Fantasy Land  

whoknewyoutoo 52M
29 posts
5/10/2005 7:51 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Fantasy Land


While love is real, passion exists only in the mind, and only for a short time...

When life is full, and relationships are dependent on trust, is it really worth the cost to try to realize my fantasies? Seems selfish, unless I fully disclose to my mate, and she is as game as I, and ultimately fruitless, as the most exciting aspect of a physical encounter - the 'freshness' of that initial experience - by definition ultimately wanes.

Does that sound negative and passionless, or God forbid - lazy? The truth is the opposite. I work too hard, and am already too busy in all areas of life. I have too little time to invest in something that will ultimately make me feel guilty and ashamed. Of course, if I were looking for love, the story would be entirely different, but I am not. I only want sex.

And as far as passion is concerned, in Fantasy Land, there are only the upper limits of my imagination...

rm_suckssoftly 51F
6 posts
5/10/2005 2:39 pm

Shall I interpret what I hear in your comments?,,Absofuckinglutely. Your simply looking for spice in what's become a bland menu. Not only in your sex life it seems but in your LIFE. Hitting that milestone kinda hard huh? Some of us have been there and actually rode the wave(gravol please) and those who jumped and had the little ditty on the side more likely than not made sure that their lifesaver(hubby/wife) was always in sight. Which was the right choice? Damnned if I know. Passion wanes to be sure excitement becomes more of a quest the older I become(a ride at the amusement park no longer gives me those squiggles in my tummy) But that guy that walks into my office,,,,,,,,,well squiggle away tummy I LIKE IT. So I sit across from him asking all the mundane questions while fucking his brains out in the furtherst/nearest lol recess of my mind. When I'm on the ole deathbed or he on his will I regret doing something I didn't regret???????????????????????????????????????????


whoknewyoutoo 52M

5/11/2005 12:59 pm

You're right, sexyfitwoman - if there's anything I AM guilty of, it is hyper-analysis. The problem with right and wrong is, it is SO relative...


whoknewyoutoo 52M

5/11/2005 12:59 pm

I hear you, suckssoftly - I think? Sounds like you stick to imagination? Either way, I don't judge. By 'blogging' it out here, I am voicing the little angel voice on my one shoulder. Today, it may be the little devil voice that comes out. And, in terms of fantasizing vs. acting - it will likely depend on who's driving at the time the opportunity arises, if you know what I mean...


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