never posted anything. Do you want back in the group, or not?

rm_Life2Short12 54M

9/9/2006 2:57 pm


Yes I would like to be back in the group and I will start posting items....sorry & thanx!!!


wistfuljester replies on 9/9/2006 3:28 pm:
Ok, taking care of it.

TiffanyBarbie 28F

9/17/2006 1:06 pm

I have really and truly enjoyed my time at this group and wish you well!! Thanks again! Kisses!

wistfuljester replies on 9/18/2006 9:06 pm:
To my knowledge, you never WERE in the group. If you were, you sure never posted anything.

In any event, I don't recognize you at all.

rm_peter2 74M
167 posts
9/29/2006 6:05 am

tif joind and made 2 posts i think. i followed her to another group where she is now a mod. i miss her. and she was a member.

wistfuljester replies on 9/29/2006 9:33 am:
No, I click on her groups post count and checked; although she did post in the Men over 50 group, she NEVER posted in ours.

rm_peter2 74M
167 posts
9/29/2006 11:24 am

oops. lol.

wistfuljester replies on 9/30/2006 10:17 am:
Geez, I didn't mean to underline all

sailin2006 46M

10/8/2006 11:34 am

I've been banned and not sure why? I have made several posts in the last couple weeks. Can I get back in? I'm travelling fo rhe next couple weeks and hope when I return I can get back in this great group.


wistfuljester replies on 10/8/2006 12:09 pm:
Sorry, Mike, but you joined Older And Younger For All on September 12th, AND NEVER MADE A SINGLE POST. If you've seen the group rules, you are required to post a hello within 7 days of joining, then a minimum of two posts per month after that.

You were banned on September 19th for not posting your hello.

If you made "several posts", it wasn't this group.

sailin2006 46M

10/9/2006 5:59 am

I suppose that could be, since I am a memebr of a couple similar groups. How's about another chance?

wistfuljester replies on 10/10/2006 12:35 am:
OK, I have unbanned you. Please post your hello to the group within 48 hours.

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