A Vote for Love...  

whoknewyoutoo 52M
29 posts
4/30/2005 8:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A Vote for Love...

I was reading a woman's blog yesterday. She had found some guys on the site, and she had partaken in some fist-pounding sex, and all was great - until a few days later, when she tried to have sex with her husband. She was not 'in the mood' - and couldn't get in the mood. She was devastated.

I'm not sure how she is feeling today, but it got me thinking. Though the act of sex, and the desire and lust that powers it, may indeed be separate from love, is it possible to separate the consequences of that sex on love?

Desire is powerful, but so is guilt. And even without guilt, if getting more horny for someone else makes you less horny for your mate - then what?

After reading her post, I'm not sure I could make the leap to a 'real' physical encounter. Although, I suppose one could argue that by sitting here and looking at other women and jacking off, I am on the same slippery slope.

I guess I need to do some more research - see if I can find couples out there, whether swinging or 'open' or just plain cheating, who are finding a way to have their cake and eat it too.

rm_suckssoftly 51F
6 posts
5/7/2005 5:18 am

No sense shopping mixing baking cooling and icing the dammned thing if you cant have at least a taste....but to eat the whole cake? Some women just ask for indigestion.

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