right or wrong  

wifelikes_two 50M/48F
18 posts
12/11/2005 2:23 pm

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12/7/2006 1:50 pm

right or wrong

Is it wrong to be selective. We have meet with guys and not be interested. What do they do get mad and pushy. Why? We are looking for someone like us is that so wrong?

sixinchessoft69 46M
9 posts
12/11/2005 7:08 pm

I have been on the other sideof that, and being the horny dog I am I went through with it, god bless alcohol.

yngfrekcouple 40M/31F
1 post
12/16/2005 3:28 pm

Just wondering if you are still looking for men and couples for threesome. I would love to share you.

JuStGeTtiNmIne 53F

12/25/2005 5:42 pm

Most definitely NOT.........

Of course we are going to be selective when we are choosing a playmate....I know I am.....

Some men, and women too, just don't know how to take NO for an answer gracefully.....

I have had them resort to the most high school things imaginable...

Just because some guy is handsome as hell, has a great looking cock, and a tongue to match, there has to be some inkling of desire in me before I will think about sleeping with him....
Looks dont get it alone....

Reverse psychology definitely does NOT work on me either....

SIXINCHESSOFT....If we were not so far apart, and you were into beautiful black chicks like myself...I'd definitely give you some play.....WITHOUT THE ALCOHOL...........You would want to remember being with me.....

rm_CattLapHer 46M
5 posts
1/3/2006 4:25 pm

You should be selective and safe. And anyone who assumes that because you meet in person you will automatically have sex is probably the ones that you want to avoid,because if they cannot comprehend that it takes a certain level of comfort,Trust,and physical attraction, for both parties to reach the level nessary for everyone to feel at ease and enjoy it for what it is, a couple of new friends exploring each others sexuallity. If everyone is not comfortable ,ready, and wanting to proceed to have an sexual adventure it would take all the fun out of it! Cattlapher

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
1/14/2006 3:49 pm

ABSOLUTELY ...Be Pvery icky ... we are mfm players a while now ... In fact, my profile even starts with "Picky mature couple seeks ..........

We find it only good with the "right" fella, or fellas.

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rm_niceandstiff 58M
30 posts
2/24/2006 3:16 am

I think if you really take time to choose before meeting, asking ALL the questions that are important to you, and having seen recent pics, then you stand a better chance of success when you meet.

Of course, the big crunch is how someone actually comes across when you are face to face. It may be that everything SEEMED right, but that "spark" ‒ that "chemistry" that makes someone attractive / desirable simply isn't there. This should also be agreed in advance, so that if either party is not happy at a social meeting that it then ends amicably. That way, if you find that they just don't "do it for you" or are even unattractive, then you are entitled to say, "Thanks, but you're not the one" and say your goodbyes.

Obviously, there is sometimes a lot of time and effort involved in meeting someone, therefore carefully posed questions beforehand are essential to reduce the risk of wasting your and the other party's time.

Honesty and frankness with politeness is the best way forward for both sides, IMO.

Horny4aCouple 41M

3/31/2006 3:43 pm

There is nothing wrong with meeting someone and finding out that your not interested. If they get mad and pushy, they are not the types you need to have with your wife anyway.

Respect is what it's all about.

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