what i want.  

wickedeasy 66F  
14952 posts
8/26/2006 9:25 am
what i want.

Hydragenias posted and this is one of the quotes from there

"Not knowing what you want LOWERS the chances of GETTING what you want." [post 484094]

so i thought about that and this is what i want in a relationship

honesty without viciousness
shared goals, shared laughter, sharing
time together
lots and lots of talking
lots and lots of sex
someone who listens, but doesn't try to solve
someone who believes i have worth
passion - for life, for work, for each other
someone who won't let me get away with c..
to be surprised every once in a while
to be appreciated for what i do
to feel that my someone is committed to me/us
someone who makes me feel beautiful

what do you want?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1993 posts
8/26/2006 10:13 am

It is all about clarity...The more you know what you're looking for, the easier it is to find...I call this new car syndrome. Have you ever noticed that when you buy a new model that all around there are thousands of those cars....It's the same with people...When you are very specific about what you want, you can see it when it appears..BTW I like your list, it fits you well. Hugs

wickedeasy replies on 8/26/2006 11:56 am:
what's a new car?

so, what's your list?

free2chose2 66F

8/26/2006 10:56 am

Someone to hold me against the storms
Someone to walk with in the summer rain
Someone to enjoy the first snow of winter with
Someone who enjoys the autumn leaves as I do
Someone who can return my passion for life
Someone who loves me faults and all
Someone who enjoys today and plans for our tommorows
Someone who can know my innermost thoughts without reproach
Someone I can love,dream with and support

Don't worry, be Happy

wickedeasy replies on 8/26/2006 11:57 am:
smiles - walking in the summer rain - smiles

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
8/26/2006 11:05 am

Gotta agree with Skier. I'm a big believer in being very clear about what you want and with that specificity comes outcomes. I often get what I want. Exactly. And quickly. And the other thing I do is look around and see if I've got some stuff in the way of getting what I want...if I do, then I remove the internal and external barriers to having that thing/situation or person I've said I wanted.

WE you really do have a good list. It could just as easily be mine.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


wickedeasy replies on 8/26/2006 11:59 am:
separated at birth - i keep tellin' ya

btw - i forgot to put it down

someone who is ON TIME - now THAT one, i've yet to find

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1993 posts
8/26/2006 12:32 pm

so, what's your list?

doing interesting things with interesting people
lots of snow during the winter
low humidity in the summer
passion in my life
the ability to be myself and the freedom to do so

and....your list is pretty darned good..

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 6:49 am:
notice how much more concrete the men are - smiles

i like that


ButteryDelight 58F

8/26/2006 12:40 pm

Well first i want things that might not ever happen..but why not want them anyway.

Peace with out war
Love with out hate

Then I want..

Hugs just cause i need a human touch
Forgiveness with out conditions
Acceptance of who and what I am
More sex then i am getting
One i can trust
One to give myself to

Buttery Delight

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 6:52 am:
if we have love without hate - we mgiht have a chance at peace without war - course we have to lose a bunch of politicians but then that makes it a win/win situation, yanno

i want to steal your acceptance one - and add it to mine - so intrinisic

hugs BD

Hydragenias 56F

8/26/2006 5:18 pm

It means so much to me to find out that something I posted touched and/or inspired someone else! Thank You for the wonderful compliment!

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 6:52 am:
bows low, no, thank YOU

elysianpleasure 47M

8/26/2006 9:15 pm

a deep frienships...
open communications...
mutual physical pleasure...
a connection
keeping it simple and honest

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 6:53 am:
i like your list

could you define simple?

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
8/27/2006 4:40 am

i want and i need sleep lol after that i will see

I'm a

i'm here to stay

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 6:57 am:
tucks Papy in - sshh


madiemoon 51F
2090 posts
8/27/2006 9:26 am

i want .....

someone to sleep with and wake up to
who loves me for who i am and where i have been
pushs me when i am in doubt or fearful of failing
hold me close and wipe away my tears when in pain
make me laugh so hard my sides hurt or i pee my pants
walk with me in the rain
make love to me under the stars
share warm candlite bubble baths
my friend, lover, confidante
guide me, protect me, share my life with
the good the bad and the ugly.

i call Him K

wickedeasy replies on 8/27/2006 11:21 am:
smiles, i call mine D

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
8/27/2006 7:34 pm


Someone who will both value what is between us and be valued for that.

warm xx

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