Horny Heifers  

whineyblonde0r 53F
287 posts
6/4/2006 6:21 am
Horny Heifers


This is only my opinion interspersed with some conjecture on some ideas, DO NOT take this as documented research!!
When men or women set out to engage in a mutual sexually based relationship only, does there need to be checkpoints along the way that keep either from crossing the boundry lines of emotional. Dont men and women at some point have some sort of bond with the person they are sharing their body with. I fully understand the concept of married people cheating on their spouse and keeping the relationship to a loveshack mentality. The trysts boardering on hurried sex and little talk except for listening to a tirade of "I have slept on the couch for 3 years" but I love her yet, or "Im staying for the kids sake" Is that to be considered a freebie marriage counseler/ semen recepticle? Ego booster? Or simply craving a feminine touch. When my ex left me "finally!" we hadnt had sex in over a year. He said to me, I need a feminine touch. It was simple, I knew what he meant and now hopefully the overbearing bitch/screaming shrew amazon lady he is with fulfills that. (giggles) I craved a manly touch myself, how about you take out the garbage..mow the damn lawn and help me pay the bills will ya..thats manly to me. I digress, excuse me!!!.....The concept of two married people cheating with each other I understand on a purely sexual basis. So is it so simple as to say, Im horny, booty call and dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out? I have had (hate to admit it) a few of those moments, lack of time really. A man friend of mine (not sexual) tells me he catorgarized women in the "commers or goers" fashion.He knew which ones he would take around his friends and which ones were kept for bedroom play and freely interchanged them, commers would get his full attention, he sought them out for other activities and kept them on a list of possible further entanglements. The goers were a strict call in basis for when the urge hit him. Sometimes all he wanted was a sexual encounter without the encumberances of outter bedroom foreplay. He knew they were accepting of the situation and for their own reasons came to him without expectations or preliminary courting. Females are just as horny as the male. Understood....But, the physical release of tension/stress/horniness is worth a roll in the hay? Nothing else offered but that? I fully understand that because Ive been in such situations where it feels awesome, baby lets just do it!! I do like knowing upfront if the sex is going to overpoweringly passionate. But after a few times( ok maybe more than a few) even passionate sex without the mental conections stop fulfilling a base need of mine. I need the attention of his mind too. I like to know he thinks routinely of me during his day. That he calls, I call.. even at times that it cant be sexual. Asks how my day is going. That he releives other stresses of my life besides sexual and that he is attentive. That isnt something being forced to get a piece of ass, but because there is a need on his part too. I'm seriously horny at this point in my life routinely. I can find the outlets for that on a pure sexual basis. That part is easy. Sex is easy. Getting it is easy. But is that fulfilling on a level that will substain me. No...if Id do it for a pure sexual release, Id be doing it nightly with anyone who would let me unzip the monster and have at it. Love slaves abound on this site, numerous other sites...and there is a need for this, some women accept validation thru desire from a male, no matter if he is putting them in his commers or goers list. It does fulfill a low self esteem idea of themselves? To be wanted, doesnt matter what form the attention manifests itself in? Or maybe it IS as simple as lustful adventure? freedom to screw who you want to? Ive observed numerous chat conversations and men bemoaning the fact they cant hook up at AdultFriendFinder. But their approach in starting a conversation typically is..wanna fuck? They arent remotely sucessful in that. Women want to "talk" first and get to know the person, that to me cuts out the just sex idea, cause if that is the case, who cares what either has to say really..is he cute and how big is his cock should be the only criteria in a situation such as that? So where are all these horny women that I hear men saying that accept just sex and no connections otherwise? I know of a friend who is married..she cheats and bemoans the fact the guy doesnt call her except when he wants to get together for an afternoon. WELL? its just sex...YA think?

cuteNEway 41F

6/4/2006 7:31 am

I on occasion give in to the "I NEED IT NOW" urge. but most of the time I like to know that I can still talk to a guy when we're not having sex. Not all relationship-like but on a friendship level. I currently have a couple of guys that I have this type of relationship with. We get together schedules allow but we talk on the phone and on IM.

But if you went into a relationship based purely on sex...you need not gripe. You went in fully informed that this was the way it was gonna be. I should know. I've done that to myself more than a few times.

tee hee


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