What 30 something means  

whoknew411 42M
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6/28/2005 7:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What 30 something means


The older I grow the more I forget. I remember once upon a time, in my late teens and early twenties where I truly thought I knew something about men and women.

Now after ten more years of dating, I'm no closer than when I started. I don't know what kind of person I like, I'm not even sure there are "kinds" of people.

Why is it when people get older they aren't as fascinated with music? I'm not saying grown people don't enjoy music, but typically the infatuation of youth doesn't survive. Does it work the same with relationships? Is each bound to be of slightly less fire than the last?

Can I post more rhetorical questions? Was that the last one?

I have no more idea why I'm writing this than you do why you're reading it. Probably less. My five year plan is a haiku and I forgot it at home.

I've had a few dates recently. None of them were serious, in a long-term sense, but each was fun. It just feels a little shallow. I'm not used to it. I think you'd all be a bit horrified and delighted at the more intimate events that are unfolding. But I am neither, they're more fun from afar.

My problem when I deal with women is that I want to be the knight in shining armor. I like the idea of dedicating myself to one woman. Now don't get me wrong, that's not the only reason I'm dating. Sex is important and vital to me and I'll not do without it if I can.

I'm unsure of how to deal with a casual sex relationship and keep it at that level. I've been with a woman for so long where she was the queen to my king. Now I have this woman, who I fit absolutely NO criteria for. It's bizarre, I have no idea why she likes me I would think I'd be the exact opposite of what she'd find attractive.

I'm not sure what to make of her. Not being the most trusting person, I wonder about her motives. I wonder how intelligent she is. She's got two master's degree's, more education than me... more life experience. I'm so much younger, it could be that.

I don't want to be the sex object in the relationship... I want HER to be the sex object! Ah well as long as everyone gets laid.

This one has something none of the other girls had. She's got musical talent. I wish her and I had access to a piano without her kids around.

Something interesting is comparing the discussions with this woman who's 10 years older with the one who's 10 years younger. I've not spent much time with the younger one. I may never she lives quite a ways away. I can't imagine being with someone that young, 19 tender sweet little years old! lol < perv

It cracks me up this age thing. I hope I grossed out everyone, you prudes. Okay, maybe the average "AdultFriendFinder" viewer might not be shocked, but I'd bet it would raise an eyebrow in most polite company, and as I approach 31 I find myself privately wanting to flaunt convention and figure out what 30-something means.

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/28/2005 9:28 pm

30 something is more confusing than 20 something...still trying to figure it out.


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