Sex and Love  

whoknewyoutoo 52M
29 posts
4/26/2005 12:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sex and Love

Are you married or in a committed relationship? Are you in love? Are all of your sexual desires still being fulfilled?

I have been married for some time now, and consider myself to be happy - I love my wife, my family, my situation - in all areas save one: sex.

I miss sex. The raw, heart-pounding desire that is sparked when you first see someone, and you know you want to have them. The way that spark explodes when you first see in their eyes that your desires are reciprocated. The blood rush that comes from seeing their naked body for the first time - the trembling under their fingertips the first time they undress you. Sleepless nights - the feel of sweat dripping down the line of your ribs - sweat that isn't yours!

I am new to this site one week, and it has re-awakened some lustful desires I have tried to ignore since being married.

I thought it might be interesting to open a discussion about sex and love, getting perspectives from men and women, both single and involved.

Do sex and love go hand in hand? Does loving someone improve the sex, or detract from it? How do you maintain that hunger for one another through years, children, mortgages?

Is swinging the answer? Cheating? Masturbation behind the safety of your webcam? Just curious...lustful and curious.

badbadgirl6969 53F

4/26/2005 4:29 pm

Well i have been playing for 3 years now. i have been married for 22 years. not enough at home and i love being bad. so i have looked elsewhere for my fun. i know bad bad woman. but damn i am having fun.

rm_suckssoftly 51F
6 posts
5/7/2005 5:34 am

I'm on the fence,,DONT PUSH,,PUSH,,DONT PUSH,,PUSH. Looking at both sides here on MY precarious perch and so far resisting the physical temptation(is masturbating while cybering resisting???)I'm content that I havent given in to the MENy temptations. Thankfully I can imagine whatever I like during my encounters with my hubby,,,unless of course he breathes and then I know it's him(te he)so far so good, I've been fucked by most of my admirers,,but with the same cock. I will either sit on my fence and hope the lumber doesnt rot or sit on one side or the other always knowing the grass seems greener on the other side.

whoknewyoutoo 52M

5/7/2005 5:47 pm

I hear you, suckssoftly - I'm on that fence with you...

encantress 63F

5/8/2005 12:44 pm

lol make room on the fence for me..I just have to tell you that i really have enjoyed your i have strayed some what off the fence with the date i took to the stripp joint and we fondeled later that afternoon but did not fuck...oh i said that lol..i could fall off the fence..godness some one catch me

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