How Women affect me  

winnipegstudly 51M
51 posts
4/2/2005 8:07 pm

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How Women affect me

A lot of the blog content here at AdultFriendFinder seems dedicated to sexual experience and thinking. I though I would add my own thought process to the mix.

Sex is part of our lifes and believe it or not, is interconnected to everything we do. Take for instance myself in the last couple of days. I have been on holiday and have taken the kids out to my mom and dads farm (still there actually) and between the kids fighting and the busy time I had helping Dad today and the time we spent at the Brandon Winter fair, all I can think about is how and when am I going to have sex again...omg...

I usually am so busy with work schedule and family life, even around home, sex is not at the forefront of my mind. It seems only when I have slowed down, get some quiet time alone, do my thoughts wander. Usually, during the week,this is after everyone has gone to bed, around 9:00 pm or so. (Yes, I mean everyone including the woman I am married to) my thoughts start wandering. Not to my hobby, of which remenants of projects are scattered over my workbench, of which I should go and work on, to keep these erotic thoughts at bay.....

This it seems is the problem, the quiet times, my mind lusts after sex, and sexual experience and experimentation. No, no desire for s&m or bdsm or watersports or all the other alterantive styles of activity, but just desire to experience people and situations....I dunno why the desire and lust for other people, I am really not unhappy with my life, my wife or my relationship. In fact, its a good one...but why would I want to experience more. Its all I think about.

Thats what happened the last couple of days out on the farm, just me and the kids. Grandparents have taken the parental duty from me temporarily in the mornings, so i can relax and sleep, but omg...the dreams and the thoughts. What wrong with me!!

Honestly I dream and think about how I am going to pleasure my partner(s) not really what they are doing to me. Of course, I do want some things, but I dream of the soft skin, the soft breasts, the moist and wet warmeth of their most private parts, the wonder smell of perfume they wear, the soft sexy clothes I imagine. I actually appreciate a womans femininity. Truly today, I do not feel women accept and know how to display that femininity. Too many in my mind don't care for themselves. No, I don't mean makeup and short skirts, I mean confidence, cleanliness, true caring for their physical body, not just the clothes their in.

This is what I dream of, the waft of a pefume in the hallway at work, the smile and thank you of a woman who you have just held the door for, not because your a chauvenist, but because you are just helping her out (I hold doors for guys too, and I appreciate the helping hand when given) Ladies, it is not a sign of weakness to accept help, you just hurt those who truly do just that.

I dream of a woman who wears a classic cut skirt and a nice fitting blouse with just the right level of accessory, the hair that is in place. The straight stance, and the twinkle in her eye. She knows shes sexy, and is confident to let it show through. This does NOT need skirts that peek panties (or lack thereof) or see through to me. This woman is intelligent, thoughtful, strong and sexy. She is, once out of public view, knows how to have and give pleasure. She is not afraid to put on the stockings (with that oohh so sexy black line up the back) with heels, and push up bra..and let you look at her while she seduces you. I cannot and will not resist any woman who is a whole person. Erotic and sensual, sex with her is heavanly...all you can smell is femninine, all you can feel is soft and wet, all you get is whispers of lust in your ear...

Well, there I thoughts and they have been rampant. I know this woman is maybe just a fantasy, but it clouds my mind. I personally would fall short of her expectations. Now, my other problem, is that I see two of these ladies with my in my bed....oh to dream...

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
4/3/2005 10:45 am

bello...this is not a fantasy...this could be real. I think maybe you are in search of what you are not familiar with or maybe haven't experienced in a while. We all dream of things different, partners different and experiences different. Remember it doesn't have to be a dream. If you are open to experience it will fall in your lap....literally

sexgoddess2462 46F  
42 posts
4/8/2005 5:50 pm

There is a major difference between being classy and being slutty, being real and saying only what you think appeals, women you can touch and those who are nothing more then an illusion . It's very nice to know that some men can appreciate the difference and value women for who they truly are. There is nothing wrong with fantasies as long as they are some what based on an attainable reality.

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