Not lacking anything!  

wifelookin4fun 39F
9 posts
9/9/2005 7:00 pm

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Not lacking anything!

This whole experience is so new to me, so I decided to write down something's that have crossed my mind with all the new and exciting changes in my life. I have experienced so many wonderful new things and met so many wonderful, caring, funny, and compassionate people. I have also met a few people that I wish I hadn't. So here's my thought on this whole thing: so many men seem to think that I am lacking something in my marriage. Whether that be good sex, companionship, intimacy, or even love! Well, I am not. Just because I choose to post an ad on an adult sex site does not mean that I am lacking anything - it simply means that I am opening my eyes to new experiences and new people. I figure, why not! You can never have too many friends in life. And if those friends happen to occasionally lead you to the bedroom - well then so be it! I would rather be upfront and honest in my marriage than give into temptation with that special friend and have an affair behind the love of my life's back. People always say, sex is sex and love is love. But I believe that there can also be a middle ground. Nothing in this world has to be so black and white. What's wrong with having a close friend that you can turn to and confide in and also, if they turn you on, have sex with! But again, just because you choose to share your thoughts with a friend and let them be a PART of your life does not mean that you want them to BE your life. My philosophy is this - very simply - surround yourself with people that care about you and respect you as a person - and have FUN with it. What's the difference in sharing a bed with someone if you would also be willing to share your THOUGHTS with them? And just because your sharing your thoughts and your body, it does not mean that your looking for something that is missing in your life. I am a COMPLETE and well rounded human being but that does not mean that I don't like to have fun and friendships of my own! Something that only I can look back on and reminisce the stages of my life - and right now - this is my life - and I like it!

Greenguy96 43M

9/9/2005 9:57 pm

I agree! I come to this sight becouse I like to hear, what others think about sex. Not beouse I want to "fuck" every women outh there, ok maybe, Well if you have an honest and open reltionship with your husbend, then your better off them most people. good for you.

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
9/9/2005 10:16 pm

{GRIN} Nice to see someone who knows exactly what she's looking for!

I know what you mean though: life is rarely black and white but most people find it hard to see in shades of grey.

Glad you're finding those things that make you happy with your life, ma'am

mdoncall 56M
2 posts
9/9/2005 11:41 pm

Very well said

lovwetladies 56M

9/14/2005 7:37 pm

You are very intelligent with a great outlook and very sexy also!!
I just adore ladies that tell it like it is and do not play games
or spread bullshit that has no meaning. Hope to meet you guys some-
time. I also agree that surrounding yourself w/ good people makes u
a better person...................................bye

sixtynine590 53M
4 posts
10/2/2005 9:37 pm


rm_bonez4u2000 38M
1 post
10/25/2005 2:05 pm

I must say that i agree with you whole heartedly. It is nice to beable to have an open relationship with the person you love and still be able to have fun. You seem like a very wonderful person and very beautiful to boot. Your the type of person that can make someones life just that much better for just knowing you i think.

rm_Thepenciler2 42M
1 post
11/4/2005 3:20 pm

I think that life is not black and white at all. I draw comics and cartoons for a living and the funniest and most real shit happens within the grey areas of life. I have many friends that i can turn to for anything from good conversation to a shoulder to cry on, and yes occasionally SEX. We are sexual creatures! Many a girls i have tried to DATE did not understand this concept and i'm glad to see a woman who understands this!!

knz_toyz 53M
2 posts
11/23/2005 5:58 pm

You couldn't have said it better!!!! Damn, looks and a really nice bike, you already have everything!!! (just kidding) Love to hear more thoughts!!!!

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