Day 2 - Wow, two days in a row!  

wimbledonsw19 50M
6 posts
10/8/2005 3:32 pm

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Day 2 - Wow, two days in a row!

I don't usually get to access AdultFriendFinder quite so regularly, so I thought I'd make the point, just so people don't think I have gone away when postings become less regular.

All I seem to have read about recently on AdultFriendFinder is that people don't turn up to meets. Why is this? I mean the not turning up rather than the rants!
Is the site populated by people who are "all mouth and no trousers"? Is everyone just fantasising with no intention of following things through, or just bottling out at the end?

What do we do? Turning up at a hotel may risk taking on something outside your comfort zone. Can we always trust the other person to maintain confidentiality? Should we meet somewhere private but public (a sauna?) so that you can let things develop or get out whenever you need to?

Is this just a London / UK thing, or is it the same everywhere? I know the British are reserved, but if you're open to posting on a site like this, then I guess you've opened up a bit more than average already!

Sorry to be serious, but this has been playing on my mind. I would like to see at least some postings on "meets" chats to actually come back sometime and give a report - doesn't need to break confidences (although pics would be even better!), but at least it would give confidence that someone was having a good time, and that joining in on the thread may not just be a waste of time.

rm_DrTobin 57M
4 posts
10/8/2005 5:07 pm

I haven't read a lot of blogs and have only met 3 people in over a year but the one thing I have done is always turn up to meet. Not all the meets have been perfect but I have at least given the women courtesy, time and champagne.

I think it is the 'mouth and no trousers' syndrome with a lot of the people but I think that it is the height of rudeness not to turn up if you have agreed to. I note that I live pretty close to you SW19 so maybe we should test our 'bottle' SW19! lol.

Take care, David x

rm_DrTobin 57M
4 posts
10/8/2005 5:09 pm

I was noly kidding abou the meet SW19! I think that we are looking for different things!!

verygoodlover 57M
2 posts
10/18/2005 2:32 am

I have tried three times to arrange meetings from this site. We has mobile phone numbers and all ready for the meeting. Then no one showed on two occasions. The one that did turn up was worth it. I arranged to meet him at a nearby hotel and took it from there. I have some photos in my album in my profile. We both had a great time. If you are ever over in Ireland then give me a call.

wimbledonsw19 50M
5 posts
10/18/2005 3:18 pm

Hi Mr verygoodlover from Sligo - haven't been able to read your profile yet, but have sent an invite etc. Do let me know if my profile is visible/available.
Good to hear that ultimately, you did make an encounter following a lead from AdultFriendFinder - pics will be a bonus next time I'm online if you let me peek!

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