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Women can be stupid, part two:
Women can be stupid, part two:
Here's a cornball conversation that proves women are out of their mind....
A woman met here on AdultFriendFinder...go figure...
sparklelikeice (5:56:06 PM): I'm not looking for a relationship out of this
whenuwantsum (5:56:40 PM): what then? Specifics please...so we're on the same page
sparklelikeice (5:57:14 PM): I'm looking for moderation...not a relationship but not just a jumpoff
sparklelikeice (5:57:18 PM): that's all
whenuwantsum (5:58:13 PM): Interesting....in your experience....have you ever had such a grey area before? personally, either you only have time to jump off or you have time to love.
sparklelikeice (5:58:45 PM): yes, I've had an in-between before
whenuwantsum (5:58:48 PM): the only moderated jump-non-jump are friends who knew each other for years
whenuwantsum (5:59:12 PM): In fact, I have one of those now.
sparklelikeice (5:59:54 PM): not always, but it's seldom that you find someone who is cool with just being a friend with benefits
whenuwantsum (6:00:25 PM): ha....
whenuwantsum (6:00:28 PM): very seldom....
whenuwantsum (6:00:35 PM): but it's really just perspective....
sparklelikeice (6:01:35 PM): well, I'll see if I find that on here. It's doubtful though
whenuwantsum (6:01:49 PM): of course its doubtful...
whenuwantsum (6:01:57 PM): Your a Psych major..
whenuwantsum (6:02:11 PM): On AdultFriendFinder it's about one thing.....
whenuwantsum (6:02:40 PM): and I'm simply AMAZED at how many women come on this thing looking for something differnet...as if trying to put thier own spin on it to control whats happening
whenuwantsum (6:03:02 PM): The sign says, "Jump off"...but many women come in reading the sign..."maybe romance"
whenuwantsum (6:03:12 PM): then get hurt
sparklelikeice (6:03:16 PM): I didn't say all that
sparklelikeice (6:03:31 PM): I'm with someone. If I want romance I get that from him
sparklelikeice (6:04:16 PM): a jumpoff to me is the same as a booty call...you only call the person for the sex
sparklelikeice (6:04:43 PM): a friend with benefits means we can chill and have fun with or without the sex, but the sex is still the main part
whenuwantsum (6:05:04 PM): I'm laughing my ass off......
whenuwantsum (6:05:10 PM): sorry....but.....
whenuwantsum (6:05:53 PM): only a woman would clearly see the difference and justify that.
sparklelikeice (6:05:57 PM): well. I see we're not on the same page so I hope you find what you're looking for. I'm not trying to hold a debate on this. Take care sweetheart
whenuwantsum (6:06:08 PM): A man looks at it all and says....your getting some on the side. Done. End of story.
Once again...proven women are lying to themselves to justify getting some.
6/20/2005 10:49 am
Frmo a man's point of view, it's called "Just Fucking"....80% of men out there enjoy the friendship of a chick and can just fuck her without ties. He might buy her something to eat, go to the movies, whatever....because 90% of the women out there demand at least that before going to bed with anyone. So he does his dance to get the pussy, has sex, then moves on.|
Women, however, label it "Friends with Benefits"...the exact same thing .... then deny the fact that they are "Just Fucking" and that is exactly all it is.
but I do see the common denominator here....women have an expectation of receiving something before having sex ....sort of a cultured prostituion....so they can easily label whomever they are screwing freely a "friend".
Meanwhile, the man is just fucking.
What I'm trying to do is get women out there to realize the facts that a man ...if he's just wanting you for sex....doesn't want you for much more than that and he's cool with the fact that you don't want him for more than that either.....
But you women screw shit up when you start softening the blow, sort of speak. "We're not just fucking. He's a friend with benefits."
The man is laughing and saying, "I twist that chick out and thats all it is."
The problem is, women believe that being open about "Just having sex" labels them as being sluts from the mens point of view. Not the case. men actually LOVE a woman who can screw freely and be open about it and honest.
It's your fellow WOMEN that have the issue...and women are more afraid of being deemed a slut from a fellow woman than a man.
My two-cents plus change.
6/23/2005 5:08 pm
I REALLY DON'T THINK ALL WOMEN FEEL THAT WAY, I BELIEVE IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE INSECURE WITH THEIR SEXUALITY THAT NEED TO PUT LABELS ON WHAT THEY ARE DOING. MEN DO CALL WOMEN SLUTS AND BITCHES AND THOSE ARE MEN WHO ARE INSECURE WITH THEIR SEXUALITY BECAUSE FOR YEARS AND EVEN NOW WOMEN HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO FREELY EXPRESS THE SAME WANTS, NEEDS AS MEN WITHOUT A LABEL BEING ATTACHED TO THEM IF NOT BY MEN, THEN BY OTHER WOMEN. I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO SEE THE DAY WHEN WOMEN ARE FREE TO VOICE WHAT THEY REALLY FEEL AND WANT FROM A MAN WITHOUT BEING CRITCIZED, FUCK AND LEAVE THEM. THE TRUTH BE TOLD HALF OF THE MEN OUT THERE FUCKING WOMEN ARE NOT DOING HALF THE JOB THEY THINK THEY ARE DOING,SO WOMN NEED TO GET SOMETHING OUT OF THE DEAL. MEN ARE SO QUICK TO FLASH THEIR DICKS AND TALK ABOUT WHAT THEY CAN DO, AND DON'T HAVE A CLUE AS TO WHAT REALLY PLEASES A WOMAN.|
6/24/2005 10:45 am
Well said...any other BOLD women out there to comment on this?|
7/2/2005 7:01 am
Now that's what I'm talking about! I LOVE a woman who doesn't play games and just wants a good fuck (by the way, JSTEATME...why do we keep missing each other....you got my email, too)....A woman who just wants to fuck and says that to me without all that "just friends" bullshit is a real woman straight up. Thats the kind of girl for me. And I'll give her anything.|
Any takers on that?