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Jun 8, 2010 7:58 pm
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WOW! you guys get double blogs today....lol
As the saying goes, "Easy come, easy go." That saying has never hit home as close as now. But, one thing is for sure, if the other person isnt hearing you then its best to cut and run.
Maybe I've been going at this the wrong way. Looking at the benefits of finding a young dude and just doing the fuck buddy thing. From what I hear, we get together for a fuck and not having ANY emotional attachment nor even bother with words. Just a good old fuck session of raw animal lust. At least then I know whats to be expected. The added benefit from this,I think, is the low expectations in not having to put in any work what so ever. Because, after all, we all now how to have sex, even if the other doesnt get theirs at least we can get ours. Having my cake and eating it too!! Works for me!!
Now, how does one go looking for something of that sort. I mean, we all have needs to be fulfilled right? So, why cant I have mine fulfilled by some young guy too stupid to realize just how good it can be if it went further then the fuck of the night? Not just any young stud will do mind you. Need one that can keep up and follow through on the extremely sexual part of being young, dumb and full of cum. Maybe throw some type of dominance in there as well!
Let me get my booth set up and start interviewing for my fuck of the nite like most on here are doing. WoooHoooo! (too fucking funny!!!!!!)
Anything sounds better, then waiting on the "One". Sick of hanging on!
SHOPPERGIRL out....
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Badboy Desires
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Jun 8, 2010 1:53 pm
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Welcome back my loyal readers! Been awahile since I've given you a reason to turn the AC up, well its been since Bacardi Girl I, II, and III.
There are some of you that have read all my blog posts, so you have an understanding of the relationship of RENO7877 and myself. Like most relationships, the story has a beginning and an ending, yet it may not have the happy ending, it is however an ending.
When you least expect it someone will come into your life and sweep you off your feet like no one else has ever had. He came out of nowhere, but packs a BIG bang. Our first chat was short, yet interesting in the fact that we seeked each other out. He caught my attention because of his quick wit! But most of all his determination.
I remember our first meeting at his place just as if it were yesterday. It crosses my mind everyday, so many times a day. Never before have I felt such passion from a guy who is such a BadBoy, yet when he touches me he becomes an adoring sensuous lover.
His whispers, as i feel his hot breath, only makes me lust for him more and more. And when he clutches my hands in his it takes all I have to not just take him hard.When he kisses me I melt in his arms from the passion and excitement he projects in his intent to make me feel like his only one. We make our way to his bed, his hands taking mine along with my breath. Looking into his striking green eyes, with a smile to die for as well, only makes me want to be his desire more. Although, when we're rolling around in bed my entire self being is his, yet he always makes me feel beautiful when giving into him. My body, my soul, my lustful being wants him to ravage me over and over again. Even with my eyes closed,his hands on me, my body yearns for him to take me, to touch me all over, to make me come alive, to hold me like he means it, to be his. As he kisses his way down my body, still holding my hands above my head, sends shivers of excitement throughout my body, making me moan for him. Feeling his soft lips as he nears my moist hard clit. His hands now wrapped around my thighs as he spreads them wider to have a taste of me. Feeling his hot breath hardens my nipples and makes my back arch as I yearn for his tongue. And in an instant the warmth of his tongue flicks my clit before he binds it with his soft wet lips. For at that moment, my whole body shudders for him, all my body needs is him buried deep in me while looking into his stunning eyes. His whispers bring more stimulation, as he tells me how good it feels to have our bodies touch, in between tonguing me. As my pleasure builds, I can feel my orgasm rage through my body, exploding my mind as well. Taking a deep breath as he takes my legs and kisses them up and down. I lay there enjoying the orgasm as well as he kiss up and down my legs,and then slowly sucking on my toes. His tongue playing with me as I try to catch up on the seduction he is giving me. Watching him take pleasure in licking and kissing my legs, almost bringing me to the point of cumming for him again. My breathing deepens from just watching him take every part of me for enjoyment.
He has yet to worry about his needs, his satisfaction. That alone makes him the best lover I've ever had, but everything else he does makes him a fantastic lover and friend. Making his way back up to me for a long fanatical kiss, sucking my bottom lip. His hands holding mine above my head as his thick hard cock slides back and forth against my swollen clit. And just when I least expect it, he slids in me every inch of his throbbing cock. Gasping as I feel him fill me! As we enjoy each other's bodies again, I can feel my soul burning for him all the while his hands exploring me. Looking into each other's eyes, his thrusting growing faster and deeper in me. Feeling myself give into all my desires with him, and only him. He takes more control of me as his oragsm builds up, pinning me down and made his. The pleasures from him hitting my Gspot each time he pushes deeper in me all the while being dominate with me. He takes me by the hand and does psotions with me I have never done before, but its him being inside me that makes me cum, each time more then the last. Each time we try something new his cock makes me hornier and just want to stay in bed all day doing him. Hearing his moans grow makes me get wetter, feeling his cock grow inside me, he ponds harder then the feel of a hot stream of cum shoots in me. We both orgasm, our cum dripping out of me from the incredible build up of his. He collapses on top of me, still inside me and still throbbing. All that comes to mind is wanting more of him. I cant get enough of him, its like he's my favorite drug.
He may be a BadBoy, but for me everytime I look at him I see something in him that takes me higher and makes me want him more each time. I've never met anyone like him, where he is everything a best friend is but with the added bonus of a fantastic lover. I figured out that being a friend to him first is what brought us closer, almost making us come alive!
Here's hoping you get lucky enough to have a BadBoy like mine, because this one is taken and I intend to keep him for as long as possible. He makes me feel gorgeous regardless of the situation and he proves it to me everytime. Thats an amazing feeling to give to someone without asking for anything in return. Its like that song by Clapton, "Wonderful Tonight." I dont think he realizes just how much of a good man he really is, but I will try my hardest to show him just how Wonderful he is. ..."My darling, you are Wonderful Tonight."
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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I've Loved like I should, but lived like I shouldnt...
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May 15, 2010 8:06 pm
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Hello my loyal followers!
Sitting here sipping some drinks thinking....
Wondering what you'll take from me tonight. impossible for me to tell since you change who you will be from day to day. I wish we could back to what we were before, but our time has since passed. Seems the smile you once had just at the thought of me has since changed to another's. I know we'll never get back to what we once had before. I'm sorry, I never thought it would come to this. Its to hard to keep pretending because I think I dont love you anymore.
So many times I wake up all alone that I'm losing count but when I would think of you it didnt seem so lonely. At one point we shared secrets with each other and no matter how bad they were it only brought us together more. We were so close, yet so far from each other. Its tearing me apart that what we once had was nothing more than wishful thinking. Although the miles kept us apart somehow we always made it work. Its too late to try to work it out. There's no way to turn this thing around, maybe you wanted me find out. As hurtful as it was it just signified the end of a chapter in our lives.And now that the book has been written, the book has an ending. It may not be the ending we wanted, but none the less our book has an ending. Over time we will read over those chapters again and wonder what went wrong, yet everything happens for a reason.
Throughout history "LOVE" has been the most intimate relationship a man and woman could share. Their souls joined by an emotion that draws them to each other. Tragedy is that sometimes LOVE isnt enough and what you once thought was an endless joy, seizes at the drop of a hat. We are only fools to believe that the more we give the more LOVE will grow. What we fail to realize is that we are only human, this so called LOVE can go just as quick as it evolved. Richard Bach said it best, "If you love someone set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they dont they never were." Those words best describe how I feel at this moment, for nothing is greater than to have that love returned genuinely.
I cant stand the person I see in the mirror now, because no one wants to say enough is enough. I'm not afraid to cry once in awhile but thats not what gets me. What hurts the most was being so close and having so much to say, yet watching you walk away. I dont know why I'm not falling apart and the thought of losing you isnt killing me. I can let myself be angry for all the things I didnt say. Maybe it makes me look bad that I'm just tired of waiting and finally just gave up.
Now that I've said my peace I can move on. After all, the best way to an ending like this is to pick up the pieces and move on. Just another demon I have faced. I've found you find strength in your moments of weakness,for once I'm at peace with myself. Not going to be trapped in the past, I'm moving on.
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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A Craving for him...
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Mar 7, 2010 5:11 pm
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Good rainy Texas day to my loyal followers. 
What can I say about him? WOW! is the only thing that came to mind as I lay there in bed next to him after our first sexual experience with each other. Just hearing him talk made me want him more. He is one of few men that I have met that can make me hate and want him at the same time. His beautiful eyes looking into mine as his hands touched my body making me crave him more.
From the moment I walked into his apartment his hands touched me and all I wanted was to be his. As he pushed me against the wall holding my hands over my head, kissing me with his soft lips the only thing I wanted was him. Feeling him push against me as we kissed,all the while my hands pinned againt the wall above my head, feeling his heart beat against mine, kissing me harder.
Then as he took my hand guiding me to the bed feeling the excitement of finally being with him after all these weeks. The sound of his voice sending shivers of anticipation down my spin while his hands held me close to him. My breathing deepening as he kissed me softly as if to savor the moment, but getting harder as he felt me yearning to be his. The first taste of him was one that I had thought about so many times, yet when I finally tasted him I felt the thrill of being with him. His cock sliding across my lips into my mouth, tasting him! Enjoying his moans as I took him deeper in my hot wet mouth. My head being held by my long hair as my mouth became his just as the rest of my body would soon be.
He knew me better than I thought. His dominance made me crave for him more, to be his in any way possible. When he whispered to me it took all I had not to beg for more. Feeling his hands grabbing me hard one moment than the next being so gentle as if to show me that he wanted to take pleasure in me. As he took me I could feel his control over me growing as I completely gave myself to him with every passionate moment he wanted to give me. Making me feel his excitement for us grow as we gave into our desire for each other. For those moments we shared it was like an endless fantasy one expects to never be fulfilled, yet he gave me all the passion I thought was impossible to have.
The most memorable of that nite was having him to myself. Just enjoying anything and everything he was willing to share with me if only for that nite. Realizing that his delight was unselfish, yet still gratifing for both of us in a sense of having someone that was being true at that moment of giving to each other.
So, is it possible to find such passiion? OHHH HELL YEAH! It may take some time but once you find someone that brings your inner self out it turns into a seductive sexual moment that we can only dream of.
Hope you find them as I did once and once was not enough for me.
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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My Wish....
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Feb 10, 2010 8:12 am
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Welcome back my loyal followers!
I've been asked about RENO7877, my bestfriend, my greatest lover, my best/worst critic. My Wish....for him is that he finds his eternal happiness even if its not with me.
If you've read any of my blog posting you've noticed RENO7877 has been mentioned in some. What can I say about him? Only that he is a dying breed of the very few real men left in this world. You are very fortunate when we get to meet a man like this in the sense that he is a good old country boy. His word is his word and it goes with his life. When I think of him the first thing that crosses my mind about him is his voice. He has one of those manly voices that you feel every word that comes from his lips. Its not only stern, but masculine, almost dominate.
He and I have had a long journey from the time we met until I called our friendship off this past December, that most were envious of. It was the hardest thing to tell him I thought the best thing for us was to go our separate ways. You would think that after 3yrs we'd be a bit closer to being in the same state at least. But thats not so, we were drifting apart and barely holding on to the memories we had. Yet, each time we spoke it was like yesterday and the sex was great each time. Each time felt like the first, finding out more things about myself sexually. From the moment we met my world was turned upside down and I didnt want it to end. But my heart had been shattered so many times in the 3yrs we had our so called relationship that the only thing I wanted was to stop the hurt. All the fire we had before was slowly burning out. And the last thing I wanted was to let his fire burn out or to hold him back from finding someone that would make that fire blaze again.
"My wish for you is that this life becomes all that you want it to'
Your dreams stay big your worries stay small.
You never need to carry more then u can hold
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to I hope You know somebody loves you and wants the same things too."
-RASCAL FLATTS "MY WISH"
I loved being around him, but I was better when he was gone. My life has had so many ups and down that he was the only thing that was a steady part. He came into my life at the point of my marriage ending and I wanted to feel like a woman again. The first time he made love to me was the first time I realized what a true orgasm was. My body quivered each time I orgasmed with him. Looking into his eyes and seeing how much he wanted me again. Each time taking me further to see what stimulated me more sexually. His hands covering my body, holding me close as I came on him. Feeling him push deeper in me to hit my spot more so he could watch me orgasm harder each time. At one point he brought me to the brink of cumming for him and then he stopped. Making me beg for him to give me more, but instead he pulls out and lets me taste myself on his hard throbbing cock as I looked up at him. He said it was to get me hotter for more intense orgasm. Needless to say when I did finally cum for him I came so much that he was left soaked. He just smiled at me, letting me know that he had doen what he wanted. He showed me what I had been missing out on. Showed me that my orgasms can be satisfying and for the first time I found out I was multi orgasmic. He also showed me how to swallow a big load, and I must say I love the taste. RENO was my first for many things and I still think he's the best. WOW!! is all I can say!
RENO7877 was and still continues to be my fantasy, my best lover, the only guy that I can get off to when I'm enjoying myself. There have been other partners, but NONE come close to him.
I still care for him deeply and yes I still get off to him. You can count on me getting off to him at least a few times a week. Because without him I would not have known where my G spot is to make myself cum so much and so intense.
So, there you go loyal readers. RENO7877 and I have gone our seperate ways and maybe down the line we may cross paths again, I hope we do! If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you than its meant to be.
Hope you're having better luck than me in finding the "ONE."
To some degree I still regret my memory of keeping him around but I would rather go through life suffering the memories then to have never had him at all.
SHOPPERGIRL out....
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Houston, is the life for me...
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Feb 7, 2010 8:12 pm
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Howdy fellow bloggers!
Taking a break from studying to write something thats been on my mind.
At times I go to the match list that Adult FriendFinder sends me to see who I am compatiable with and I find that 90% of the time I have been matched with someone in Houston. Now dont get me wrong, I have nothing against Houston, but come on!
I think Adult FriendFinder is a freaking curse for me.....lol. I get emails from guys from Houston, Austin, etc. If I wanted to travel to meet people than I wouldnt have given up my last job. Also in with these guys from Houston there will be some around my area, yet most are still over by Plano, Wichita Falls, etc. Again, i dont have anything against you folks, but come on! Why would I want someone or myself to drive 50 or so miles just to meet for a couple hours when there are plenty of guys within 20 miles of me, that I hope are single and not momma's boys.
Let me just state this, if Adult FriendFinder is screwing me (and not a good way...lol) then let it be known that this has been added to my many reasons why I stop paying for this site. If you're gonna fuck with me at least lube me up instead just fucking me right off the bat Adult FriendFinder.
Anyways, just a ramble, since I was matched to a really HOT guy and yes, you guessed it he's in all the way in freaking Houston, just freaking TEASING me ....damn you Adult FriendFinder!!!!
SHOPPERGIRL out....
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Fuckable, yet NOT dateable...
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Jan 6, 2010 7:27 pm
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Happy Hump Day fellow perves!
We have all been that type, good enough to fuck but not good enough to date. Seems that some things never change even in the dating world. Although, I was out of the dating world for 13 yrs once I got back into it not much had changed other than the way you meet. When I stopped to think about it I came to the conclusion that I need to pick up the new version of dating for dummies....lol I've never been one to shy away from anything so I've decided to venture out and see what new lessons the dating world had for me, so I learned my first for the year.
I've had the pleasure of meeting a great new friend a couple of days before the New Year and it seems i'm not the only one learning the trade of dating. It's always great to meet someone with an insightful mind and a wicked sense of humor, because after we all can use a few good friends. We've been exchanging stories of our lives, along with comparing notes on what we need to improve about ourselves so we wont be part of the fuckable, yest not dateable group.
One thing we are both stuck on is how we became part of the fuckable group without anyone sending us the memo...lol Looking at this without knowing what aspects of ourselves made us not dateable seems to be the shocker. How is it decided by the other party that you are fuckable material without it becoming into a dating situation? I mean, look at it from our view point, we set out to a meet someone in hopes that the person will be compatiable enough for further dates. Yet, once the ice is broken and feel that you would like to spend more time with this person only to be given the cold shoulder after the encounter. There isnt much in the ways of dating nowadays, to me its more along the lines of a score card. Maybe it's me, maybe it's that its not considered dating anymore since there are more single people in this world. Or maybe its that most think something better will come along and they dont want to be involved in order to take advantage of every opportunity. As they say, "the grass isnt always greener on the other side", sums up the dating world for me.
My friend dove in head first with a lady he had started chatting with and met only to be stood up on New Year's by her. When he attempted to call her, he recieved the news. She mentioned to him that he was a great guy but she just couldnt see herself dating him, yet she slept with him first time around. Dont get me wrong, i've done that myself but it doesnt bother me because I didnt know about the venue of dating. We both exchanged our stories and figured out some of the fuck but no date thing only to realize that sometimes you can put forth the effort for a anoter date, but in the end it has to be a mutual understanding that there is a pursuit of more.
So, tell me, how does one decide that an individual is fuckable but not dateable? These are some of the ventures I seek to understand in order to pursue a dateable partner. And yes, I know this is a sex site, we can find someone we enjoy out of bed as much as tasting them in bed and exploring each others naughty minds.
Let me have, i'm all ears.
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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Simple Life...
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Jan 3, 2010 7:21 pm
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Good evening all and my blog friends!
Am enjoying a drink to start my week off right and a thought came to mind. My thoughts consists of the normal things, but one thought did make me want to hear from the other side of the coin, so here I am.
My friends are all mostly men, because I really dont get along with women. I'm not the gossip type, nor do I worry about what others think or say about me, I go to the beat of my own drum, but I know when to be part of a team. Most of the women I work with spend their time worried about what the guys at the office think of them and the rest of the time gossiping about everyone else and yet at times about each other. I stay away from that BS since it makes no sense in putting down someone that is different from what society has considered normal. To me what makes someone different is their way of life, the way they carry themselves and treat people around them. Not only is human kindness important in these days, but a simple hello will make someone's day.
I'm a simple person looking for a simple life. My thoughts were to live a country life with a good old country boy. Things got complicated and so now I'm a single mom with a 10 yr who is starting to be a beautiful young lady. And yes, I'm getting my gun permit so I can keep the boys from knocking on my door for her...LOL. When I look back on my life, I believe my greatest accomplishment was making the choice to be a mom. Its the hardest job being a parent but its the most rewarding one. My plans did included having more children, yet now that I'm an old maid I'm happy with the one child I have....simplicity at its best!
Though, it came to mind why I'm so different from most of the women I meet in life, that is because I still believe in a simple life. Materials things are just that, but to feel the love from someone is the most incredible feeling in the world. In my daughter's eyes I hung the moon and the stars for her and I can never do wrong...unconditional love, its as simple as that.
So, is being different so bad or am I the only one that still believes in a simple life? I enjoy being me, not going to change for anyone because this is who I am.
Here's my 2 cents for the bus ride and my thoughts for the evening.
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New Year's resolution....
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Jan 1, 2010 7:02 pm
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Happy New Year my loyal followers!!
Hope everyone had a great start to a new year. We all do this every year, a resolution to improve ourselves or our life. For some of us we end up giving up and try again the next year. I have started my resolution before 2010.
It happened about 4 weeks ago for me, yet it was time to close that chapter of my life. For those of you that follow my blogs know Reno7877, my resolution for 2010. In life we make choices everyday and have to live them, even if they are the wrong ones. Mine is that Reno7877 is no longer part of my life,cut all ties with him and am moving on without him. Life is too short to wait for someone to decide on what they want to do, either its for themselves or with a partner. We all long for it in some point in our life, that one person that puts that spark back into our life. But, is it really someone else's responsibility to give us that spark or is it our own. I came to the decision after my divorce that I was going to live everyday as it was my last. Yet, letting Reno7877 make a decision I should have done long ago for myself, to just walk away. Waiting for someone to decide, if they want a future with you or not is giving that person too much power over you. So, my decision is to take back that power and use it for something more meaningful, to live for me.
I think as we age our lives become more simple and therefore seek life's basic needs. To find someone to grow old with, someone to laugh with, hold hands with, someone to share life and make memories that last a lifetime. I am reminded of a quote,
"In youth we observe, yet in age we learn."
Famous words to live life by because lets not forget that it is our life in our hands, not in someone else's.
Here's hoping your New Year resolution is kept and that life brings more great things this year.
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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Married is better?
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Dec 22, 2009 11:47 pm
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Hello my loyal readers!
Been awhile since I've posted anything on my blog so I figured I better write this down before I forget what I want to say. And yes I've had a few drinks, seems I do my best work when I've had a few drinks....lol (Bacardi Girl)
For as long as I have been chatting on here I have yet to meet a single that was honest. And yes I know its just not the men, but the married men are more honest than the single ones.
We're all adults here, at least I hope we are, so why is it that most of the single guys on here cant be man enough to be honest and upfront? I gave that question a few shots of Bacardi before I sat down to write this. And this maybe the booze talking but I think its a matter of still being boys. Think about it! We're on a sex site so we know sex is what we're all after yet when I ask a guy what he's looking for they brain freeze or they lie. I know its not that hard to answer after all guys think about sex much more than women. So, just say what you're after and dont BS cause you might just get lucky enough that the woman maybe after the same thing.
And do us all a favor, be upfront. That applies to the women as well. How hard is it to have a conversation pertaining to yourself with a woman that might have an interest in you. Or could it be that you enjoy both your hands a lot better then the real thing? I just dont get it!!! Why make yourself seem more than what you really are if by chance this becomes more then you gotta keep up all the lies.
As for you married men, let me just say I dont judge but at least you guys are more upfront about what you're looking for then the so called bachelors on here pretending to be someone else. At this point I would rather give a married guy a chance before I even consider any more of the single guys on here.
So, there you go my 2 cents for the evening along with the last bit of Bacardi I have left in the house.
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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A Good Man is Hard to Find....
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Sep 29, 2009 9:45 am
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Greetings my fellow perves.....
Lets get to the topic at hand, shall we?
Are most men more concerned with the looks of their partner then they are of themselves, maybe to the point of being superficial?
I dont consider myself attractive nor i consider myself unattractive. I would say i'm average looking. Funny how no matter how old we get just a few words about how we look makes us doubt ourselves in every aspect of our life.
Last nite was not a very good nite for me, but I lived through it and am laughing about it now. Seems that no matter how much you try to improve yourself its never enough. That was until i spoke to a friend of mine on the phone last nite.
To give you some insight into why I am better now about those comments of myself, by someone that doesnt really know me yet, you must first know the bond between us. He is a good old country boy type, smart, handsome, sexy, intelligent, artistic, sensual, but most of all he was once my better half, my soul mate. We met here on Adult FriendFinder and after talking with him the first night to what seemed like a couple of hours turned out to be 8 hours later. He swept me off my feet the first time we met and if i ever write a book about the Adult FriendFinder dealings there will be a number of chapters about him. I can be having the most god awful day and just hearing him makes all my sorrows disappear after a few moments of talking to him. We dated for about a year and half and decided that the distance between us was too much for either one of us to take so we stayed friends and to this day he is the one good man that has come into my life. Our friendship has gotten stronger over the years, so when I need a shoulder to cry on he is my bright light in this dark world.
I called him an hour or so after I was told some personal comments by this other guy...(wont deny it, it did hurt). But after talking to my friend a few minutes he helped me see that if its about looks then its not real and true. I've always gone with personality first when deciding if i should date someone, yet in today's world eye candy is what makes you desireable. It's ok, I know we all have our preferences and that we all have standards guess thats what seperates us from rabbits and dogs huh.
I guess since I had been out of the dating scene for over 13yrs and then to be single i'm having to learn how to date again. One of the things my friend mentioned to me last nite was that I have always been honest and been myself so that is the type of guy I should wait for. If he needs to change me into what he wants then he doesnt want me, he wants someone he made up in his fantasy.
So, I hope that you're lucky enough to have a friend like me, that he can bring a smile to your face and warmth to your heart with just a few words of wisdom and a lot of love.
*********And Reno7877 thanks for being my better half and the light that shines to show me the way.***********
Here's a few words to help you....
I've dealt with my ghosts and faced all my demons, finally content with the past I regret.
I've found you find strentgh in your moments of weakness, for once I'm at peace with myself.
I'm moving on....
Its a great song by Rascal Flatts..."I'm movin on" that speaks about no matter how much we want things to go a certain way it never does. Life is too short to worry about what others think or for that matter what they want to change you into.
MOVE on, life is patiently waiting for you....theres comes a time in everyone's life when all you can see are the years passing by...
SHOPPERGIRL out...
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"Banana in the tail pipe"
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Aug 10, 2009 10:33 pm
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Welcome back my fellow perves!!
I've been gone for awhile due to work and school, but I'll try to make more time for my loyal followers that enjoy my blog. As most of you have seen our society has been going through difficult times and I hope that you all make it through...I'll keep you in my prayers!!
Now moving on to the reason why I'm blogging. I've always been one to stand my ground either alone or with my friends so you can imagine what type of person I am. I'm loyal to my friends and I extend my hand to those around me in need, but some of the shit I've seen in the rooms is right down pathetic.
My understanding is that we are here to meet different types of people. And i think thats awesome that we share that, but after being on Adult FriendFinder for more then 5yrs there isnt much I havent seen. Lets face it, there's all walks of life that come here and no matter what its their DAMN right and freedom to speak . And if you dont care to hear what they have to say,use the iggy button! I understand that if the other person isnt interested they will refuse just as I would, yet some make it a point to degrade those individuals as they turn them down. Come on! Get real people, most of the members here are either married, involved, or looking for a piece of ass. After all it is a sex site and yes we've all come across the trolls in the rooms, thats a whole other beast....lol
When I first joined, I was a paying member and didnt really use the system that much so I didnt continue to pay for it. That in turn didnt give me the right to degrade someone just because I was a paying member. We are all human...do we not all bleed red? Do we not all have feelings, desires? Yes, we do! At this time in our society we should be embracing each other, you never know when you may need some assistance from that person. If anything being civil to each other is forth coming.
I've had my days of bitching, I wont deny it, even so I realized that it was wrong. One thing is I will admit when I'm wrong because after all, "a man is not a man if his word is not worth his place in society."
Let me get off my soap box...lol
This came about when I was in a room and a young man asked a female if he could private message her, she replied, "You dont look like someone I would even waste my time on in real life." Seeing that I was about to say something to her remarks when the young man started defending himself. He replied, "Sorry, I just wanted to ask you if you took that picture on your profile in NM." Now, as I watched the conversations she kept telling him how unattractive he was and how he should get off the system, because no one would want to do anything with him. This young lady continued on for about 15 minutes until an older gentlemen posted to her, "if you're that hot why dont you have a pic up?" Needless to say she left the room real quick. Just goes to show that for those that think they are that damn hot, stop fooling yourself, after all we are on a sex site...guys will tell you anything as long as you're dumb enough to fall for the "banana in the tail pipe."
Think about it, if you're that HOT then why are you still single and trying to get so much attention from guys with their cocks in their hands for anyone. Get a freaking clue, or have you not been played enough...maybe thats it! Like it or not, there will always be someone better then you, at least to the majority of the leg humping guys on here. Keep trying, maybe some day you might find one blind enough to not see your true self...a pathetic, used up, low self-esteem, out of work, waste of space person. So, tell me...how did that make you feel? Now you got a taste of your own medicine...DEAL with it! For you to think you're so much better lets us all know why you are in the place you're at now in life.
Until next time...blog on!
# 1 with a bullet.......SHOPPER GIRL out!
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Men wanted, Boys need not apply
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Jun 5, 2009 6:37 pm
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Welcome back perves...
My preference in men has always been in older white guys. The reason for that is because they seem to understand more about my situation of being a single mom thats attending night school. It seems that the men my age still want to party every nite and stick their poles in every hole...i'm not saying all guys.
So, I was chatting with a nice guy the other nite, while I was camming, about kids when he mentioned to me he had 3 girls he was working his ass off for. For some reason hearing talk about his kids put me more at ease. Meeting someone with a life that consist more of themselves then not remembering what they did the nite before interest me more. Life isnt about partying all the damn time.
I've noticed that as I got older I settled down a lot from the drinking, staying out late and being irresponsible. In my younger days I was, what we call now,a party girl. But once I got married and had my daughter it all made me see things differently. If you've ever heard the saying, "Having a baby changes everything," well let me assure you that it does. And i guess thats another reason I prefer older men, they arent as time demanding as most younger men.
In my opinion older men have been the ones that made better lovers, but by all means its not just sex. When I've dated younger men I was always disppointed by the fact that they always cared what others and their friends thought about them. To me, I have never really cared what others thought of me as long as I and my lover were happy not much else mattered. I'm not in high school, so what my friends think only matters to a certain point, but my life is just that, my life.
I recall getting a phone call in the middle of the night from a younger guy I was dating back awhile. He called me to come bail him and his friends out of jail because they had gotten in a fight at a titty bar over a comment made to them. When I asked him what triggered the incident, he replied, "Some guy was laughed at us because one of the strippers called us boys." Only thing that crossed my mind was that, do I really want to get my daughter out again in the middle of the night for someone that cares about what others think of him? HELLL NO! I ended that so called relationship real quick. I'm not one to let any guy take up my time with my daughter for any reason. Men will come and go out of my life , but my daughter will be there at my side on my last day of life holding my hand. I think that she deserves for me to make sure I dont let anyone take away from that.
Then when we talk about the older men I have dated, that becomes a different story. I dated a guy about 16 yrs older then me for more then a yr and my daughter knew about him. I dont bring men through my home for my daughter to see while i'm dating. The only way she would meet anyone is if I got extremely serious with them. I respect my daughter, her home and myself way too much to have guys coming and going out of her life. But this guy was very different, he is a family man as well so he understood the parenting side of my life. I think thats why I prefer older men for dating because they know the life of a single mom. Time for us is very few and far between, but we are still women and desire the touch of a good man.
I was once asked, "what I look for in a partner"....if I didnt have a kiddo it might be different, yet i'm not, so my answer is a guy that has more experience in life and love then playing head games. Although my saying has always been "i'm looking for a wolf in sheep's clothing." Just like most men, women have a preference of a gentlemen out in public but a naughty wicked man in bed.
So, I leave you with that thought....
SHOPPER GIRL out.....
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