That's it! I give up  

willudomeharder 39F
194 posts
3/14/2006 9:16 am

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3/27/2006 9:18 am

That's it! I give up

I'm quitting.....I think. After a LOT of soul-searching, and self-examination...I have (sadly) come to the conclusion that I am not cut out for casual sex. I would LOVE to be...and there are times (like when I wake up in the middle of the night horny as hell...or when I wake up in the mornings horny as hell, or right before I go to bed horny as hell, or when I'm really tired...but still horny as hell, or after I've had a couple drinks and am horny as hell, or on Sunday afternoons when I'm watching really really bad TV movies and am still...you guessed it...horny as hell) that I wish I could be....but I'm not. Thr truth is...I think I want the "fairy tale." I want a husband and a house and romantic vacations, and rainy days in bed, and sappy nicknames, and private jokes, and hand holding...and everything that comes with it. If I can get that AND a total horn-dog like me.....then I would just be in heaven.

I know, I know....I should try it just once right? I was sooooo close with the one guy from here. Who knows...maybe he could be someone I could have a great relationship with.....but chances are...probably not. I just know that I would have a really hard time facing my dad knowing that the night before I had had a threesome with people I had just met. Societal judgements aside....it's not something I would be OK with. As much as I want to do things like that...I know I shouldn't. There are alot of things that people tell themselves it's OK to do because they're not hurting anyone...and if that's your bag baby....more power to you. I just don't think it's for me. I'm too freaking old fashioned. I still love phone sex though....and I love to watch people...I just don't think I'll be putting myself out there for just-sex encounters anymore. LOL - not that I have had any to begin with.

Please don't take this as being judgemental or anything like that...because I am definitely not saying anything about anyone but myself. I love it that there are people out there free-spirited enough to to what they want when they want to. Like I said...more power to you. I'll be waiting to read all the dirty stories! So...it looks like it's me and my new vibe until the right man comes along. I hope you all are having great sex out there!


rm_coyotemike45 38M

3/15/2006 12:33 pm

It't nothing to be sorry about. I too have some trouble with casual sex. But, that doesn't mean you can't meet someone nice on here.


SlungSpeltDrugs 57M
82 posts
3/26/2006 7:30 am

Don't give up. Just stick to your convictions and things will come around.The things that stop you from following others is what sets you apart from others in a good way. Take care. Tim


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