It's on again...  

wildred4you 45F
45 posts
8/1/2006 3:12 pm

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8/28/2006 5:54 pm

It's on again...

I swear, it is so hard to find one steady lover now a days. I am not looking to change my life or my current living situation, just enhance it.
I am not dumb in any means and I can carry a very intelligent conversation; of course I enjoy sex or I wouldn't be on here; I just want to meet someone smart, funny, good looking or something along those lines, and understands my situation at home.

FYI - my favorite place on saturday nights is Club Energy in Akron.

bigdaddy29372 42M
2 posts
8/1/2006 3:39 pm

I can definitely understand your position.I am also looking for something very similar to you,but I have not had much luck yet.It has to get better...doesn't it?

Djeeper1987 47M

8/1/2006 3:44 pm

Been get frustration out as well recently. Good Luck.

Carpe Diem

oral_savant45 71M
4 posts
8/2/2006 11:47 am

Just a thought, Wild Red... you might want to try scoring an older guy. I might even be able to suggest one.

We - well, some of us anyway - know all about discretion. We've had to be discreet so damn many times. We understand your home situation, too - we've probably had one ourselves. We also don't have time for all the sillyass head games and such. (Who needs that shit?!)

What we might lack in sheer steampower is often offset by experience and creativity. We've learned - sometimes the hard way - how to be attentive to your needs and act accordingly, not satisfied to just cum and run. Some of us also have a freshly discovered, total lack of inhibition. I've found aging to be most liberating myself. Who cares what people think anymore?! That's about the only good thing about it so far though.

Another big plus: you won't get any complaints if you want to be on top. It's much less work being on the bottom, so we can last longer that way. You have to watch that though. Fiftyish guys are in mid-life crisis, so they think they need to be on top and perform like they're 19. They might die trying! Once past that though, it works out pretty well. Everybody's comfy.

And, as if all that wasn't enough, we're soooo friggin' grateful! We actually appreciate you and everything you do!

I know, I've done a lot of generalizing here. There are exceptions to everything I've said. For some of us it's all quite accurate; others have lived all these years and still haven't learned a goddamned thing.

Think about it. I'll be around here somewhere

ThrumMyoidWomen 61M
425 posts
8/9/2006 3:45 pm

hey there wild red if you want to just go out an have a good time give me a shout i'll give you a few laughs an a good time but you have to promise to have me home by curfew, lol

chrisohioM 59M

8/17/2006 4:37 pm

red im looking for the same dear.and im off work next week if you'd like to meet for coffee or chat

rm_g1000man 70M
54 posts
8/25/2006 9:24 am

Well Wildred!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That can be real frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like they say try experience and knowledge

rm_reddiver69 53M
3 posts
8/26/2006 12:23 pm

There are some things that are a given, but most people don't stop to think about it:
1. People in sales have creative schedules and can make rendezvous more often
2. People in sales have to have an ability to communicate with a wide range of people on a wide range of topics
3. We also have pretty good (twisted) sense of humors
4. We are ALWAYS better in person
5. Older men know the importance of oral and we even know where the clitoris is ( ) ! We spend more time south of the border, so to speak, and use more than just our tongue
6. Older men know that you don't simply "out it in and slam it"
7. Older, married men are far less likely to be psycho, needy or stupid about discretion
8. If intercourse is important to you, older men last longer
9. I am the one you're looking for!

let's put this knowledge to use and then you can give ME a huge testimonial (lol)!

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