You don't know until you ask  

wildkiss4you 42F
29 posts
7/20/2006 8:41 am

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You don't know until you ask

I've never really had some one I could talk to about sex or at least ask questions about sex and feel like I'm getting an honest answer.Here since no one knows me and I know no one I thought maybe I could get the answers to some of the questions I have.Being a woman most of this questions are going to be for men but woman please feel free to leave me any advice you may have God knows I need it.Okay so here goes Do men feel threaten by vibraters. I have one but I dont use it while I'm with my husband he thinks I shouldnt need it. Am I wrong to enjoy the feel of it during sex. Isn't anything that feels good durning sex right? so tell me how do you feel about vibraters and girls are you ashmed to use yours during sex with your mate.

digdug41 49M

7/20/2006 10:03 am

nothing wrong with a lil stimulation on the clitoris, shhhhit may just send ya into a deeper frenzy and the my head will really be huge after LOL

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glidecc 41M  
1183 posts
7/20/2006 10:23 am

I think it's harmless to use a vibrator. However it's not so harmless to do something that would hurt your partner.

The real issue is how you'll talk about this with your husband.

rm_Shaun48722 36M

7/20/2006 11:50 am

I feel there is nothing wrong with a woman using a vibrator at anytime whether its during sex or play. There are some that both the man and the woman can use at the same time. just my 2 cents


tenorsaxxman 65M

7/20/2006 12:12 pm

Sex is about bringing pleasure to someone you care about (ok, so it can be casual and nameless . . .just not in my world). Whatever toys can be employed that don't cause problems medically or mentally are good. I would think that a vibrator would be a good "prep" tool and mutually beneficial. Good luck.


funny549 51M

7/20/2006 12:26 pm

I, for one, would find it incredibly exciting to watch and participate while you played with yourself with a vibrator. I secure in my knowledge that I will do everything I can to stimulate you, but if you want to use a vibrator too...all the better. Sounds hot!!

buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
7/20/2006 12:29 pm

Many men are threatened by vibrators. Makes them feel like they aren't getting the job done. If you were single, I would suggest waiting til you find a guy who is secure enough to not be intimidated by it. Since you already have a husband, you'll just have to adapt to his self esteem level and live with it.

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
7/20/2006 2:22 pm

It's true that some men feel uncomfortable around vibrators. I'm not one of them however. I have a couple of toys of my own. When you're as unwanted as I feel sometimes, toys come in real handy. Shortdogg

rm_dave10024 41M
1 post
7/20/2006 9:18 pm

Some men are threatened by vibrators. I guess it depends on how a man sees it. I use a vibrator on all of my girlfriends, but not all of the time. I use a vibrator on my girlfriends because I want them cum over and over and have a great time. I don't see a vibrator as a replacement for me, but rather a toy to enhance a girls pleasure. I am shocked at the number of girls who have never tried one.

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