A Tribute To Whiners and Relationships  

whineyblonde0r 53F
287 posts
4/12/2006 3:29 pm
A Tribute To Whiners and Relationships

There seems to be in life, this obsession to keep a good public face. Who wants to see or be the alcoholic laying on the street? The crack addict with emancipated body and oozing sores visible. But there are the deep rooted internal addictions that very rarely are understood. Why do some people go Thru life sabotaging every relationship they engage in? In reality, they cant see that they do this, but after awhile it even becomes apparent to them. Some people control, seek constant attention, are never happy with what they have, demand more than is being offered. Yet to them...its normal? I'll frigging tell you why!..Its cause there is a NEED, not want, that makes you push for what you want, take what you need and not tolerate the slackness in which people engage in romance. There IS life, one chance, one go round to make something meaningful happen during it. I don't intend on moving to Africa and feeding starving children, nor do I probably intend on opening a homeless shelter. I suppose I could see myself opening a Sex addicts shelter. Though I'm sure that would take some sort of masters degree and not just an cattle prod that probably could be bought at the local Thiesens. I suppose I should go back to my initial thought and stop the chain of compounding thoughts that brought me to this first blog entry. The public face, the thing you put out there to attract the opposite sex, to get the promotions, to further yourself in this world....Is it what you truly are? What you show when pressed into a corner.... or is it......?


SirMounts 102M

4/21/2006 11:06 pm

It seems to Me that it is... most wise, when one most closely matches the person, without, with the person, within.
Welcome to our community of blogs, whineyblonde. *smiling*


GuyWhoListens2u 56M
325 posts
4/26/2006 7:05 am

Blonde,

I think most of us are hiding most of what we are and only put parts of ourselves here. On the other hand it seems that we also release a part of ourselves here that is available no place else.

Maybe it is a control thing.. here we decide which part of us is visible. Of course, if we intend to have a real relationship, then the rest will be uncovered. What then? Seems like we are fooling ourselves or cheating the system a little bit..

Yeay.. I can comment here!!!
(thank you)


whineyblonde0r 53F
140 posts
4/26/2006 12:58 pm

yeah!!..you can comment here now! Your very welcome to add your thoughts here... Ignorant comments and "such" made me want to hide from the rebuttal of others, that might be made to my minds wandering thoughts. I do reveal alot of what my Self feels, but I have learned to do that in life also. It's always in the moment thinking and I don't censor what I feel like writing at the time. I don't think I tend to hold back my thoughts. Putting forth most of my ideas out into the light makes me examine them totally. Too long was spent hiding? them and taking what was given for my conservative way of dealing with life. I may have edged over the cliff tho and taken a do not take hostages attitude on life. I revert occasionally, but I'm human like you and the other millions of people we share this earth with. But damn, isn't life fun to get to know some of them.When I engage in a relationship, "he" gets a "me tour"...I have insecurities..don't we all..hopefully they are understood..and my reactions to somethings are understood better. That is why kuddos are for your blog and your man in love items seemed very complete. I should be so lucky one day. Thanks


SirMounts 102M

5/13/2006 4:42 pm

Well, good communication in any relationship is a definite must. *smiling*
...you're off to a great start blogging, whineyblonde. *smiling*


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