What is sexy?  

willudomeharder 39F
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4/20/2006 7:32 am

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4/21/2006 11:35 am

What is sexy?

At work last night, I got into a little debate about what qualifies as sexy. This was just about superficial stuff. I know there is ALOT more to someone being sexy than what we discussed...but hey...we were just killing time.

For instance...a major turn on for me, is when a man smells good. He doesn't have to be drenched in cologne...but I tell you what....if a man smells good - that can make up for so many other things. On eof my ex-boyfriends always smelled so good. I loved smelling his clothes in the morning...of course, he was broke, unemployed, and got another girl pregnant while we were dating...but DAMN did he smell good.

Then there was the body type question. I prefer bigger men....hee hee hee. Not too many muscles...but not stick thin either...I don't want to feel like the muscle in the relationship. I was actually impressed that a number of men at the bar last night didn't want some toothpick, Kate Moss looking type of woman. lol...of course, men always say that...but their actions always betray them! They also said they don't REALLY like obviously fake colored hair, women that wear too much makeup, glitter, or dark lipstick. Yeah right!! It was nice of them to try to convince me of that though...

What about they type of voice? I love a man with a deep voice. Most of them prefered a woman with a deep voice as well. There was one guy who prefered the high pitched squeaky ones...but overall...the deep voices won.

Hair....of course the men loved the long, flowing hair...curled or straight they didn't care, just as long as it was past the shoulders (at least). On this one - I'm on the fence. I have liked men with all different kinds of hair(cuts). Bald men turn me on to no end. My ex-finacee had a high & tight (military). I like the shagginess factor of a "mop top," and nothing can compare to the long hair/bad boy from the 80's rock band hair. We had to agree to disagree on that one.

Then we had the discussion about who looks better naked - men or women. On this I'm undecided. Women are beautiful creatures...but there is definitely something to be said about a man walking around in his birthday suit. They all said women are sexier in the buff (of course), and I couldn't agree or disagree with them. BUT, I did have to say that I think men are sexier in a pair of boxers than a woman would be in a bar & panties. They laughed and threw popcorn at me, but that's just my opinion.

Then they tried to tell me that men think about sex more than women do. What a bunch of crap.

Overall..we came to the conclusion that sexy is relative. For instance...if I had to pick one man that encompasses my idea of sexy....the closest would be Vin Diesel. I know - I run the risk of sounding like a 14 yesr old virgin who just saw "the Fast and the Furious" for the first time, but it's true. I'd make him a little less artsy-fartsy though.

mrgrimshade 44M

4/21/2006 6:47 am

hmmm high & tight, bigger than you, wears boxer briefs...hey! that's me!

seriously, I love women that smell wonderful, that always wins me over, with hair...no bald women for me, and I believe topless women are sexier than complete nudes.


dasher121 36M

4/21/2006 10:24 am

You know, I did used to almost have myself convinced that I liked females who didnt care that much about their appearance, little to no make up, tom boyish, ect.

Then I dated a female who primped, prepped, always looked done up and hell yes I loved it!! She always looked good, even in the morning haha. And appreciated greatly the time she always took to look so damn good.

Now as far as the Kate Moss type body? Ick! Ive only ever dated one stick figure female. The rest were all full bodied and had killer curves. I like a real woman with curves. Not someone I can hide in a crack in the wall lol.

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